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Originally Posted by citanul
You'd definitely do better in real life. It's weird that being an actual human who exists in the real world and is successful that you don't know where to meet other people who are similar to yourself. Truly weird. You should probably put more thought into that. Surely you have some knowledge of what such a woman would be like, and could figure out what sorts of locations or activities would make you likely to share space with them so you can hit on them.
Bazar.
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Originally Posted by Dream Crusher
Pretty sure women like that are working all the time. If they are out somewhere it's probably somewhere I have no desire to be.
Successful women aren't always working, but you are right that most are busy. They still have time to go to the gym, yoga, grab a drink, etc. You mentioned moving to a nicer area, so I assume that you will find successful, attractive women at the gym or even the grocery store. I think you said you rarely drink, but even occasionally grabbing a drink or a bite at the bar of a nice place and you should be able to find a few prospects.
I am genuinely curious about what you think single people do with their free time that you have no desire to also do.
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Originally Posted by Dream Crusher
As I stated before, these dating apps like Bumble are just Hot or Not 2.0. They do a good job of facilitating dates and to a lesser extent sex, but not long term meaningful relationships.
I understand why people think this, but I'm not sure it's true. Maybe it's a bit more casual than match or eharmony (I'm not sure if those sites still have a good user base anymore). There are certainly a lot of people who swipe with no real intention of meeting someone irl. A place like match or eharmony (or maybe another site) which requires you to pay in order to communicate with someone may increase the chances of matching with a woman more serious about finding a partner. Those sites also have a more extensive profile and aren't always just matching based off of looks.
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Originally Posted by Dream Crusher
There is a long history of ugly men having beautiful partners but these apps do nothing to facilitate that. It's like we are moving into a world where the hotties are trying to find something meaningful with Ted Bundy and Andrew Cunanan rather than Billy Joel and Gianni Versace.
I agree with coordi. Most of the average/ugly men that have beautiful partners do so by having money or are funny/charming and fun to be around. You not wanting to be in social situations will limit your chances.
Being open to travel can also be attractive to women. If you do travel or would like to, then I would maybe highlight that in your profile or in real life.