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04-09-2013 , 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by PokerSpiv
No, they think you got a tan from working outside, which means you are poor because the only people who work outside are rice farmers, gardeners, bricklayers, moto taxi drivers etc.
Yeah sure but I thaught it was clear I was talking about ppl that know I dont work on a farm. Somebody would actualy think a westerner would come to Thailand to work on a farm?
I just think its a been like this for so long in Thailand that most thai think dark skin looks dirty.

Last edited by Testi; 04-09-2013 at 10:58 PM. Reason: I apologise to the farmers itt
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04-09-2013 , 11:11 PM
There are actually westerners who do own farms in Thailand, but no I am pretty sure they know you don't work on a farm in Thailand. They might think you're a bricklayer in your home country though.

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he obv doesn't really believe what he is sayin. He's an aussie and i remember wen i live in sydney aussies are super critical about looks and u aint pullin hot aussies if u look like a sack of **** i can guarantee u.
We are not in Australia or your home country though. We are in Thailand. Have you seen the guys that Thai girls post on their facebook walls? They all look like Justin Beiber or Jay Chou. The most popular western males in Thailand are the kids from One Direction. I've never seen a Thai girl post a photo of Channing Tatum or Matthew McConaughey or anyone who could remotely be described as "cut". They like skinny, androgynous guys.

Even if you watch a Thai soap opera, even the "bad boy" cliche isn't muscular. He might have long hair and ride a large motorcycle, that's as far as it goes.

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u aint pullin hot aussies if u look like a sack of **** i can guarantee u.


Pictures of the wedding of Australian model Kristy Hinze to 63-year old billionaire founder of Netscape Jim Clark.

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04-09-2013 , 11:13 PM
I surrender

Edit: We are only aguing about WHY they like white skin so its real not that important anyway.

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04-09-2013 , 11:41 PM
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Edit: We are only aguing about WHY they like white skin so its real not that important anyway.
Well, it's important because the reason they don't like brown skin is the same reason they don't like muscular guys: Both are indicators of someone who does manual labour for a living, which is undesirable to most asians.

In western countries, having a tan and muscles is seen as attractive. It's seen as a sign that you are active and not lazy, and jobs like tradesmen, firefighters and farmers are romanticised. Go to a western woman's hen's night, there will be male strippers dressed up as carpenters, soldiers, police or firefighters.

Many western women fantasize about men with manual jobs. Thai women do not. They want a guy with white skin who works in an office.
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04-10-2013 , 12:04 AM
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Many western women fantasize about men with manual jobs. Thai women do not. They want a guy with white skin who works in an office.
Finally I agree with spiv on something.

Huge muscular guys just tend to scare asian girls, especially the working ones. Slim white guy is the general preference.

Ripped stud guy in Thailand = some isaan laborer or gay bodybuilder.

Even in western countries, women who are into really muscular guys are mostly from blue collar family backgrounds. Beckham kinda guys are mostly prefered and he is not huge in any way, just a regular guy who works out.

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04-10-2013 , 12:05 AM
I think we mostly agree. I'm just saying that even if they know you work in an office or we they still think it looks bad if you get a tan, so its not only about money, its also all the propaganda they are subjected to.
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04-10-2013 , 12:16 AM
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Many western women fantasize about men with manual jobs. Thai women do not. They want a guy with white skin who owns the office.
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04-10-2013 , 12:27 AM
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Tread has not made me gay enought yet to tell if he looks good or not. Just a mather of time I guess.
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04-10-2013 , 12:43 AM
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Tread has not made me gay enought yet to tell if he looks good or not. Just a mather of time I guess.
He's just an average asian guy lol. The thing that makes him attractive to thai women is soley his social status in combination with his light skin (pretty much all really rich thais are light skinned mainly due to chinese blood).

Most 2p2ers are from countries where even the biggest ******s doing blue collar work can sometimes pull in 100k a year with the right job and union, so the appeal of social status (and therefore wealth) is not nearly as strong as in countries like thailand where most people are peasants and their king is one of the richest men in the world.
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04-10-2013 , 12:57 AM
^^ Spot on
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04-10-2013 , 01:31 AM
okay well least now people cant say I was spamming this thread with ****, after spivs last few pages here. Not read a single comment nor shall I.

Anyway I finally managed to review the best beef buffet I always go on about so here it is guys.

http://www.pokervip.com/blogs/a-fara...uffet-bangkok/









Last edited by PeoplesElbow; 04-10-2013 at 01:37 AM. Reason: dont worry, its all #Paleo
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04-10-2013 , 01:42 AM
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This.....


Yes, but the physical traits Western women are looking for are not the same
all the way for Thai girls/women.

They dont want an obese man, but rockhard abs and a body that shows you lift weights, most of them couldnt care less. Bring on the fair skin instead!

Hookers obv dont care about the size of your muscles, only your wallet. But while a regular non-hooker girl may prefer a non-fat guy, the way you look is not not nearly as important to them, as we are used to in Western girls.

So while Spiv may be going a bit overboard in defending his view on people who lift weights, IMO several of you seem to massively overrate how important being fit is, here in Thailand, when it comes to girls.

And how big is your belly sir?

I kinda made a transformation in Thailand from a regular/ bit chubby body to a fit guy look. And it's defenately A LOT more helpfull being a fit guy then not shipping chicks/hot chicks! I have been on both sides of the spectrum. That's why I am really in shock when I see a guy like Pokerspiv defending his cause as it is a given fact most/all Thai girls don't give a F# about a guy being regular/chubby or fit.
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04-10-2013 , 02:02 AM
Bro he is just protecting his ego but deep down I am pretty confident that he actually knows he is wrong.

Also please stop with the argument "Lol billionaires marry hot or powerful girls". It is so laughably bad. It is a straw man in that you are basically saying our position is that money and social status don't mean anything. Which it isn't and nobody has said that *AT ALL*. Being a multimillionaire will trump being the best looking guy possible, to most girls. We get that and nobody is saying otherwise. But there are other factors involved.

Our position is that being fit simply helps with girls a lot and is definitely one of the big factors that girls consider. This is 100% a fact and you are extremely deluded if you think otherwise. There are two extremes of the delusional spectrum with girls in Thailand. One camp thinks the hookers love them for who they are. The other thinks all thai girls are a bunch of hookers that care ONLY about money. Both groups are absolutely wrong and are far out of touch with reality.
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04-10-2013 , 02:18 AM
I never said that girls love fat dudes. Obviously being hugely obese is a turn off. But being muscular is also a turnoff, and there are ways to lose fat other than lifting weights. Jogging, for example.

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Our position is that being fit simply helps with girls a lot and is definitely one of the big factors that girls consider.
Again: Being fit and comparing the size of your biceps with other men are not the same thing.

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It is so laughably bad. It is a straw man in that you are basically saying our position is that money and social status don't mean anything.
This is quite ironic, since you are basically saying my position is that looks don't mean anything. In fact I've said repeatedly that you are simply overrating how important they are, and that social status is more important to most women, but especially in Thailand.

So please don't throw strawman stones when you live in a strawman house made of straw.

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04-10-2013 , 02:18 AM
nah the weights really don't help here - the extra bulk might as well be fat in their eyes. Because they havent put any thought into working out in a gym in their entire lives, and no one they know has, they just don't appreciate nice pecs or nice lats or nice legs or nice shoulders. Even in our countries a guy who is very developed looks goofy to someone that doesn't train, but those who train idolize him.

This isn't coming from a fat guy. I'm 6' 180 with ~10% BF. I would surely be more attractive to them if I dropped 20 lbs of muscle.
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04-10-2013 , 03:02 AM
@piepounder,

A harelip isnt that attractive tho
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04-10-2013 , 03:27 AM
Good to see this thread still delivers on the Bitchin scale!
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04-10-2013 , 03:42 AM
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nah the weights really don't help here - the extra bulk might as well be fat in their eyes. Because they havent put any thought into working out in a gym in their entire lives, and no one they know has, they just don't appreciate nice pecs or nice lats or nice legs or nice shoulders. Even in our countries a guy who is very developed looks goofy to someone that doesn't train, but those who train idolize him.

This isn't coming from a fat guy. I'm 6' 180 with ~10% BF. I would surely be more attractive to them if I dropped 20 lbs of muscle.
Once again, u train for them or for yourself ? Every woman wants to feel safe and i highly doubt they do with skinny guy of 60 kgs. Man should be between 80-95 kg depended on height and its no matter or part of the world u are in.... its just nature.
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04-10-2013 , 04:39 AM
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Once again, u train for them or for yourself ? Every woman wants to feel safe and i highly doubt they do with skinny guy of 60 kgs. Man should be between 80-95 kg depended on height and its no matter or part of the world u are in.... its just nature.

are in thailand? do you see the stature of these people? 80-95kg is a ridiculous number Id guess that less than half a percent of fit thai men are in that range. if thai women valued extra muscle, thai men would be walking around with extra muscle. they arent.

not saying id lose weight. I'm only visiting. just saying pumping iron isnt getting us anywhere with the ladies in thailand
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04-10-2013 , 04:45 AM
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That's why I am really in shock when I see a guy like Pokerspiv defending his cause as it is a given fact most/all Thai girls don't give a F# about a guy being regular/chubby or fit.
He didn't say that one should not try to get in shape. Spiv simply stated that playing sports instead of lifting weights and going to the gym will get you the results you need. To be fair tho only cardio will not do it for a lot of people...

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Bro he is just protecting his ego but deep down I am pretty confident that he actually knows he is wrong.

Our position is that being fit simply helps with girls a lot and is definitely one of the big factors that girls consider.
Please move to Silom and you will see that almost all stunners are with average looking/slightly above average looking Thai guys who have probably never entered a gym in their life. And a lot of stunners are with expats who have respectable jobs (I mean proper career jobs not like English teachers)...they do not look like they lift either.

If you want to appeal to gogo dancers (you couldn't have picked a more superficial and vapid group of girls by the way), then go ahead and make sure that getting in shape is your primary goal in life. However, Spiv's point is that you would be better off improving your social status than your physique.

And as he pointed out, if you want the ideal Thai male physique (who look like K-pop stars and not like Hollywood beefcakes), you might as well start starving yourself instead of trying to get abs. Or start dressing like the Thai karaoke guys...

Dammit, I haven't felt this gay since I picked up one crazy girl from JP bar and she was really eager to show me some pics on her phone. It started out with party picks of her and her hot friends, then I got to see dick pics of her customers. As a preventative measure I locked that freaking gadget in my safe, then she went ape**** and started attacking the safe with her shoes...finally I managed to calm her down after I threatened to kick her out.

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04-10-2013 , 04:56 AM
Hey guys!

When i go to thailand soon, i need a transfer from Suvarnabhumi Airport to Don Muang airport? I guess the best way is to go by taxi? What is a fair price for this? I don't really want to get ripped off

Thanks!
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04-10-2013 , 05:04 AM
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Hey guys!

When i go to thailand soon, i need a transfer from Suvarnabhumi Airport to Don Muang airport? I guess the best way is to go by taxi? What is a fair price for this? I don't really want to get ripped off

Thanks!
insist on meter cab everywhere u go in bkk ull be fine
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04-10-2013 , 05:14 AM
Moved to place with electricity included. Nobody is ****ing me this time.
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04-10-2013 , 05:14 AM
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Hey guys!

When i go to thailand soon, i need a transfer from Suvarnabhumi Airport to Don Muang airport? I guess the best way is to go by taxi? What is a fair price for this? I don't really want to get ripped off

Thanks!
There is also a free shuttle between the two airports.
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04-10-2013 , 05:54 AM
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you are basically saying my position is that looks don't mean anything.
That seems to be your position to me, in the context of gym/muscle talk:

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Girls don't care how big your muscles are
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In Jspill's post, the first picture is way closer to the ideal male body shape
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I've never seen a Thai girl post a photo of Channing Tatum or Matthew McConaughey or anyone who could remotely be described as "cut".
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the reason they don't like brown skin is the same reason they don't like muscular guys
Your position is clearly that you think big muscles are actually a bad thing... or at least neutral. And you're wrong. As one example, I was playing the poker game in bangkok once and this Thai reg girl (definitely from a rich family since shes def a losing player playing 200/400 baht deep) commented several times about how big my arms were and then gave me her phone number. Several times when internet dating the girls would ask me to see my muscles on the cam and comment specifically on that. One of the girls I dated absolutely loved the alpaca looking guy from twilight and posted his picture on Facebook a lot. One time I was at Foxy Lady, the gogo bar in town, and these two dancers were sitting next to me looking at one of my friend's "ripped" pictures on Facebook for quite a long time. And so on.

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