Quote:
Originally Posted by Birdman10687
I feel like I explained why not in my post about zork:
1) you assume people believe what they believe because of “reason” when instead it usually has more to do with what is in their best interest
2) people usually cover up their true believe with an excuse. People aren’t pro-life because they care about saving babies. They are pro-life because they want control over the means of reproduction. What good does it do to show zorkman that pro-choice policies actual lower abortions when he really just wants to control women?
I’m not sure whose quote it is but the idea that “socialism is not for the bourgeoisie” rings true here. Point being that socialism is about ending class rule so why would the ruling class ever acquiesce to it? It doesn’t matter how muc “convincing” you try to do—it is in their interest NOT to agree/believe/understand you.
Like I said there are the rare exceptions, but ultimately people are going to believe what they want to believe and they shape a narrative to justify it. Not the other way around.
The problem with basing beliefs on interests is that interests are inconstant and internally inconsistent - I want to be well-liked, but I want to be left alone, eg. Generally, I agree that you should focus on a person's interests, as much as possible, when trying to convince them of something. Of course, calling people names in this vein will almost always be the wrong course of action.
When you presume to know what other people want, you lose credibility with them, especially when they disagree.
"You're telling me what I want" (I don't think I want that) "(I think) you have nfi what you're talking about"
Quote:
pro-choice policies actual lower abortions
are you sure you aren't misconstruing the evidence on this point? maybe they lower abortion-related deaths?