I'd say chances are high that the girl is insane and the story ends badly.

And if he only wants to get laid, I dont know why he doesnt go out to a club or w/e and takes a random girl home.

Why the heck are you dating right away? I realize it was a bad, hurtful relationship you got out of, but let yourself emotionally heal a bit. Get yucky with the boys, catch up on TV, read a book, improve yourself. Dating others so soon, even booty calls, is bound to bring about memories of your ex and depression over it.

lame story time

was out friday night after playing volleyball at the beach. end up meeting one of the girls on the team at a bar who missed the game because she got the time wrong, lolwomen. anyway its just me her and one of her friends, shes like a 8 but would hit, friend is 5ish. things goings pretty well imo, stay for a few hours, her friend starts getting close to another guy, there is some bro trying to hit on the girl and me, buying us all drinks and the girl tells me she thinks he is gay and boring but wants to get more drinks out of him. dude also told some story about being on the us olympic volleyball team before getting kicked off for failing a drug test. anyway night is winding down and i think things are going good, even drops a line that she is too drunk to drive home and wont be ok until morning. in amirite? butnahhhhhhhhhh, she starts texting another friend who shows up at the bar, then they leave to go to a lounge down the street together, i cant get in because im still wearing my volleyball clothes, so i walk to the subway and go home, grab some taco bell then looked at my kingdom and i was finally there to set on my throne as the prince of bel air.

I have to agree with Spurious.

My sample size is small (dated one girl and almost went out a date with another and then cancelled) Both were beyond insane (one thought she was Sarah Connor). If I add in my friends who dated girls with kids it makes the sample bigger and still roughly 75% crazy.

Dating girls with kids even if they are sane is a really bad idea. It will come down to she either has to be boring or she has to be a ****ty mom which makes her someone you'd not really be interested in spending time with.

Well, it's about damn time. I keep expecting a phb post to end this way.

what could go wrong?

GG what's the TR on your TB situation

you don't usually hit 8's?

lol ya i saw that too, it is a odd wording but you know what he meant.

actually i originally rated 7 then changed to 8 upon reflection

anyway im obv not gonna contact her until friday then will get back to work. hopefully she didnt text up the olympic guy to find out for sure if he was gay or not

What is the SOP in this situation:

Me and a friend (girl, but she is married) go out and grab lunch. Do I buy her food? (would hit if available)
What if let's say a colleague of hers joins us?

um no do not buy lunch for your married friend

Just you and her, yes. I think the second part is worded incorrectly.

Don't feed her entire college.

What about her high school?

I'll obviously say pay for all female friends at all times.

If the colleague is female also pay. If colleague is male it depends.

Reread and realized you probably meant colleague. With the details you gave I'd say pay for both. Obviously if she brings ten colleagues don't pay for everyone but where the line is drawn just depends on the specific relationships involved (and your own money situation of course). I don't think having a sexual interest in the female really matters, just a part of being a gentleman. If it's just me and one or two female friends I'm paying every time.

Edit: This of course assumes the colleague is female. I doubt I would if colleague is male but just depends.

Random funny story kind of related to Dante's question.

Couple weeks ago my friend goes on date number like 4 or 5 with a girl. She texts him before asking if she can bring her good friend, he says no problem. Her good friend turns out to be a gay guy (again, no problem for my friend). My buddy pays for himself and the girl only for the girl to pay for the gay guy lol.

So I'm super busy studying right now. Freedom starts tomorrow.

On saturday my roommate inconsiderately decided to bring 4 people over to pre-drink. 3 girls and a guy. I know them all, but not really friends with them. Decided to stop studying while they pre'd. Was talking to this one girl for a while. She kept trying to get me to go out. I kept denying because I was too busy and couldn't afford the hangover. Really debated it because it seemed like the writing was on the wall.

Anyways, she texted my roommate the next day saying he has to convince me to go out next time. Obviously I will since I'll be free. The ironic thing is this girl really doesn't like cuddle girl, don't know why, since they don't really know each other. But basically she saw my roommate texting cuddle girl the other day, and was like 'why are you messaging xxx?'. He said how they were friends, and she went off about how she really doesn't like her. I'm sure cuddle girl has nothing to say one way or the other about this chic, so it's kind of strange.

Anyways, friday or saturday this girl is getting pumped.

I always pay for my female friends when it is just the two of us going out to eat (regardless of if I'm trying to hit or not). If she brings a friend then I would assume that they both expect to pay for themselves. It just seems weird for a girl to bring her friend along and then expect you to pay for the both of them. It seems equally as weird to pay for you and your friend while making the other person pay their own bill.

yes, do not ever let a woman pay for a meal. doesn't matter if she's a friend, married, whatever.

paying for colleague would depend on the price of the meal and the financial status of the colleague.

Are you guys leveling or what? There is no way it's standard to pay for every female you eat with unless you are in a >>> financial situation imo

It not being standard is one reason it's a benefit to do so. Working out and dressing well aren't standard either...

working out is standard isnt it.

lol no