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07-29-2013 , 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by wesrwood
I just got spazzed on by. Girl for sending a generic cut and paste message to her lol
"Hey at least it worked"
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07-29-2013 , 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by PenelopeCruz
Well done, after your last message it seemed like one a given to me?
That's the only change I'd make.
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07-29-2013 , 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
Pent gjort, etter at det siste innlegget ditt virket det som en gitt til meg. (from google translate, so no idea if it makes sense)
Not responding to this quote but I'm too lazy to find your older TR. the "why does he (or she) like me" is normal and most of the time my favorite part of dating, aka the gruesome part

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07-29-2013 , 06:12 PM
"a given", presumably.

Last edited by Fabian; 07-29-2013 at 06:12 PM. Reason: pony no!
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07-29-2013 , 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
That's the only change I'd make.
lol ah now i see, yea google translate gave you a literal translation which didn't make sense
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07-29-2013 , 07:46 PM
I got a reply to the question I emailed OKC support about being unhappy with results in my Personality tab. Here it is:

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Thanks for your message. Your personality tab is determined by your answers to Match Questions and Staff Tests. If you're not happy with your personality tab, or want to remove it, you'll want to re-answer (or skip) match questions and re-take any staff tests. Then, answer 10 brand new questions and your personality tab will automatically recalculate. "
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07-29-2013 , 08:01 PM
So I invited a girl from the Midwest to fly down here and vacation with me in Miami. She said yes. Obviously no relationship potential but a sex partner to explore south beach with can't be a bad thing.
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07-29-2013 , 08:21 PM
One of my friends heard I was doing online dating and he started giving me a bunch of terrible unsolicited advice. I told him he doesn't know wtf he's talking about but he swears he does cause he bangs way more women than I do. Of course he's like a 10 so he can be terrible at it and still have women throwing themselves at him. He gave the whole "blah blah it's all about confidence, not looks." So I set up a fake profile that was identical to mine but in a different city and with his pictures. Less than 24 hours later he's got 18 5-stars and 6 unsolicited messages. That was my count after like 2 months. Kind of depressing.
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07-29-2013 , 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by amazinmets73
So I invited a girl from the Midwest to fly down here and vacation with me in Miami. She said yes. Obviously no relationship potential but a sex partner to explore south beach with can't be a bad thing.
Keep an eye on your kidneys bro
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07-29-2013 , 08:48 PM
the whole star system is really tilting because every time someone rates me high I don't get to see them
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07-29-2013 , 08:53 PM
Alright so I took a personality test on OKC and after answering most of the questions dishonestly, my traits are now just about what I want them to be. So my advice to you guys is to retake the test(s) and lie like a dog.
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07-29-2013 , 09:06 PM
do people even look at the traits tab anyway
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07-29-2013 , 09:10 PM
I do. If they're strong "less sex driven" or "less adventurous" or "more old fashioned" or something I'll skip.
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07-29-2013 , 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by d10
I do. If they're strong "less sex driven" or "less adventurous" or "more old fashioned" or something I'll skip.
That's true, but if they show up as those things then they would probably have a low match % and I wouldn't view their profile in the first place.
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07-29-2013 , 09:24 PM
I don't really put much stock into those percentages. I hooked up with a girl that was 97% enemy. I think the women pay attention to it, but you can overcome it. I look at pics first, then articulation and humor next.
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07-29-2013 , 09:38 PM
Def not an option for everyone but my new strategy is just to use "promote me" a couple times during peak hours, netting 1-3 high ratings each time and then just message the hot ones. I'm sure that will get old as soon as I get my cc statement but so far I have a drastically higher response rate than I normally do.
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07-29-2013 , 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Gabby Hayes
I don't really put much stock into those percentages. I hooked up with a girl that was 97% enemy. I think the women pay attention to it, but you can overcome it. I look at pics first, then articulation and humor next.
It depends on how many questions you answer. I recently cleared all my answers and then re-answered only about 80 questions that were really important to me and would tell a lot about the girl. So now, if the girl isn't at least a 70% match, I know it wouldn't even be worthwhile meeting up. I'm looking more for a relationship though, obviously it doesn't matter as much if you're just looking for sex.
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07-29-2013 , 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted by d10
One of my friends heard I was doing online dating and he started giving me a bunch of terrible unsolicited advice. I told him he doesn't know wtf he's talking about but he swears he does cause he bangs way more women than I do. Of course he's like a 10 so he can be terrible at it and still have women throwing themselves at him. He gave the whole "blah blah it's all about confidence, not looks." So I set up a fake profile that was identical to mine but in a different city and with his pictures. Less than 24 hours later he's got 18 5-stars and 6 unsolicited messages. That was my count after like 2 months. Kind of depressing.
When meeting women in real life, if you meet a certain minimum looks standard (not fat, face not notably weird looking, take care of yourself, dress decently) your looks don't matter that much unless you're at a Brad Pitt level. Above that level it's mostly about... well, not confidence. The PUAtards claim you can fake confidence and it's the same thing as actually being awesome. It isn't. Women gravitate to the most successful/dominant man in the room, and confidence is of course closely tied to being really good at life.

Online you don't have any of that dynamic and so looks become much more important as women screen out hopefuls.
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07-29-2013 , 10:25 PM
got my first chick sexting me now tonight. redhead ftw
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07-29-2013 , 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
got my first chick sexting me now tonight. redhead ftw
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
lazer great story but it looks like the picture isnt working for me
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07-29-2013 , 10:54 PM
meh she isn't that hot but whatev

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07-29-2013 , 11:05 PM
pretty sure you accidentally uploaded the wrong pic
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07-29-2013 , 11:18 PM
Not bad for MD standards, yeota. That's about an 8 in Frederick, MD. A 2 in San Diego.

Last edited by Gabby Hayes; 07-29-2013 at 11:24 PM.
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07-29-2013 , 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
meh she isn't that hot but whatev

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wtf that could be your future wife
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07-29-2013 , 11:27 PM
pretty sure she is bipolar

she went from full on sexting to talking about true crimes and re-enacting crime scenes since she works on set on True crime. She met Jodi Arias recently (careful what you google unless you wanna find graphic pics)

and then back to talking about massages and what I can do to her

Friday is gonna be fun hope I return alive
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