The kids are fine, but they are still kids. Tis why they spend the majority of time away from my house.

No way to say this nicely, so I may as well go balls to the wall...

Any woman who gives up full time with her kids for a man is utterly worthless and gross.

Sorry we're gonna be enemies now, Wisski, but if that's true she's not worth the cost of the enemas.

Maybe they have 50/50 split. Pretty standard therse days unless one of the parents is more or less worthless.

Maybe she lost custody in court.
Maybe it wasn't her decision.
Sometimes, judges do arbitrary things, like give custody to the dad because hookers aren't always the best parents?
Just one scenario to consider.

You leave my mom out of this god dammit.

/lowhangingjoke

I considered all that, hence the "if that's true"

But that is NOT what he said...

Also, 50/50's are pretty weird, because it doesnt matter what is "fair" to the parents. It matters what's in the best interest of their child...and that is consistency.

You can hate all you want Kristy, people have different values and different motivations. It works for me so /shrug.

Funny this comes up. My cousin who's 21 and childless just posted this article with this caption on Facebook:

Does it make me a horrible person that I understand where this woman is coming from? No, I don't believe it does.

Then her mother is the first to comment with:

If Kristy was in my family she probably would have fought her @ some point.

https://youtu.be/nc1ifhVSciU?t=20s

I think Kristy is a big typer based strictly on skepticism. But fighting family members are fun.

When he says "sheeee-it" might have been my first meme. Saw that when I was 7 or 8 with my cousin & we still say "sheeeee-it" to each other to this day.

I'm ain't even..

Hating would only be an appropriate term if (in the continued presumption that what you say are her motivations) ditching your kids didn't make her an empirical measure of awful self-absorbed dirtbag.

She could choose not to have kids: full support
Choose adoption: ****ing hero
Abortion: meh, to each their own
Ditch them for the laudable game of WisskiJr :bull****

But once they're born and yours you have an obligation. I truly hope that she's ...idk mentally ill or broke:bio Dad's bazillion OS...and THAT'S why she ditched them, but if it really was "for your enjoyment" she's a complete waste of oxygen and you're a fool for settling on someone so scummy.

If we weren't enemies after my first post, I'm sure this will be a push in that direction. For clarity though, I'm assuming you actually love this POS and that you are gonna hate me.

AIOTT is right.

that obligation is what pray tell? Because I believe it's likely to ensure your offspring have the best life possible... Which I can assure you her children have.

So, I'm right. You have nothing to do with her decision?

I saw a mouse trap in the mechanical room of a highrise building years ago, the basement or one of the lower levels. It was a glue trap, and 2 mice were caught in it. They were still alive, and they were gnawing at each other, as if they thought the other was to blame for their predicament. It was sad

False we make decisions together

Well, one of them may have been responsible for both of them being in there.
It's a cool and pointed story, mouse logic being what it is. Thank you for sharing.
I am a little sad now, too.

<3 aiott and cousin meme. That's the good stuff.

I forget its genesis, but my one full sibling, baby bro and I will call each other 'grease' or something derivative like greaseball, degrease or Grecian

Oh, ok.

She's back to being an idiot. You don't matter on kids level until you see her walk down the aisle.

So, what's it like being a sugar daddy to someone with no moral compass..
Sub-question exactly how many minutes would it take her to leave you, like she left her kids, if you got fired or something better came along?

Watching season 9 of Scrubs. I will never understand why this show didn't make it more than 1 season.

Did you put them out of their misery?

Nah. I guess I should've or tried to free em outside