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04-21-2016 , 03:17 AM
Your revolution is over mr walking. Condolences. The bigots lost. The bigots will always lose.* My advice is to do what your parents did when faced with desegregation, seeth quietly and tune into am radio sir.



*eventually

Last edited by tomdemaine; 04-21-2016 at 03:44 AM.
04-21-2016 , 03:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Louis Cyphre
I agree with this although I am not certain that "willful" is always correct.

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A few pages back someone said having the discussion about same-sex marriage is akin to a a discussion about interracial marriage. Neither should have a place in any academic setting because the issue should be considered settled. (paraphrasing here)
To this I say that I don't think they are comparable because one is established law that is not going anywhere while the other is still a current fight for equality. Until same-sex marriage is as uncontroversial as interracial marriage there is still a time and a place to have this discussion. Even if it is only to point out that there are only flawed arguments against marriage equality.
This is not a comment on whether this should have happened in the incident brought up in this thread.
So its controversial because people are arguing about it and people should be able to argue about it because its still controversial? It seems pretty damn settled to me. To the highest court in your land too. Maybe you live in saudi arabia or russia or something but over here we've settled the issue. Turns out people can marry who they like no matter the combination of their genitals. Sorry for the spoilers.
04-21-2016 , 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted by tomdemaine
So its controversial because people are arguing about it and people should be able to argue about it because its still controversial? It seems pretty damn settled to me. To the highest court in your land too. Maybe you live in saudi arabia or russia or something but over here we've settled the issue. Turns out people can marry who they like no matter the combination of their genitals. Sorry for the spoilers.
I think he just means relatively. Like, if I hear somebody talk about how they're against interracial marriage I think they stepped out of a time machine or are trolling, but if they're against gay marriage I think, ok, we're still barely in the window, on the cusp, of this qualifying as "new stuff" so there's time for the slow children to catch up. True social acceptance just takes time.
04-21-2016 , 04:42 AM
Grunch #1:

First 3 replies and already 5star thread IMO.

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Originally Posted by FlyWf
As has been obvious from the start, the whole trigger warnings/safe spaces thing(which doesn't really exist from the left except as isolated anecdotes) is projection from the right, who literally built an entire media/entertainment ecosystem to avoid being told news that upsets them.

I don't remember if someone posted it but Vox published a... letter? or something from a Trump supporting Ph.D. student all about the same ****, about how tough it is as a white dude to support an openly racist candidate.
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Originally Posted by ikestoys
This is absurdly stupid, even for you.

Do we really need to go over the number of safe spaces demanded by liberals on college campuses? Surely not right.
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Originally Posted by FlyWf
It will be a small number, ikes.

The key is that the right wing didn't brand their trigger warnings as that, they branded them as like, parent's rights.

So, for example, when you pull your kids out of school to stop them from learning about evolution or global warming or the homosexual agenda, that's not "safe space" stuff, that's just being conservative.

When Texas rewrites textbooks to glorify conservative politicians, downplay the horrors of slavery, and so forth, that's not a trigger warning over reality's well known liberal bias, that's just being conservative.

Really the fault here is that idiot liberal campus activists picked such poor easily-mocked branding, but yeah, ikes, remember where you pick this stuff up. It's not from reputable news sources, now, is it? It's from your stories. Which you read because you can't deal with reading mainstream newspapers, cause the mainstream press might publish a column about rape culture or whatever.
04-21-2016 , 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Dids
Oh, I'm very confident that statement has been proven to be correct. It's been proven time and time again when people attempt to argue against gay marriage and their argument always boils down to a hateful perspective.

It's pretty simple, because in order to argue against gay marriage you have to demonstrate how it negatively impacts anybody beyond the two folks getting married. The only impact that can be demonstrated is "I hate gay people and seeing them happy makes me uncomfortable."

"But what about incest/polygamy" waffles between either not being an actual argument or being overtly hateful.
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Originally Posted by Dids
The religious argument against gay marriage is absolutely hateful.

I just realized that, outside of the religious argument, I don't even know WHAT the arguments against gay marriage ARE... I don't mean 'good' arguments (lol) I mean any argument isn't directly or indirectly related to religion and isn't simply 'I hate gay people'. Like, if somebody were to ask me why person such-and-such is against gay marriage I'd have to reply, "uh, I honestly don't know... I guess they really don't like gay people. God may or may not have something to do with this dislike."

I guess the 'eroding the sanctity of traditional marriage, making babies and stuff' one might qualify but that a) IMO has shades of religion and general dislike/hatred and b) just highlights the potential silliness of the concept of marriage and not anything gay marriage specific.

p.s. Actually the 'marriage is about a man and woman making babies' argument is deliciously dystopic IMO, like, in the future 90% of hetero marriages are nullified and babies only come from specialized and qualified breeders.
04-21-2016 , 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted by tomdemaine
So its controversial because people are arguing about it and people should be able to argue about it because its still controversial? It seems pretty damn settled to me. To the highest court in your land too. Maybe you live in saudi arabia or russia or something but over here we've settled the issue. Turns out people can marry who they like no matter the combination of their genitals. Sorry for the spoilers.
Is this the court that discovered corporations are people?

To be consistent you should scream BIGOT at anyone who opposes corporate marriages.
04-21-2016 , 06:28 AM
Why is that necessary to be consistent?
04-21-2016 , 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted by DeadMoneyWalking
Is this the court that discovered corporations are people?

To be consistent you should scream BIGOT at anyone who opposes corporate marriages.
You mean like mergers?
04-21-2016 , 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by tomdemaine
You mean like mergers?
Like where they can claim the spousal privilege.
04-21-2016 , 07:21 AM
I'm willing to cross that bridge when we come to it.

Spoiler:
We'll never come to it
04-21-2016 , 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
Nothing. Any death threats are both totally unjustifiable and (I hope) criminal.


Nothing at all.

Any disagreement?

I don't know what is meant by 'SMP crew' but if it includes me then maybe Fly will tell us what he disagrees with.
Lol, you say that often. Check your posting history. You post a lot in smp. The handful of smp regs who started posting (terribly) in politics following the BruceZ meltdown may have dissipated in the last year, so hopefully your hangup with "smp crew" is that the crew is now down to you.
04-21-2016 , 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by DeadMoneyWalking
That's mostly a myth written to make gay marriage seem more historically normal (it is not). Ancients use the word marriage like we do. even in the isolated cases like Greece where homosexuality was tolerated, they did not confuse what is or isn't a marriage. Which isn't a surprise as there was only one way to make babies.
lol. I want to see your favorite source that backs this ridiculous assertion up.
04-21-2016 , 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by MrWookie
lol. I want to see your favorite source that backs this ridiculous assertion up.
He's independently confirmed it by thinking about it.
04-21-2016 , 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Oroku$aki
Lol, you say that often. Check your posting history. You post a lot in smp. The handful of smp regs who started posting (terribly) in politics following the BruceZ meltdown may have dissipated in the last year, so hopefully your hangup with "smp crew" is that the crew is now down to you.
Really - you're saying it's just Fly still being hung up on some nonsense about that? Seems unfair to lay that on him.

Do you think he has any disagreement at all with my posts on the TA, free speech or any of the other issues? Do you?

Last edited by chezlaw; 04-21-2016 at 11:47 AM.
04-21-2016 , 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
Really - you're saying it's just Fly still being hung up on some nonsense about that? Seems unfair to lay that on him.

Do you think he has any disagreement at all with my posts on the TA, free speech or any of the other issues? Do you?
No, what I'm saying is what I said in my post. Fly wasn't mentioned in my post. And trying to control what I "lay" on him, whatever you mean by that, is jokes.

Also, don't ask me anything chez.
04-21-2016 , 12:26 PM
? you were responding the discussion about what Fly meant. You cant then say it's not about what he meant

and if you don't want to be asked about the content of the thread then don't respond or address me. I'm always going to try to get back to the content. There's PU if you have no interest in the content.
04-21-2016 , 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
? you were responding the discussion about what Fly meant. You cant then say it's not about what he meant

and if you don't want to be asked about the content of the thread then don't respond or address me. I'm always going to try to get back to the content. There's PU if you have no interest in the content.
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04-21-2016 , 01:32 PM
That's how it is LG

Did want to discuss any of the content? Anything you disagree about or wish to discuss further or have anything to add to?
04-21-2016 , 01:52 PM
Ive made numerous posts in this thread about safe spaces. You can peruse them at your leisure.

But please, don't let me stop you from the content of which poster has behaved how in the safe space thread.
04-21-2016 , 02:03 PM
So have I and as far I can tell we agree on this stuff.

That's fine. It makes a lot more sense to be talking about the content to people we disagree with.
04-21-2016 , 02:18 PM
My view on this subject is, obviously and as with the other 50 times we've discussed this, very different from your view and FoldN's view.
04-21-2016 , 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by LetsGambool
My view on this subject is, obviously and as with the other 50 times we've discussed this, very different from your view and FoldN's view.
So what do you think you and I disagree on about the substance.

Cmon let's see if we can actually manage a discussion on the content.
04-21-2016 , 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by chezlaw
? you were responding the discussion about what Fly meant. You cant then say it's not about what he meant

and if you don't want to be asked about the content of the thread then don't respond or address me. I'm always going to try to get back to the content. There's PU if you have no interest in the content.
No, I wasn't. If that's how you interpreted my comment re. SMP, ok fine, for clarification Fly has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. I'm simply (and pointlessly on my end, fml) pointing out then anytime someone in P or PU connects your name with SMP, you feign ignorance as if you've never heard of that forum, let alone are a reg there.
04-21-2016 , 02:43 PM
Peruse my substantive posts upthread at your leisure chez. Not interested in wistfully musing about a subject addressed many times.
04-21-2016 , 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by LetsGambool
Peruse my substantive posts upthread at your leisure chez. Not interested in wistfully musing about a subject addressed many times.
Ive seen no areas of disagreement. No surprise as I'm pretty sure we don't disagree.

      
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