"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 49

yeah i suppose. she never responded to my last text (weird- first time thats happened- usually she will respond late like "im sorry i didnt respond blah blah) so we will see how she responds to the gift. been a weird few days imo.

12-24-2009 , 02:02 AM

#1202

TurnUpTheSun

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 9,757

you realize its that weird stage before the is it a relationship talk, right?

12-24-2009 , 11:13 AM

#1203

GoodGame

SL Bathroom Bachelor

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

for the sake of keeping this thread going i'll mention that i plan on going to the mall with someone tomorrow to go christmas shopping. she first offered to go see avatar but i said i was busy since movies suck as a first date. if things go well i'm going to ask if she wants to come back to my place to hangout. which will be either drinking with roommates and ppl or watching a movie. i'll update on how it goes

update: she's a little younger than i thought she was but i was talking to multiple girls at the time and i got a little confused. she looks older than her age though. it went really well and we picked out the christmas gift for my mom together and then went back to her place where she wrapped the present for me.

we hung out there for a couple of hours and watched the hangover and stuff, even met her mom. nothing happened as far as hooking up but i never tried. pretty sure she's hooked though.

someone update something even if it's very trivial

12-24-2009 , 03:24 PM

#1204

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

sounds solid goodgame... if you got her wrapping gifts for you you are in a good place.

@TUTS- im hoping so. very weird that she didnt respond to my text though. and she doesnt know ive gotten her a gift or anything as of yet so i havent done/acted any different than we had been so its not like i scared her off or something.

12-24-2009 , 03:51 PM

#1205

TurnUpTheSun

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

i go round and round and round with this girl.
it never ends.
ive gotten over her/her over me probly 1000000000000 times.
but somehow, we always find our way back, and one of us ends up hurting the other person.
now its her turn to hurt me. not because she wants to, but because of other factors.
i wish i didnt meet her a zillion years ago. i wish i met her yesterday. then nothing in the past would matter.
imababy.gif

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

I think you realize at this point that it has no future. Best to just walk away and let it be. If you can stay emotionally detached then you can let it continue on like whatever, but it doesn't sound like you can (and I wouldn't be able to either).

the best comparison i can give is we are like the people in eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. no matter what we do, we are drawn to each other. no matter what we do, no matter how long we try to not talk to each other, we always miss each other, and come back to each other. not to sound tacky or whatever, but its seriously like a fate sort of thing. now, she is just extremely confused and has all these feelings going through her head, blah blah blah blah. its an extremely annoying situation, especially since we are still so young, dont necessarily even want a relationship right now, and other outside factors (for example, her friends and parents dont exactly have the greatest perception of me. i was a very different person 4 years ago when they all met me. my life, personality, morals, behavior, attitude and everything have changed a lot since then). its just very frustrating, especially because i believe strongly in fate.

12-24-2009 , 07:15 PM

#1206

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

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Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

"Hey [yeotaJMU], guess what"

>>"Hey [girl]... what?!?!"

"I got a mysterious package in the mail today and now i smell pretty great. Haha thanks so much, i really wasnt expecting that"

ship ship

12-24-2009 , 09:32 PM

#1207

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

you mean siihp siihp amirite?

12-24-2009 , 09:37 PM

#1208

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

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12-24-2009 , 10:35 PM

#1209

krnpeoples

journeyman

Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 314

damn, i was hoping that things would go badly with you so I could feel better about myself.

12-24-2009 , 10:37 PM

#1210

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

hahahahaha

12-24-2009 , 11:06 PM

#1211

thebigeasy59

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Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

"Hey [yeotaJMU], guess what"

>>"Hey [girl]... what?!?!"

"I got a mysterious package in the mail today and now i smell pretty great. Haha thanks so much, i really wasnt expecting that"

"Funny you should say that, because I have a package over here for you"

ship ship

12-25-2009 , 02:07 AM

#1212

CCuster_911

You Only Live Once

Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 24,435

Quote:

Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

this

but add, I cant guarantee that it smells great though

12-25-2009 , 03:20 PM

#1213

JHair

Bagel Man

Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 4,407

ughhhhh

12-25-2009 , 05:48 PM

#1214

TurnUpTheSun

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theres nothing i hate more in the world than being ignored.
nothing.

12-25-2009 , 10:46 PM

#1215

Dankenstein

adept

Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 966

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

theres nothing i hate more in the world than being ignored.
nothing.

..... Here's a reply to your previous post. It's pretty solid advice so I hope you take it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

Best to just walk away and let it be.

12-26-2009 , 10:33 AM

#1216

Flyingbanana

veteran

Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 2,279

Quote:

Best to just walk away and let it be.

Thats the exact opposite of the advice I need I think

I need to show girls I'm actually interested in them. At the moment I really don't care at all. Its an improvement on my previous attitude but I'm happy at the moment just chilling.

12-26-2009 , 02:55 PM

#1217

yeotaJMU

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that should probably be a good thing if you can be indifferent

12-26-2009 , 08:02 PM

#1218

TurnUpTheSun

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i could type the most longest definatly will not read sob story about my life right now but i have no motivation. things with this girl (never posted about her) fell totally apart in the worst way and i have the emotions of a 1 year old and then things at home with my parents fell completely apart at the same time and ive been a complete mess for 3 days. ive been grinding poker so hard, then today blew like half my bankroll that i built up 20x what it was before in 3 days.
half of that gone. everything sucks. im in panera by myself right now cause i cant go home. everything in my life is a terrible situation right now.

12-26-2009 , 08:39 PM

#1219

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,992

Sorry TUTS. Hope things get better in a hurry. Probably best to stay off the poker tables until things elsewhere feel better.

12-26-2009 , 08:41 PM

#1220

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

stay off the tables and away from high ledges... also consider a hooker.

Last edited by yeotaJMU; 12-26-2009 at 08:41 PM. Reason: srsly though its aight it will turn around

12-26-2009 , 08:48 PM

#1221

TurnUpTheSun

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playing 4 tables above my br in panera right now.
go me!

12-26-2009 , 09:04 PM

#1222

krnpeoples

journeyman

Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 314

here, this will cheer you up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0FofNyVY-wY

and stay off the damn poker tables when you're depressed.

12-26-2009 , 10:14 PM

#1223

il_martilo

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

Stay away from the razors TUTS.

12-26-2009 , 10:49 PM

#1224

TurnUpTheSun

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Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 9,757

i dropped to 6th on the sng leaderboard.
need to play 62 $1.75 sngs and do well in them by tomorrow night at midnight.
i usually only 4 table.
gonna 8 table.
gl me.

12-26-2009 , 11:46 PM

#1225

sourdiesel

banned

Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 421

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

ive read a lot of threads here on student life and 2+2, and a common theme (as well as a common theme with me and my friends) is our insecurity when it comes to approaching a girl we have interest in.

in this thread, i propose we share stories (success and failures), tips, and propbets to help the community with girls.

i will start. there is a girl in my class (MWF) and we have "flirted" (i hate using that word, but i dont know what else to call it) for the last couple weeks. I am not sure if she has a bf, which always tilts me because i hate making things uncomfortable no matter where i am. if she has a bf, i have to be in class with her the rest of the semester. if she rejects me, the same awkwardness.

whats my move?

first most college girls don't have bfs and if they do it's usually when they are home for the summer. if she flirted with you she doesn't have a bf, just grow some balls and ask her if she wants to come over later or go out or out with your friends and her friends. she could also be friendly and have no interest in you. do her pupils dilate? have you locked eyes with her? if she smiles and it's not a fake smile then she wants it and you fail... be a man

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