I think hes 26

Me please. The replies sound interesting.

pm please disko

Agreed Can you send me diskoteque?

Yeah, pretty sure this. I couldn't figure out if he meant he just made it, or was just out of it by 5 months.

all PMs sent.

for those who have read: text on wed for thurs dinner sound good?

I rechecked this thread to see if any other opinions were voiced. I see I got knocked quite a bit, I understand it's the nature of the internet, but I believe things got blown way out of proportion.

I'm not afraid of approaching, I'm not socially awkward, and I'm social. I've approached girls in the past, been rejected, you just brush it off. I'm not gonna be sitting in my room writing love poetry if things go badly.

Anyways, I havn't done much yet. I havn't really seen a natural opportunity to chat up after class, so I may just go plop down a seat away from her one day and just have casual conversation. I'm not gonna sit down and creep her out by hitting on her, I'm just gonna sit and talk a bit before class. If it goes well and I'm chatting her up as we we're walking from class just mention I'm gonna grab some coffee or whatever and that she should join me.

I think sitting next to her in a smaller discussion seems more natural than a big lecture hall imo.

disko: i would text the day before to confirm(dont have to end texting just initiate or even bring it up mid text convo doesnt amtter) then call her the day of.

Maybe I missed this, but are you going to pursue a relationship with this girl?

He said he is.

i think so but don't know for sure...haven't had to make that decision in many many years lol so its kinda hard imagining a GF-lifestyle.

she's probably the one girl i've met that i'd consider dating seriously.

sure, that ought to be fine. it seems like at your age you ought to be calling, but i'm sure you know better than me.

Can't you have another private forum for those who didn't get the PM?

hallsofshambala,

I don't think anyone was hard on you. If anything we were hard on the situation. It is just hard to do what you want to do without making it obvious that you are trying to do it.

Thanks for tr. I know the feeling you've got right now, it's an odd one. In this "game" we play it feels like she is exempt right? Different.

Go for it. What ya go to lose?

Tough love my friend. I think what most people were trying to convey to you is not something related specifically to this situation. It was more of a suggestion of an almost lifestyle choice to a. take most social opportunities to talk to cool girls and b. don't get hung up on girls ... interact with them naturally and as you meet them.

It's understandable that you see someone and want to go chat to her. And no matter how much your mind tells you "**** it just do it" you need to be realistic. And I'll tell you what's realistic in your case ... she's in your class, natural interactions and opportunities WILL occur. You just make sure you're ready to take them. Keep your eyes open, and when the opportunities arise make sure you take them. You'll have a ****ing awesome life if you do, I promise you that much.

God. The replies sound "why the **** aren't you posting in the thread".

PM please disco

On phone and won't be home for a bit... anyone who has the tr can feel free to send it to fryke

I'll do it now.

Lol just post the TR. Unless there is pictures of her there's absolutely no reason to not post it. Atm this thread is ridiculous.

Finally we've reached elite club status.

Details are specific enough that I would not post it openly.

yeah i had no idea there wouldve been this kind of demand for my TR. sorry!

90% of the people i sent it to had no response anyway so thats kinda why i didnt post it in the thread.

as henry said, its pretty specific and better be safe than sorry.

HENRY: thoughts on the text/dinner timeline? i'm thinking tues/thur or wed/thur

So you'd text her on Tuesday/Wednesday and then call on Thursday to confirm and have dinner on Thursday?