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Originally Posted by rickroll
glgl, please report back
Cheers for the replies y'all.
From what I can make out online there's a lot of variance. Obvs there's gonna be some shenanigans, everyone has their price and there might just be a member of BTS that waltzes in or w/e. We'd all do it! But apparently it's the exception to the rule... so I guess in reality like 50/50, as so much would be between girl and client, with an incentive for secrecy from both parties.
I just know from living in Thailand a long time how that kind of job can affect a girls mindset and attitude towards men. It's pretty easy to spot part time free-lancers posing as 'good girls' on tinder after a couple dates. Fun as hell but you wouldn't wanna date that ****. As for a hostess, if her job was literally to string men along to get as much money out of them as possible I can't help but think it would have a pretty negative effect on a girl's future relationships. I could totes be getting long gamed she's pretty smart lmao. Also a couple red flags like snap closing line if I'm approaching (sponsors, lovers, ex VIP customers lol)?
She has a 'normal' job here and her own place. One thing I can't get my head around is why tf would she move to Thailand for a very regular office job, when she buys all Japanese products, 99% Japanese food, and gets excited by anything Japanese, while complaining about the standard bullshit we all put up with here. It's not like she has friends here - she socializes with her Japanese colleagues and me. She's been here before so should kind of know the score. So my paranoid side goes towards the negative e.g. running away from something, covid dried up hostess bars now she's looking for a sugar daddy etc etc.
Anyways that's my ramblings on negative thoughts I've had. We've been seeing each other for around 3 months and it's been pretty awesome in general. We are gf/bf but these niggling doubts do creep in. I think blue pill trying to 'talk about these doubts' with her would be a big mistake and something I'd try like 5 years ago. I'll just have to gradually suss her out.
Feel free to post opinions, however ugly :P