I think I'm in love with jennitron based on her posts

I claim the ability to white knight her ITT!

lashawnda does look good shirtless so he's starting off well

I don't mind decreased anonymity in online dating sites. I am not bothered at all that a person who sees my OKC profile can figure out who I am with some very simple internet searching. I am slightly more bothered by the fact that it is possible to figure out that I am on OKCupid by reverse image searching some of my photos that are posted elsewhere.

Yes that's definitely true, in some ways I can see that being a huge improvement. People will need to be more discerning about what they post on the internet for all to see, because just like Facebook being used to filter out potential job candidates, whatever people have out there might be used against them when being considered for a date. Ultimately, I think getting people to reign in the posting of so many details of their personal lives would be a good thing.

This is probably all true, but you're not considering the increased number of women getting raped and killed.

Had a first date last night, girl from pof.
I had a show for us to go to to see Creed Bratton(the office anyone?), which was a unique idea and neither of us had any idea what to expect.
She got to my place early and we hungout there just talking for a bit. She was really open which I liked, she asked if I ever met ppl online dating and we both shared stories of how we met one person each but they had very immediate and weird flaws. She said her last one ended up living in his parents basement and immediately started groping her when they got back to his place so she bailed. Sounded pretty scary.

Anyways we go to the show, it was more of creeds music than I would have liked and pretty odd show in general but she was a good sport and we had fun..at this point we head back to my place around 9 or 930, had been hanging out since 630 so a good amount of time for a first date-but I didn't have much of an indictation if she was into me or just having fun, etc. We got back to my place and said we can keep hanging out if she'd like and she wanted to continue.
We mostly chat for a while/watch the office in the background.
Madeout shortly once which she seemed really happy about. It's very uncommon for me to make a move like that on a first date which is something I'm working on. Basically her staying + little things like her inching closing so our arms touching etc made me convinced she was into me.
Anyways, it was late so I didnt try to continue to makeout and we had a good time getting to know each other and talking.

All the sudden its midnight, time going fast. I said she had to go due to me working this morning. I walked her to her car, it was lightly raining, and we madeout much longer there and she was really into it, pulling closer etc. She told me it was the most romantic kiss of her life- on the spot. I love when girls are forward with that kind of thing especially because even though I knew she was into it it's nice to get a clearer read.

She texted me when she got home and it sounds like we will be going out again soon, maybe even tonight.

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No, that is not probably less than 20 years away.

Companies are already using facial recognition to track you through malls so they can market items to you, so yeah, definitely less than 20 years

Christopherson, thats a great TR! Did you eat somewhere in between or before going ?

You are weird/creepy and some how convinced a girl to go back to your parents basement and hang out with you, appropriate time to grope;
[x] yes
[ ] no

What was she thinking.

Tell her to stop dating yeota.

Yeah I mean I guess he wasn't that bad until he got back to the basement? I really didnt ask much just laughed about it.

I ate just before she got to my place. I'm not a fan of dinner first dates, they are nerve racking enough without worrying about a person watching you eat.

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Haha I totally agree, thats why I asked.

If you're on a date with a guy, and agree to go to his place, how do you not expect to get groped?

If you can't be sure if the girl is into you, try to incorporate some touch yourself during conversations. A light touch on the shoulder, arm, knee/leg (don't be weird & gropey) gives her an indication if you're into her - and then she might feel more comfortable giving you a clear indication back.

Dating puts you in a vulnerable spot, you don't always want to show the other person you like them because if they don't like you back, you feel silly. This isn't high school, we're adults - just be brave & let the other person know if you're interested, & you'll usually get a better indication back if they're into you.

Loooool A+. But kinda true also.

It's not like he flew her all the way out there or anything

Shots fired.

I'm going to get you and amazin in the same room lol

I find it quite scary that women are prepared to go to the house of some bloke they have never met - even more after hearing of her particular previous encounter.

Anyways good luck sounds like you had a great time, hope it works out for you.

But the real question remains. Who will be the little spoon?

Amazin

If he promises me a boob grope he can be the big spoon for a bit

I agree. As a chick especially id always want to meet in public.

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Congrats Christopherson

Good TR that was well written and sounds a good encounter.

As an update it sounds like we will be seeing each other tonight with no agenda.

I kind of struggle with this. I don't plan to get all committal or anything very fast, but obviously I'd love to escalate and have some fun in the bedroom but I dont want to disrespect her either.

Thoughts? Must I use words with her?

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