it's understandable your on a downer . I reckon once you get the travelling out of the way and are in Cambodia you prolly shake it off.


edit. i hate travelling too btw or less with female or friends

Actually, Cambodia is a fair bit cheaper for whores and everything else.

Honestly, I think I'd prefer not being able to even get hard in the first place, to getting hard already being in the act of sex and not be able to cum. I remember this one time in Cebu, this chick was blowing me on the beach, but I had been drinking heavily beforehand and usually have a hard time cumming when I am drunk. No ones going to believe this, but it literally took over 2 hours of her sucking me, for me to cum. How she had the throat muscles to do that for that long and not get tired (this was a 'normal' girl btw, not a hooker,) I'll never know, but it's a good thing for me she was willing to stick with it, cause it's awful when you can't cum. Finally I did though, but like I said literally took over two hours of her sucking away the entire time, for it to happen.

She was down on her knees in the sand on the beach too, which much have felt not so good for such an extended period of time. Man that girl was really a good sport.

So yeah, I'd say not being able to get hard isn't as bad as not being able to cum/taking forever to cum.

Pupil,

I am a pinoy as well and I completely understand our conservative culture. But come on it is a given that these girls are expecting tips. And how does SIB know these girls have never tip in their lives and don’t understand the tipping concept? If he is looking for future relationships he is completely looking in the wrong place. These girls are doing what they are doing for work/money they are not going to be ashamed to accept it. Before they even decided to do this kind of work they have already come in terms of the shame that this line of work brings but they have also factor that doing the job will earn them more money than most Filipinos will make.

If any Americans believe that tipping is not required then try asking yourselves when you walk into a strip bar and pay for a lap dance. Should we not tip afterwards since we have paid for it already?

I finally understand were SIB is coming from. He is actually is the one who doesn’t know the concept of tipping not the girls. He is from Australia where tipping is a new concept.

READ THIS ARTICLE ON TIPPING IN AUSTRALIA/NEW ZEALAND

LINK: http://goaustralia.about.com/od/prac.../a/tipping.htm
The problem is there's no hard and fast rule to go by. Generally Australians and New Zealanders say tipping (see discussion) is not only unnecessary but also a practice to be abhorred since, or so the argument goes, Australian workers in the tourism and other service industries already get paid sufficiently.

In fact, as a practice, tipping is relatively new and has been brought Down Under by those coming from "tipping" societies, particularly Americans.

.................

Anyway SIB just because you are clueless doesn’t mean everyone else is. If you are looking for longer relationships then look elsewhere from any place that you have to pay a bar fine because even if you and she click she will always know that at one point you have paid her for sex and you paying for it. You not paying a tip really don’t make sense at all other than the fact that you come from a country that is new to the idea of tipping. Remember that when you go into these places you are looking to purchase a service and not a long term relationship. Now, if bar fining a girl is the only place where you think you might find a long term relationship then I would say you have bigger problems besides the idea of tipping.

Please, lets just leave the hooker-tipping-discussion now, I think everyone's got enough of material to make up their own opinion by now (after 10+ pages of discussion). I don't think there is anything more to add from now on that hasn't already said tbh.

true, but my hearts been on PI since like 2008 so i had to start here, plus its cheaper to fly into manila, flying into PP from the states was hella expensive and even flying directly to bangkok was more

no way u have anything like fields in cambo though

so ITT why didnt u try teh sekz when the bj wasnt working?


btw i played my hand soooo wrong last night, somehow i think there was like a 30% chance that this girl who literally was the hottest (or tied for the hottest with 1 other) girl ive seen over here may actually have just hung out with me for free some time, but iw as so excited to run into her after thinking i wasnt gonna see her i was over the top on how bad i wanted to go right then and she knew it and took advantage of it, had i kept my cool i coulda maybe got for free or got more for what i paid, but i couldnt handle more so who knows

im not that pissed about how awkward and annoying it was, im more pissed that this girl was amazing and no way in the future she will give me a chance unless i pay big

naw peoples know one has met me, doubt anyone from here ever will


gotta keep the mystery alive as to whether im really real, or if im just some loser kid living in his moms basement reading all sorts of forums to get info on these places and then makin stories up

ive met 1 person from the internet world in my life, and thats only cuz we were playing in a PLO tourney on stars, someone brought up a tourney at caesers the next day and i said id like to play but couldnt afford it and he said he'd by half my action

LOL.

Cambo doesnt have anything like Fields, but its very easy to pick up freelances and reg girls in PP though. First night in you should check out Martini Bar, I found most cambodians to have great body but bad face, but there are also quite a few Vietnamese girls hanging out there surprisingly.

hoping to skip PP altogether and just hop right on a bus to sihinouk if they are still running when i get in, ive had my fun vacation time that i couldnt afford its time to go back to giving 10% effort

but if no buses i will check out that martini bar, also wanna look into red fox and naga world if i have a night there, wont play at naga though still hating live atm

so someone pm'd me saying when he was here the hottest girl he had was from mindanao, both of the 2 hottest girls ive found were from mindanao

for those that dont know thats where white people arent supposed to go because you might get kidnapped

might be worth taking that risk though cuz dizamn the womenz

'gotta keep the mystery alive as to whether im really real, or if im just some loser kid living in his moms basement reading all sorts of forums to get info on these places and then makin stories up'

No mystery as far as I'm concerned.

Depends what time you arrive I guess, if its after 4pm I would wait till the next day. Bus system was a bit chaotic I had to wait 45mins after the scheduled departure time before we got on the road.

mr. 2 posts bringing it strong




sighs i dont wanna leave, if anyone deposits 3k in my bank account for me ill.... i dunno what u name it ill say yes to 99.8% of stuff

he's real. i can't tell you how i know. but i know. i wouldn't stake my forum reputation on it if i wasn't 100% confident.

Its hilarious to witness this. Tipping is not expected in general in SE Asia. Tipping bargirls placates mongers feelings of shame and sorrow. The more well traveled in SE Asia absolutely understand how tipping is regarded as weak. But Silgib and others who are like minded, don't waste your time, you are amongst the camp that "just gets it". Dont waste your time with the bleeding heart captain save a hoes in here, they are far removed from any real understanding of the game...

pathetic

not sure about the no tipping thing, but no girl is going to think badly if you slip a modest tip if they perform above and beyond the call of duty, eg.. 3-holer, swallows, allows bareback FS, etc etc..

its the cheap charlies they dislike. A big reason why many Indians(from India not Native American Indians)are barred from entering gogos in Thailand, they'll all try to share the same drink or if they do BF a girl, once in the loom, the girl will be in for a rude surprise when she sees all his naked buddies waiting for their turn..

Thats actually not entirely true at all, I spent 3 months in Cagayan de Oro last year without a single problem.

But I guess if you go to Zamboanga or such it could be dangerous if you're a foreigner..

sorry guys but your way of thinking is about as selfish as it gets

its not always about you, or how the girl will perceive you

its about the fact that the girls life sucks and she has a horrible job and gets paid almost nothing for it, and u can give her something meaningless to you that can add up over time for her to possibly make her life better


and this is coming from one hell of a selfish SOB who basically doesnt really care about more than a handful of people in the whole world

gonna post my 1 night in bangkok T/R in the thailand thread, but gonna post this comparison of the two (ive been in bangkok for almost 6 hours, obviously im a thailand expert, though not quite the expert i am on PI after my 5 days)

thailand beats the phils =
cleaner
nicer
less humid
seems safer
street food seems safe
meat refrigerated in grocery stores
even in bangkok very easy to get around
more laid back
less people trying to sell you stuff or scam you
less corrupt (so ive been told)

phils over thailand =

girls

winner = phils

(ok ok phils also wins because of english speaking and visa ease)

i find about 75% of non philippino chicks to be somewhat attractive, and really like 30%

id say i find maybe 30% of thai chicks attractive, and really like at most 5%

not to say i wouldnt bang all of em

well except for the unbelievable amount of ladyboys, i saw at most 5 in my 5 days in PI, they are everywhere here

Wait I see a bargirl in distress!

ok couple things from PI today, really are some scammin people, go to get a jeepney to the airport cuz trikes wont go to clark airport, first guy says 500, i know thats way to much for jeepney im expecting to hop on the normal jeepney route and pay 15 but i guess thats not how its done

next guy says 1000, im like laughing at these dudes, they see me with suitcases and think i dont have a clue

i eventually get it down to 150 and instantly 2 philippino chicks come up and only have to pay 100, so i overpaid some i guess but damn, 1000 for a jeepney lol

and then on my flight i had no pesos left and they charged for friggin water, i was so thirsty i eventually had to go back and beg them to drop a couple of ice cubes in my hand

are you ******ed ?

get ur game going dude . the girls arent going anywhere ..ur life there is gunna be based on ur game not the girls ... if u dont get the games up u gunna be hurting cant keep puttin out if u not bring it in kinda like them girls ... kinda a circle huh /// take u awhile to get some cash coming in /// dont count on big score rite off to keep u running