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Originally Posted by lazer
Pull the standard wait a bit and message, or give her one tomorrow saying I had fun? I get the feeling she's looking for something more serious, as I would be with her
I don't get the point in waiting in this spot. Both of you want to get together again, so contact her to make that happen.
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
Well to add to the suckiness, the guy I was seeing for the past 4 months (though only 6 dates/meet-ups in that time) sent me a text on Saturday saying "I think we have to talk. I don't really see our current relationship going anywhere."
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After a day passed without hearing back, I sent him a message asking what went wrong. I'm not sure I'll hear back
Well I heard back from him today. Here's the main gist, edited by me:
"Sometimes things sound cliche, but in this case it was not you, but definitely me. I am honestly not emotionally available now... I sensed you were connecting with me, but no matter how hard I tried I couldn't feel the same way, and it killed me because of how great you were in all respects."
With more of the same 'you're great, I just can't do this now' throughout. I don't know if I believe it, but I want to so I will. Also interesting is that he emptied out his profile -- his account is still active and I can see his pictures, but the content is missing and okc says he hasn't filled out his profile.
Anyway, I messaged 2 guys yesterday and have heard back. Sounds like at least one is heading towards a date, but the other can't be ruled out yet. (edit: nm, the one that seemed promising has a username with "sam" in it, so I asked "So, is your name actually Sam?" He responded "no it is not my name." I mean, the follow-up line for him is so obvious I can barely think of reasons he'd hold back on telling me his first name at this point.)