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Originally Posted by jjshabado
Dave, these conversations still aren't honest. They may seem like it, but they aren't. The vast majority of people are going to stay away from awkward/uncomfortable topics with someone they're interviewing - especially in formal interviews but even in informal ones as well. Telling people what they need to do to re-apply in 2+ years is just one more way of softening the "we don't want you now" message that they're actually giving you.*
I'll allow that you are correct here. I find it strange though that some interviewers like to give further advice on this or that, especially when I don't ask for it. The advice is all sort of the same, but ultimately nothing helpful.
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I have no idea what the quoted means. Like I can't even think of an example of what the quoted could mean.
This is a strange product I have, and one that I think adds a little into the mysterious ideal of "skills." The feedback I've gotten on this project is like this:
"That's impressive. I looked through the code and it is very well thought-out."
"Amazing functionality! You didn't mess up security either."
"I though you would have had some experience working if you created this."
"So, who helped you with that? You didn't do that alone."
"What a waste of time."
"You are just looking to get sued."
"You had developers in India do this for you."
"You didn't do all of that alone. You're a liar."
That project gets considerable attention and it draws out extreme reactions like this. It's either I managed to pull of some "improbable" feat or I'm a snake oil charlatan, and my "skills" are often evaluated based on opinion and nothing measurable. Yes, I've had people say incredibly rude things to me as well, but that's another subject.
Personally, I don't know what is so "impressive" about it. It's the 3rd large project I've done, I've been working on it off and on for 2 years, and it had a ton of false starts. What's truly amusing is how few people get the fact that it is nothing more than a collection of tools, and the web interface is about 50% of what it actually does (because I haven't pushed everything together yet).
I certainly can't answer how I did it, because, honestly, it is pretty simple and straightforward. I certainly don't understand why it would cause companies to suggest I try for more difficult positions or why it would make people think I'm some sort of middle / senior level programmer.
In any case, this project is the main reason I tell anyone that is looking to get started to just create a simple app that is 300 LOC, stop there, and start applying. My impression is that no one really cares what you are able to do and "good enough" or "skilled" is a very low bar.
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I don't mean to pick on you, and I'll let it go at this point if you'd like. But you probably need to do a very deep and harsh self-evaluation if you want to move forward. And you need to not rely on what other people say and look at what they're actually doing.
I honestly don't know what the other issues are, and trust me, I invested a lot of time in counseling for this. No one understands it, and my ultimate conclusion is that it doesn't really matter.