ermmm 10000% of girls

my boobs lol
my eyes
my smile

Actual answer for 90% of the girls on the sites
your weight

-Hey if I were you I'd change your main pic to something else
--Why?
-lol I hope you can take a joke, I thought you were adorable and had to say hi.
--I figured it was "fishing" lol
-I don't know what that means really but I don't think it smells like fish.

then she deleted her profile

Does anyone remember those local AOL chat rooms around 2001?
It was like shooting fish in a barrel! I had no car,no job was 21 still living at home,but that didn't matter as really hot young ladies would readily drive over to my place like Little Caesars 'hot and ready'.I have been out of that scene for quite a while now.Has the landscape changed much since then?

What's it mean when a girl asks you why you're on OKC/POF? I always give some super generic answer, what the hell could they possibly be looking for. "Oh I'm a socially awkward introvert who shares no hobbies with the common man!"

I get this every so often and I'm always thrown for a loop.

K,

Are you talking IRL girl or online dating girl?

The sub-communication is "You are so awesome, women should be throwing themselves at you and you shouldn't need online dating! Do you have some hidden flaw? If there is, please make it something sexy like in romance novels"

Well I'm talking to girls that that I first contacted from a dating site, but they aren't real dolls or anything.


I never even considered this. lol@me What's a good response? The girl's "Sick of bars etc" seems lame but I guess it's identifiable with them.

so this chick from HS sends me this

Hey ****, haven't seen any post from fb in forever. What are you up to these days? Are you coming home for the holidays?

I was a little confused since I haven't spoken with her in 11.5 years. I look at her profile and she posts this at about the same time. standard?

snooki spotting in Germany:
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/missitalybarbie

Man, I love you.

LOL I never got that. Answer with a question "why are YOU on here?"


haha just got my POF account banned,probably because of this:

me: hey do you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? Good.Come over to my apartment tomorrow at 7 pm. Don't wear panties.
her: LMFAO creepy
me:go get fingered by Edward Scisorhands
her: I'm going to report you

just got the OKC "you are hot" e-mail. hope the rest of you suckers enjoy sifting through the uggos I'll never have to see!

Is that top 50% or what

I'm going to change my profile for POF and OKC. New year, time for a change.

You're allowed to have both. It is a little awkward seeing other people from both sites, like making eye contact when in line at Cinnabon.

this is obviously true and the people suggesting it's racist are derailing thread.

eh, this is a pretty bad beat. paying to have sex with a crackhead hooker and then having the condom bust.

online dating as a black guy will be much harder than for a white guy (not racist, just preference by women) but you don't appear bad looking so that will help. you do have a different appearance and style as a black guy that a lot of the white suburban type girls will more quickly write off or cause more of a barrier that has to be gamed through. the black friends of mine that I talk to about this essentially say they have to throw out much bigger nets and have more game than a white counter part. they've mentioned creating two diff profiles, one guy being white and the other black of about equal attractiveness appearance wise, and sending out messages on both and commenting that the black guy gets like 5% of the responses the white guy gets. i'd be quite interested in salvant or someone else that's good at online attempting to use OP's profile and see if they notice any differences in how much more difficult it is to get to the meet in person stage.

I thought people bringing up old dumb **** for no reason were derailing the thread.


I got owned pretty hard yesterday. Chicka and I start talking on Friday blah blh blh she's out drinking. I check my messages and I received a few from her that were like omg ur hot come here i wanna see you etc.

I ignore them, message her yesterday morning and she's impressed/happy that I didn't come take advantage of her. We talk for a little and she keeps asking me to come up there and fool around. I say some other day, whatever, she's a little bummed but no big deal, conversation resolves naturally and we hang up.

Ten minutes later

"Hey I took your pic and put your phone number on it and put it all over Craigslist around the country including the gay sections lol"

and she wasn't lying

???

just sue the **** out of her people like this make me sick to my stomach and should be dealt with harshly.

KPowers,

Link plz

KPowers, why in the hell are you not getting on this when they're saying come bang them!? Are you looking to get wifed up and accept no less? Jeez.

I, on the other hand, am the master of getting a reply a week later from every girl whose response basically reads "**** you for that offensive question" that wasn't even offensive

Maybe bc the girl is ****ing insane and there is no reason for him to deal with that.

The girl didn't strike me as a crackhead but splitting hairs I guess.

Yes, it's obviously true. And I'm not changing my style. I don't dress like a thug, (pants below the ass, baggy clothes). I normally wear a collared shirt, fitted baseball cap, jeans and sneakers. That's definitely a different style than a suburban white chick will be used to, but I'm a pretty well-dressed guy.
I can go after black chicks, but my experience with them has been pretty bad, most of the ones I deal with are urban, chide me for acting like a white guy, and constantly ask me for money after we've gone on one date. It doesn't work out, but I'm more than willing to pursue black girls again, just have to be on my game so things work out better.

My whole life I've felt screwed both ways. Too white for black chicks, too black for white chicks.


Yea, I was thinking the same thing. Let some of these guys who think they have so much game try being a black guy for a couple of days and see what we're up against.

That's bull****, man. Don't know how much you can do with only a online dating profile which may not even be real pictures, but internet crimes are just that, crimes. I'd contact local law enforcement and see what can be done.