Whatever, it's early. I'm ******ed anyway.

FW? i had a very successful last few days in florida with her but i told myself id stop posting trip report updates in this thread about it because every time i did i jinxed myself lol.

Gah.

There are no jinxes.

How can you write this and then not define "very successful"

I'm going camping this weekend with a bunch of my friends, and it just so happens that our old friend B is coming. I haven't liked her for months, but I think I'm going to seduce her out of spite for last semester.

Results orientated imo. Poker should have taught you that

I told the girl I wasn't going fwiw guys...thanks for the advice

Instead, I'm going to florida and chillen with this guy>>>

If you went to the prom with that girl I may have petitioned to take away your posting rights. Good decision.

I'm surprised you said this. You seem very traditional, the sort of guy that would go with her anyway to be a gentleman. Perhaps I've got you pegged wrong.

Something similar happened to me a few years ago and it sucked sooooo much. I was going to homecoming with this girl that was sort of like a girlfriend I guess. I was coming home from university anyway, and her dance was the same weekend. She was a year younger, so I was going to her high school dance. The week leading up, mutual friend gets pissed when I say I'll probably spend more time with my date than with MF. The night before we were talking and it was clear something was off with GF. I was excited about it and she wasn't. Plus our mutual friend told me that GF was saying she didn't even wanna go with me and stuff. So I ask what's up and GF tells me she no longer likes me like that. WTF!

I later found out that our mutual friend told her that I cheated on her the day before, which I didn't. Mutual friend played it brilliantly, cause there was one night that GF was suspicious about me and this other girl, but we were just joking around. What a ****ing bitch our mutual friend was. But I kind of admire her conniving and backstabbing skills.

Anyway, I went to the dance and it totally blew.

I'm largely of the traditional mold too, and under some circumstances it would be the right thing to do to keep your date so that the girl has someone to go with.

However, this girl was just using him at this point, and being rude to him by excluding him from the after-party, so **** her.

Anyway, the situation sounds like it's all resolved now.

bingo bango ^

but now she doesn't have a date to the prom.

Perhaps she won't be such an ass in future then.

her friends keep pushing me to ask her out on more dates (we've been on 1.5) though. does that change anything? i told one of her friends straight up i can't really read her, but she said that i should pursue her. likelihood of her just saying that in case someone better comes along? likelihood of her just really not wanting a bf? same girl in my first post btw where i was a pussy and didn't put my arm around her. lol.

IF anything, it changes to the worse. So you are pursuing someone, because her friends tell you do it?
This is like the definition of needy and will eventually lead into a pussy whipping.

it's always sunny in philly- d.e.n.n.i.s. sytem/ thread

such a good episode

Well, went out to the bar with a couple buddies last night, turns out WG (Work Girl) has been hanging out (exactly how it was said to me) with a buddy of mine, so that is off the table for now.

God damn small towns. Only 2 more months at least.

no, i really like her. i just didn't want to pursue someone who's not interested in a relationship or me atm . unless you're already aware of that, and i still needy and pussy whipped! in which case,

You should get all the info you need from her, not her friends.

This is an overgeneralization. I've gotten some valuable nuggets of information from friends of girls I was chasing over the years. I can think of at least three times that a friend was like "Hey so she likes you/thinks your cute/thinks you don't like her back" and this knowledge encouraged me to pursue when I otherwise wouldn't have. Friends can really facilitate things, imo.

Question about macking da fly honeyz:

If a girl who you have flirted pretty hard with but not sexed is going out of town for a long period of time(a few months), what's the best play to keep her on the back burner?

You should have the balls to pursue her in the first place and not after she said she likes you.

Probably kinda ignore her until she's back, there is nothing you could really do. Maybe text/aim with her a bit, but besides that, if she wants to **** you, she still wants to in a few months.

For a girl that I meet myself, this is true. But for girls that are in your social circle, making a pass and finding out your crush is not reciprocal can be very embarrassing. One of my guy friends tried pretty hard with this girl in our group a few years ago, and we still bring it up often and give him **** about it. He's also a douche, but that pursuit didn't help his cause.

depends.. by not sexed does that assume no hooking up in any regard whatsoever?

I agree with this guy.

It's not like we should feel the need to pursue each and every girl that we would at least have a willingness to hook up with.