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10-22-2016 , 01:05 PM
Thoughts are with you goofball
10-22-2016 , 01:13 PM
I am so sorry, my thoughts are with you.
10-22-2016 , 01:16 PM
Man I know there's nothing we can really say to help but just know that our thoughts are with you and your family.
10-22-2016 , 02:25 PM
Everybody grieves differently. You feel what you feel and don't worry about how you're "supposed" to do it.
10-22-2016 , 02:49 PM
So sorry goofball, hoping for the best for you and your family. Don't worry about the election and predictions and all that, there's more important things. We're all pulling for you.
10-22-2016 , 03:17 PM
I'm sorry to hear this. You're a great guy on here, and an enjoyable read. I wish you and your family the best.
10-22-2016 , 03:57 PM
10-22-2016 , 04:09 PM
Good luck mate. I hope things go as well as they can.
10-22-2016 , 04:41 PM
Lots of love to her, to you, and to your wife. I hope whatever time you have together has its moments of joy amidst the sadness.

we're here if you want to connect.
10-22-2016 , 05:21 PM
Damn, very sorry to hear that.
10-22-2016 , 05:33 PM
My grandmother, her first child died at birth. My mom was the third child. It's going to be tough.
10-22-2016 , 05:42 PM
I am so sorry.
10-22-2016 , 09:32 PM
So sorry to hear this goofball. You and your family are definitely in my thoughts. Take care of each other.
10-22-2016 , 09:39 PM
No words. Don't isolate.
10-22-2016 , 09:51 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bill Haywood
Everybody grieves differently. You feel what you feel and don't worry about how you're "supposed" to do it.
Very true. And don't worry about how you feel around other people right now. If they are around at all right now, it is totally for your support, and you can't be wrong in how you deal with them. Say nothing, say lots, talk about the weather if you want. If you don't want company, simply say that. They'll understand.
10-22-2016 , 11:29 PM
We're all rooting for you goofball, take care of yourself.
10-22-2016 , 11:32 PM
In the sight of the unwise they seemed to die, and their departure was taken for misery, and their going away from us, for utter destruction, but they are in peace. And though in the sight of men they suffered torments, their hope is full of immortality.
10-23-2016 , 03:17 AM
Hugs.

Are you religious in some way? May be there is some solace there.

What others said: enjoy the time with your daughter now. I mean most of us live like neither we, no those who we love will ever die. You can do better now.

"We're also starting to feel disconnected in people don't know how to interact with us and we don't know how to interact with them. "

I know this very well. It is on you in this situation to reach out to people, to communicate, to show that you are not hurt by every word and you have something other in your life than your grief. You have to try to keep some kind of normality in your life.

Just hugs......
10-23-2016 , 05:00 AM
Very sorry to hear this. I hope you're able to find the strength to make the most of the time you have together.

Words on a screen will be of very little comfort to you right now, and ploughing through a lengthy 2+2 thread may be the furthest thing from your mind. But I'll add a +1 to the recommendation that you one day take a look at the Poincaraux thread. Best wishes.
10-23-2016 , 06:43 AM


Sorry to hear this. I hope you find peace.
10-23-2016 , 06:56 AM
Lots of love, goofball, to you and your family. There is no model for how to get through this kind of circumstance, no real right or wrong way to feel or act. The purgatory won't last forever, but I know from experience that it's totally real and normal.
10-23-2016 , 07:00 AM
That's really tough ... Thank you for sharing and as everyone has already said, we hope for the best outcome.

Definitely a time to have your priorities straight.
10-23-2016 , 09:13 AM
I'm so very sorry.
10-23-2016 , 11:38 AM
Sounds like a real kick to the nuts, goof, I'm really sorry you have to go through this.
10-23-2016 , 12:42 PM
Condolences.

      
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