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Originally Posted by CalledDownLight
this guy took 4 months. backrhodes took 2.5 years and straight disappeared for a while out of the box (I was one of the people owed in that instance). its not even clear how much tdome owes certain people at this point, just the total liability. Its possible this is resolved in days or weeks as opposed to never.
I am advocating waiting to judge his character and simply sticking to condemning his actions as deplorable. This is not at all the same as me saying his actions are even remotely ok or that he should be trusted to handle other people's funds going forward. It is possible to be a harsh judge of actions, be demanding of justice, and persistent in trying to collect without condemning the man himself or asserting that he has no integrity and a poor moral compass.
He took 4 months but he owed 28k in refunds at the time his package ended. 4 months would be a totally reasonable time period to pay back what is owed here. The odds of this being resolved in days or weeks is not feasible at all unless he binks a giant tournament, gets a friend to buy his debt, etc. Given the information we have that's an extremely minuscule chance of happening.
He condemned himself when he stole 15k. Any judgement toward his character, integrity, or lack thereof is 100% justified. Once he starts paying people back, or outlines a payment plan, then we can start talking about going in the other direction with those judgments.
So far, with a self-ban, a plan to play staked poker and no plans to get a job - he's not off to a great start.