You guys have sex longer than 15 minutes? Weird

She wanted to smoke a bowl in the her car so I offered to drive her to my house and back to her car. I cleaned up a lil in anticipation. We smoke a bowl and get a glass of water and she asks me to take her back. there really wasn't time to mess anything up.

But when she asked about seeing me again I thought maybe she's just on the rag or somethin. Then she ask if was in town I thought she was gonna ask me out so I took the initiative and asked her out. She said she hasn't seen anybody from online

code,

What lazer said: "If you're looking to meet a girl online and have sex with her, dinner and a movie is probably not your best bet"

How did you transition from telling a girl you are online for casual hookups, then end up going to dinner and a movie?

Text/call her a few more times.

Example: "Earth to Michelle. Are you alive and well?"

At least now we know Chau is a level/troll.

Nah dude, he has a picture up with a chick...clearly he is a big playa and knows what he's doing.

I guess our first date (drinks and dinner) was just a preliminary feel each other out so we know we're not psycho.
Or one or both of us were getting cold feet about sex.
Or she doesn't understand what a hookup is.
Or some combination.
I'm afraid to bring it up but I guess I'll have to, because
she said she wants to go out again...to a casino so she can learn blackjack.

I'm a little wary that she wants a conventional relationship.

even drinks and dinner would be better than dinner and a movie...you should've kept it to just drinks. If you wanted to get more comfortable or something with the idea that the second 'date' becomes the one you start ****ing, then just make it a blues bar or whatever so you can get drunk and flirty, enjoy an evening and figure out the plans for next time

You told her you play poker and she wants to go to a casino with you and wants to learn blackjack?

= wants a conventional relationship. She wants to learn blackjack so she has something to do at the casino when you go to play poker when you are her boyfriend.

Exact same thing happened with the girl I am currently in a relationship with, except she wanted to learn poker.

Only a little wary? She's practically screaming it to you.

You have to take the lead more.

teach me something = spending time with me over an extended period of time

if you were honest and up front on your profile and in your initial message, then just be honest and up front now. although dinner + drinks is not the way to go about a hook up. you barely need drinks if thats really what both of you want

Code, so was the movie your first date or your second date?

code,

What was the initial message you sent to the women?

Standard first meeting in that scenario is 930pm drink at a bar near your place, certainly not ****ing dinner and a movie, wtf.

Is it ever wise to send back to back messages if a girl who you were having a back and forth with doesn't sign in for a few days?

I was messaging a girl the other night for about 4 messages each and she signed off between her last one and the one where I asked for her number. She wrote 2 paragraphs to my 2 sentence opener and each of our back and forths after that got a little longer than the one before so I think she's interested. Since then she hasn't been online in almost 3 days now, which I assume is fairly standard, but what I am not sure about is whether her inbox will be flooded and my message will get pushed too far down to trigger a response.

I am kind of assuming that this won't be relevant and she will get back to me with her number, but am not sure if there is a need to reinitiate in a few days if I see she is online again, but haven't heard from her.

Just leave it. Give it another shot if she signs back in and you still haven't heard from her a week later.

If she's interested, I think she'll get back to you. Imo, never get too excited over a girl that you've messaged since you haven't even met up. Just keep messaging other women and if this one gets back to you, awesome, if not, oh well.

So I decided **** it, and made a profile on OKC.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JMUDeez


how'd I do? I got 2 messages from chicks already and I've had it for 10 minutes, lol. One was not attractive and the other was cute fat so whatev.

Of course that link won't work. It has to have your username in the url or else it can't direct us to your profile.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/USERNAME is the format

I feel like you should be better at the internet after this much time on 2p2 than to think that www.okcupid.com/profile?globalnav=1 is a link to your profile specifically out of the tens of thousands on OKC.

yeah i realized that immediately. is the link i have now functioning

Your profile is good.

someone educate me on profile visits. do people visit your profile a lot and does it mean anything or are people just skimming through?

he went to JMU cut him some slack