It comes every 15 minutes. The last three scheduled arrivals didn't come. We'd both been waiting about 45 mins. They say if the next one doesn't come we are thinking of getting a drink. The next one is full and doesn't even stop. They go.

Standard.

Huge +1 to this. 90% of the bars downtown just don't even bother opening.

I remember the year no one got shot. That was actually the front page headline that we got though the festival with no one shooting anyone.

TIFF on the other hand will be a good time.

maybe assani is working a double shift with the gcg account and the kevin B thread

What?

Kevin B is probably a level but I think it is almost impossible to think GcG is a level.

I think Kevin B is for real.

As one poster put it in that thread, standard "old man on the internet" behavior. He's a complete idiot, but I think he's for real.

No way Kevin B is a level, unless he planned the level several years ago

Exactly. In that thread I tracked down a random comment he left on some unknown blog several years ago trying to push his script initially. Even Assani doesn't have the craftsmanship to pull what has gone on with Kevin.

Any good TRs? It's the wknd did anyone do anything?

Not me. I wanted to go to the sports bar with some dudes and not get laid, but my friends are out of town and football isn't back in season yet anyway.

this gives me an excellent idea.

Do you actually go to screenings or just the night life in the area is a good time?

Mflip what happened w that girl that you posted abt

Went on a couple dates, hooked up then I left the province for the next month lol. I'll see her when I go back in September.

Just the night life. I haven't been in quite a few years. I looked at booking a room at the Hazelton but booked solid already. I figured I've try for 2012 but again they already have the whole hotel reserved.

A good girl friend, know her from university, visited me this weekend along with two of her girl friends. She sent me a text like 3 weeks ago and asked if I'd be in my home town during this weekend, it's summer so I'm "home" instead of residing in the town where the university is. Anyways, I replied said I'd be home and offered her and her friends to stay at my house if they were coming since my parents are at our country house during the summer so there is plenty of room. They gladly accepted.

Now some, maybe important (?), background info: One year ago we made out, I had a gf at that time, and they knew each other. No drama came out of, as far as I know we are the only two that know about this. Nothing more has happened after that. We haven't talked about it and none of us, I believe, have ever tried to initiate anything at another time. Obv I know we are attracted to each other but I'm attracted to many of my girl friends so nothing really special about that.

Anyways fastforward to yesterday we are out having a great time and and get home late and she wants to go swim with me in the ocean (live nearby). I'm pretty drunk, well all four of us are. Her two friends stay and make some late night food at home while we two head down to the ocean. On our way down there's this feeling that you just know something is going to happen. As soon as we get up from the water and sit on the beach I go for the kiss and we make out for a good bit. Then we head up again, have some make out sessions on the way, then go inside and eat what her friends have made while we say good night to them. After that we hit the couch in our living room and start making out again. She's touching my dick and I'm basically all over her body however she wont let me finger her or have my hand at here vagina. I'm horny and I can tell she is too by the way she's breathing and handling her self. She says that even though she wants to have sex badly it would be a bad idea because we are very good friends and she would hate for it to ruin the friendship if it would be awkward after. I don't really respond to it just say ok and keep making out with her which she deff didn't mind, she even says it's great make out session . After a while I really just want to have sex with her and ask if she wants to come up to my room and continue there and she says that she won't come up because then we'll have sex. We stay for like 10 min more just kissing and touching (everywhere except her pussy because every time I go for it she grabs my hand and takes it away) and she's having her hand on my dick. Well anyways enough is enough we get up and I kiss her good night and she goes into her and her friends' room while I head up stairs to mine.

Nothing was weird to today when we woke up this morning and saw each other. She sent a text this evening after they left saying her and her friends had have such a good time and that the "weekend was great in every kind of way". Perhaps I'm reading to much into the phrasing.

What do you guys think, could I have had sex with her? Will I have sex with here in the future? Is the difference between a xxx makeout session and sex really that big?

Can a friendship get ruined by having sex? I'm not looking for a LTR which I guess she knows.

Lol this got way too long prob didn't need that much info.

If you have any tips for TIFF time, PM me. There are quite a few interesting films being shown so I'm going to try to get a couple sets of tickets to different things. Even if I don't I'm going to be living close enough to that area that I'll be around for a bunch of it anyway.

couchsurf then.

1. She wanted to have sex.
2. You should have pushed for sex, if you wanted to have sex.
3. There cant be a sexless friendship between two people who want to have sex with each other.
4. The dynamics of a friendship change when people have sex with each other.
5. I dont know the difference between having sex and making out, talking about sex and being all over each other in regards to the friendship.

I actually do too, but calling every crazy poster ever assa.ni is a funny meme.


Also, I think Kevin B started out very serious, but I'm pretty sure he exaggerates the **** out of things now just to tilt people even worse than before.

O RLY?

Yes she wanted to do it. Yes you could have pushed the issue. Yes, you will have another opportunity after she's had some time to process. Yes, you did a good job not pushing it. Having some girl refuse more than 3x should tell you that she's asking you to respect her boundaries, and pushing that edge feels wrong to me because she's clearly interested and because you'll have another crack at it. Also, don't want to feel like a rapist IMO.

Oh, yeah, we are rapists now, just because a woman cant think straight because of her emotions.

She could have repeated it 8 times, it would have made no difference. She wanted to have sex, but didnt want to be the one breaking up the friendship (if that's even going to happen).

If a girl is intoxicated in any form and expressly states she does not want to have sex, I highly, highly caution you against pressing the issue, even if she goes along with it later. This has turned out VERY badly for many men in a court system which has the deck stacked against them already.

If she says no and later says yes while she is drunk, keep in mind that in many courtrooms she will be found unable to consent due to her intoxicated nature. Furthermore, booze or not, she can claim you placed her under duress or whatever. Trust me, the odds are against you and it ain't worth it. Again, I'm applying this to a situation where she explicitly says "No, I don't want to do this" and not the obvious cat-and-mouse situation many men find themselves in when initiating sex.

http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/...=love-contract

Read the situation again, she said she wanted to have sex, the reason she didnt pursue it was because of the friendship.

You dont really sign a contract with a women before you make out, do you?