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Originally Posted by Kristy
1. Is it potluck if you provided the main course and all the drinks? Asking your Mom to make your favourite dish isn't the same as asking your guests.
2. Lots of extenuating circumstances in your post. Weren't having a traditional wedding, family only, no gifts, etc.
3. Didn't you feel weird having people fly in and then being like, "can you grab some potato salad on your way from the airport?"
Couple things, we asked more than my mom, a few people brought salads etc... my wife made cupcakes in lieu of a real cake. But yeah it was all family, no friends, and we didn't invite any out of town family.
I wore jeans a polo, my wife wore a white sun dress. I changed to shorts almost immediately after the ceremony. No wedding party at all.
We did very specifically tell people not to bring gifts or money, we just asked that they come enjoy a nice family BBQ while we exchanged vows.
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Originally Posted by TheRempel
As a fellow Manitoban, thank you for not having a social and expecting a bunch of people you know to pay for your wedding.
We live in Ontario now. Socials aren't only a Manitoba thing, they have 'Jack and Jills' here, and basically do the same thing.
I don't personally have any issues with wedding socials at all, we just knew we weren't having a big wedding and it wasn't going to cost much. Also, planning socials is a lock of work, ain't nobody got time for that.