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Originally Posted by well named
You remind me that yesterday I pointed out (in response to the question of whether or not all of the exiles were just trolls) that the forum tends to interpret "argues badly" as trolling, and that's definitely one thing they all tend to have in common.
Agree. Except that, some of the arguing/debating seems to go beyond bad and into bad faith/disingenuity, which I can definitely see as trolling, or at the very least unwelcome. I'd say bundy sailed into these waters a little while ago on this same sex marriage issue.
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Originally Posted by bundy5
The courts aren't experts? You do realise they take expert evidence in forming their opinions, don't you?
LOL. I love that you take the entire post, and ignore all the important points to cherry pick this one thing you have an argument for.
Yes, I understand that the two sides can bring in their own experts. So then, can you cite any court cases where such experts came in and testified in a same sex case that there was no benefit in partner X having joint custody with partner Y, since they were the same sex?
And any responses to the actual meat of that post?
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Originally Posted by lol_at_you
bundy do you have any evidence that the courts wouldn't also find value in a kid spending time with both partners of a same sex divorce and rule in that manner? I don't think the courts finding value in a kid spending time with both parents means what you think it means.
Right, this is exactly what I'm trying to get at. Perhaps you've stated it more clearly so bundy can understand, although I suspect lack of understanding my point isn't the issue.
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Originally Posted by bundy5
That is nothing different to keeping a father in a child's life where he has separated from the mother just because he was the father and brings no redeeming qualities to the child's healthy upbringing of having that influence of both sexes.
I have no idea what your point is any more. But I'm starting to care less and less.