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02-11-2014 , 08:07 PM
It is hit or miss on what bars accept expired IDs on your 21st.
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02-11-2014 , 08:10 PM
apparenlty this whole thing varies by state. whatever
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02-11-2014 , 08:14 PM
I had a mini lunch date with stoner girl. We met up at a starbux in her office building. We spent 30 minutes chatting. She expressed unease with my recent sexcapades. I basically said that I would stop banging other women if something developed between she and I. We talked about Saturday, I told I really liked her. We made plans for Friday which, unbeknownst to me at the time, is v-day. She told me her first boyfriend had a micropenis. We might go to a sex club, the spa or something else. I gave her a quick peck and a hug and went back to work.
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02-11-2014 , 08:22 PM
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Intriguing policy.
I think she gave me head on Thursday, she says she didn't. We were both pretty drunk. Anyways, last night I asked if she'd let me blow it on her face and she said she's fine with it as long as I **** her until she cums. Neither of us got off last night however. IG seems completely fine with me ****ing other women where SG does not and said today that she's gonna get a FWB to keep up with me. Also, Thurs, I'm set to do Yoga again. This time Broken Foot is likely coming with us. It'll be interesting to see how she acts around me. She refused to give me her number on Friday. I was hurt.
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02-11-2014 , 08:27 PM
why in the hell are you talking to these chicks about the other girls you are ****ing?
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02-11-2014 , 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted by NLSoldier
why in the hell are you talking to these chicks about the other girls you are ****ing?
Honest to god, this is insane. It's one thing to strive to make them jealous by hinting at other women you've been with, talking to other women in front of them, or taking a little longer than necessary to return their calls and texts, but overtly telling them "hey so I was ****ing another girl last night and the funniest thing happened" has to be close to the number one worst possible dating tactic
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02-11-2014 , 09:52 PM
Because I do whatever the **** I want. Also, it's only fair they know. They also know if something more develops the sex with other women stops. I want to know where I stand with them in relation to other guys they may or may not be sleeping wiith so I provide them with total openness and honesty... because I expect it from them.
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02-11-2014 , 10:33 PM
Very short dinner date. All we did was eat dinner. Conversation was unimpressive. Ended with a peck outside of her car. Unlikely I will attempt to see her again, but I wouldn't mind if she set something up
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02-11-2014 , 10:36 PM
was this that fine biddy from earlier. damn.
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02-11-2014 , 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by AnonymousTextField
Because I do whatever the **** I want. Also, it's only fair they know. They also know if something more develops the sex with other women stops. I want to know where I stand with them in relation to other guys they may or may not be sleeping wiith so I provide them with total openness and honesty... because I expect it from them.
This is ridiculous. How/why could you possibly care who else they are sleeping with when you are on your 1st-3rd date. And massive LOL at thinking these girls are actually being totally honest with you even if they do tell you.

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Honest to god, this is insane. It's one thing to strive to make them jealous by hinting at other women you've been with, talking to other women in front of them, or taking a little longer than necessary to return their calls and texts, but overtly telling them "hey so I was ****ing another girl last night and the funniest thing happened" has to be close to the number one worst possible dating tactic
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02-11-2014 , 10:52 PM
I've got it at -200 that the phrase 'I hate games' or some derivative appears on ATF's profile
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02-11-2014 , 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by KPowers
was this that fine biddy from earlier. damn.
No. That was a very good date (though also short). I'm seeing her again Thursday, going to an upper end lounge
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02-11-2014 , 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Dudd
I've got it at -200 that the phrase 'I hate games' or some derivative appears on ATF's profile
Booked. How much action you want?
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02-11-2014 , 11:04 PM
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Booked. How much action you want?
at least several quarters, dimes, and nickels worth
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02-11-2014 , 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Anarchist
at least several quarters, dimes, and nickels worth
I raise you three Susan B Anthony dollars and a roll of pennies
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02-11-2014 , 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted by NLSoldier
This is ridiculous. How/why could you possibly care who else they are sleeping with when you are on your 1st-3rd date. And massive LOL at thinking these girls are actually being totally honest with you even if they do tell you.
Because sex is a fun topic of conversation and most of these women are fascinated with my sex life, as I am there's? SG, on Saturday or Sunday, said she wished I remembered more about my 3 some, she's also said she might be interested in bondage and **** after I told her about AH, she's also said I might bring out some dark sexual side of her lying in the shadows. She, like AH, also has rape fantasies, or so she said. Today she seemed upset or confused or I poked at her trust issues when she found out I hung out with IG just after I left her place Sunday night. I did my best to explain that this is all new to me and that my openness and honesty is rooted in wanting to build a foundation based on trust and honesty... which I know is critical to any long lasting relationship. Additional boundaries or parameters can be set as feelings evolve.

They also know that if they're not honest with me that I'll punt them outta my life.
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02-11-2014 , 11:34 PM
got matched with a cute girl on tinder last night, messaged her and we had a bit of nice back and forth talking about one of her pictures/where she went to school whatever. Sent last message late after i got back from the gym last night and she didn't respond in the last 24 hours (nothing in the message that would have really affected her interest and she's cute so probly gets a fair # of messages). Do you guys ever send out one last message in case your message got lost in the sea of messages she probly gets?

Also side question about tinder, would anyone be willing to post a good sample convo? Seems like you guys move from opener to asking them to coffee/drink or whatever pretty fast so just wondering how you make it flow well.

Sorry for uninteresting questions, still new to dating online and figure might as well avoid any beginner mistakes if possible.
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02-11-2014 , 11:36 PM
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They also know that if they're not honest with me that I'll punt them outta my life.
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02-12-2014 , 02:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Pats12
got matched with a cute girl on tinder last night, messaged her and we had a bit of nice back and forth talking about one of her pictures/where she went to school whatever. Sent last message late after i got back from the gym last night and she didn't respond in the last 24 hours (nothing in the message that would have really affected her interest and she's cute so probly gets a fair # of messages). Do you guys ever send out one last message in case your message got lost in the sea of messages she probly gets?

Also side question about tinder, would anyone be willing to post a good sample convo? Seems like you guys move from opener to asking them to coffee/drink or whatever pretty fast so just wondering how you make it flow well.

Sorry for uninteresting questions, still new to dating online and figure might as well avoid any beginner mistakes if possible.
Definitely. You have nothing to lose. I'd wait another day or two before sending it though in case she's just busy.
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02-12-2014 , 02:15 AM
this has worked for so many people lol, if i was single this would be it for me haha
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02-12-2014 , 04:57 AM
Man I would love to see some sort of ATF highlight reel meme
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02-12-2014 , 06:51 AM
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They also know that if they're not honest with me that I'll punt them outta my life.
If by punt out of your life you mean come over to help them make websites and have cuddle sleepovers while they bang other dudes.
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02-12-2014 , 07:35 AM
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Because sex is a fun topic of conversation and most of these women are fascinated with my sex life, as I am there's?
I'd say most people would be fascinated with a 30 somethings sex life that until very recently amounted to fingering various women while dreaming of the day he would receive a coveted handjob.

On a side not are these people you mentioned earlier who keep an eye out for you with regards to your alcoholism aware of how often you seem to be getting black out drunk lately? Your first TRs were you being a bit uneasy about having even 1 drink....Clearly you seem to be back on the wagon as that has significantly increased as of late.

Best of luck and hopefully this doesn't end in a trainwreck for your life again.
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02-12-2014 , 07:53 AM
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I'd say most people would be fascinated with a 30 somethings sex life that until very recently amounted to fingering various women while dreaming of the day he would receive a coveted handjob.

On a side not are these people you mentioned earlier who keep an eye out for you with regards to your alcoholism aware of how often you seem to be getting black out drunk lately? Your first TRs were you being a bit uneasy about having even 1 drink....Clearly you seem to be back on the wagon as that has significantly increased as of late.

Best of luck and hopefully this doesn't end in a trainwreck for your life again.
That I haven't had that much sex until very recently makes my sexcapades all the more intriguing and alluring to these women. IG said she feels better that she unleashed the freak. SG ihas expressed trepidation but I assured her that I'm not some crazy sex fiend and this is just a thing. AH has said she might **** me but she really likes me and is interested in getting to know me better and that she loved that I told her that we're "forever friends." YC is outta the loop and knows nothing and tonight I plan to reveal my life to CHB. Last night, when SG expressed some sadness via text that I had banged IG the evening after I banged her, she said it hurt her a little bit. I explained that I had been hit by the polar vortex of pussy.

I've definitely ramped up my drinking lately, mostly because it's a historically terrible winter here. I'm looking to incorporate Yoga into my life as a release, hopefully it'll be a substitute for drinking. Thank you for the concern. As long as I'm getting up and going to the J.O.B., it's all cool for now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSpqObhK4Rw

Last edited by AnonymousTextField; 02-12-2014 at 07:58 AM.
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02-12-2014 , 08:19 AM
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If by punt out of your life you mean come over to help them make websites and have cuddle sleepovers while they bang other dudes.
Dude, I know AH is ****ing someone else. She tells me. It's her on and off again BF of 3 years. I also know she was setting up a date for last evening with an OKC slut. I called her last night to set a concrete time to finish her site, when she answered the first words out of my mouth were "You answered! I was for sure certain that you would be ****ing your OKC slut." She laughed her ass off and told me she had a phone date instead... and that this guy is my number one competition to pretend to be her boyfriend and have her sugar daddy take us to Hawaii. I said "you're cheating on me already, you slut!" and she laughed her ass off. Look in the mirror, bro, you might be a square.
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