Dating Advice
- Been asking same girl out over and over for like 6 years....
OK so asked her for her number as a customer where she was a waitress and got the awkward no. The type of no where OK you are finished you don't ask again. Years later at a bar she approached me (I don't think she remembered me but who knows), flirted, asked me to go outside for a cigarette. I am a big chicken but I kept running into her at this bar and asked for her number again, and got it.
If I text her she will almost always respond promptly. If I ask her out, she has an excuse. It's always different. Work, she agrees but then cancels, says maybe and doesn't, claims she's busy attending a gay pride parade (this was the latest excuse) Now most women try to avoid a guy that asked them out and their not interested in after they've asked them out twice (sometimes just once), but she continues to be flirty when I see her (now I go to the bar shes a bartender at), takes drinks off the checks. If there are multiple male customers she will pay me more attention. I'll ask her out again, she'll say no, but will continue this process.
Can someone (orangerake?) possibly explain what her motivation is for behaving this way and If there is something I can do that I'm missing. Whenever girls aren't interested and I ask, they ALWAYS will become uncomfortable around me in all subsequent meetings, so I'll give up. I have never seen anything like this.