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Originally Posted by DontDoItPls
Pretty sure things are finished with the girl I've been dating for a month now, but she left things somewhat confusing.
We hung out Sunday, which was the 9th date I guess you could say. Anyway, just as she was getting up to leave she revealed she isn't feeling a good romantic connection. We talked about it a bit, but what left me confused was she asked for some time to think about it and talk it over with her friends. I then walk her to her car, we hug and I say I want to kiss you, but not sure given what she just revealed. She then looks at me like she wants me to, so I go for it obv and we kiss for like 30secs and she leaves.
I'm assuming we're done and I have already gone back to full on prowling Match and OKC like I was before I started liking her.
Anyone been in a similar spot before?
That she said "romantic connection", it requires a little more background I think. Like, how's the sex been? Frequent as in can't stop touching, making out, fooling around, ****ing, etc? For example, with the woman I'm seeing regardless of where we are or what we are doing we're almost always touching or kissing and while we've gone to dinner, seen music, made dinner, gone to the beach... the main activity is getting naked.
That said, in this spot I figure I'm not turning the woman on, she probably thinks she can find (or already is interested in) a better looking guy and / or I'm not being romantic enough for her, in the mushy sense of the word.
You have two options IMO: if you really like her, dial up the pursuit or; stop all contact and if she reaches out to you, don't be a dick but act very aloof.