"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 2429

My tinder has been booming lately. Got laid yesterday and got 2 dates lined up this weekend. Key for me is to be forward and not frame it in a way that i want something serious, this is kinda important especially with tinder sloots, one of the dates 2moro is from okc though the other is from tinder.

09-18-2015 , 06:40 PM

#60702

LT22

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Originally Posted by wsopmichael

Examples of convos?

09-18-2015 , 08:32 PM

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TheWal1

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Whoever suggested the barstool sports snap....you're making 24 year old me resent my 18 year old self and his poor choices.

09-18-2015 , 09:20 PM

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LazyTops5

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You and me both brah

09-19-2015 , 03:11 PM

#60705

the pleasure

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hate to say remember when since it can be the lowest form of convo but yea tinder used to be a goldmine back 3-4 years ago. so much quality and seemed like everyone was using it.

09-19-2015 , 05:31 PM

#60706

fuluck414

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TheWal1

Whoever suggested the barstool sports snap....you're making 24 year old me resent my 18 year old self and his poor choices.

Starting to make me regret not going to college

09-19-2015 , 07:12 PM

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wetleg

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This Alabama girl was on the barstool snap tonight. I've actually heard of her before. Damn she's fine.

https://instagram.com/emclayy/

And a huge lol to this guy...https://instagram.com/gklinggeorge/ who put a hmu and his phone number in the comments on one of her pics.

Last edited by wetleg; 09-19-2015 at 07:34 PM.

09-19-2015 , 11:14 PM

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LazyTops5

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I miss being 20

Only thing from me is, Def don't text her right after getting the number with "whats her plan" just shoulda waited until tonight or next weekend and invite her and some friends to pregame with you and some bros with a good amount of alcohol before heading to a party

09-20-2015 , 09:02 AM

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LT22

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Originally Posted by TheBirdman

Yeah you are definitely right, regretted it right as I did it.

I think at times I can get too results oriented. Like if I don't get with this girl tonight then somehow I've failed, instead of it just being a part of the process.

This is exactly what I was going to say. You're putting the end goal on a pedestal. The end goal should be having fun while mingling and meeting new people at parties. If you ever think "How am I going to hook up with this girl?" then you[re doing it wrong.

09-20-2015 , 09:49 AM

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bobboufl11

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Nice posts Birdman.. Keep it up

09-20-2015 , 09:58 AM

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Christophersen

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First problem: playing smash bros tourny. The girls can smell the nerd all over you

09-20-2015 , 10:10 AM

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bobboufl11

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I don't like telling the hot girl she's hot. If she's standing alone there's an opportunity to make a joke or playfully tease her there, or even just regular small talk to prove you can carry a conversation and seem normal. Definitely better than pussing out and not approaching though.

I don't like the sound of consciously trying to act confident, guess we'd have to be there but that doesn't seem like it'd be effective or the right mindset to have

09-20-2015 , 01:53 PM

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Spurious

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Originally Posted by Christophersen

First problem: playing smash bros tourny. The girls can smell the nerd all over you

Yeah that's my biggest concern with all of the stories, there is just too much video game playing going on.

09-20-2015 , 02:07 PM

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GoodGame

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Did molly back to back nights. Smashed a girl who I thought was a lesbian the whole time. Still convinced she is. She liked getting slapped. Life is weird

A super cute old tinder girl was bartending the festival and we made plans to do dinner Sunday. Was superrrr into me first day. But I ran into her while on molly with my shirt off last night and didn't seem into it again. I'm too broke and still ****ed up to go out anyways

09-20-2015 , 02:08 PM

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GoodGame

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Oh also I finally saw Chance (my avatar) live. Was sooo good

09-20-2015 , 03:04 PM

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LT22

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Originally Posted by TheBirdman

Yeah definitely. But what I'm struggling with is determining mid party whether to continue pursuing that girl or just move on. Like that convo could be a base for initiating another time or it could be building it up for that night where I could make a move, but it's just hard to decide which is which ya know?

You need to have a little awareness of how the other person perceives you. In your most recent TR it sounded like those girls weren't really interested which led to failure when you asked. The long-term best is to recognize before you ask.

Also, it would seem you might be spending too much time the first meet. Go up to them, introduce yourself, make some type of connection, and then don't be afraid to go mingle with others. Come back to that girl later if you felt a vibe.

09-20-2015 , 07:03 PM

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daaabatman

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

Oh also I finally saw Chance (my avatar) live. Was sooo good

Molly and chance!?!? That's a wrap

09-21-2015 , 09:41 AM

#60718

TheWal1

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Spurious

Yeah that's my biggest concern with all of the stories, there is just too much video game playing going on.

Nothing wrong with playing some video games midweek when there isn't much going on, but it seems to be taking up too much of his time before going out / during a party. Definitely better to have a solid pregame instead of spending the whole night catching up.

09-21-2015 , 03:08 PM

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Sciolist

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I think it's perfectly fine to play games, just not when you're at a party.

09-21-2015 , 04:10 PM

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Christophersen

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I love video games and have an addictive personality for sure toward them but I am actively cutting them out of my life and trying to be more productive.

For fun more active things like sports, casual, competitive, social. Any are great.

For just killing time, so much to read/research to expand your mind instead of video games.

Video games are a crutch in a not great way for me and many people.

09-21-2015 , 04:43 PM

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Sciolist

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I'm not interested in doing sports, I already go out a lot, and I already work a lot. I've read 58 books this year so far, says goodreads. If you watch almost no TV/films, it's easy to have time to play games.

I find it important to have some time to myself every week, just as I find it important to have some time with other people.