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Originally Posted by El Diablo
booze: Text her to make plans, maybe address one question from the message in your text, and ignore the rest.
burke: Don't worry about anything like what ATF was saying. Listen to what d10 wrote. Instead of writing the perfect message, when you see a profile you like, read it, then immediately write the first very quick 2-3 line message that pops into your head, just like you're texting back a friend. For someone w/ your profile, anything more than that will prob impact less than 10% of replies (ie: If you send 100 messages doing that, and you get 30 replies, maybe spending minutes tailoring each message would get you 33 replies).
yeah i agree with this method. here's an interesting and random question (or two) regarding messaging girls.
1) is there a time period that you wouldn't message girls (ie. does the timestamp of your message matter?)
2) does viewing their profile while they're on twice (refreshing their page by accident) have a negatively viewed effect [for example sometimes i forget to message somebody but still want to later and reopen chrome]
3) is there such a thing as logging in too often (like a girl would notice that?)
4) is rating girls as dumb as it seems?
5) has anybody ever used/made work the geographic/proximity features on the OKC app?
all of these are probably fps'y next level questions, and most girls are probably level 1 thinkers, but i figured i'd ask because you guys give good advice.
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
Nick,
I have no idea re: fakeness of profiles, but all the people I know on Tinder are in their early 20s and they say it's pretty good for hooking up, maybe the closest thing to a straight Grindr (gay dude dating/hookup app) so far.
is tinder the same thing as blendr? i used blendr a year ago and it was the most ****ed up experience ever (it was touted as the hetero equivalent of grindr.) i had a chick from wellesley ask for me to cyber with her then **** her in a park, a chick from BC who made up this fake story using pics from a person that was on the BC swim team (whom i knew). was a little scary. but tinder could be different