A new twist to this story. She calls me at 11:30 and tells me bob is coming over tonight and I nearly flipped, but I didn't yell at her or demand anything. I just called out how ****ing ridiculous that seeing some ****ing dude at midnight is crazy. She told me to relax and stop being overprotective, but here's the twist. She called me back a minute ago and said she told him not to come because she really loves me and doesn't want to make me feel uncomfortable (either that or he said he couldn't make it and she calls back and says she told him not to come to seem like a normal human being).

Her birthday is next Thursday though. I'm wondering if she knew i smelled a rat and is trying to postpone me breaking up with her until after her bday. Damn, this bitch has ice water running through her veins.

this is laughable. its REALLY clear you like her way more than she likes you, and that you like her enough that you can't/won't break up with her. its only a matter of when she decides to finally break up with you. brace yourself for that day.

So "bob" is going to come over at midnight.
She agrees.
She decides to call you at 11:30 to tell you about it.
You check her.
Then she calls again to say "ok I told him not to come".

LOL.

Either he's still coming over or he was never coming over to begin with. She might be telling the truth but I doubt it, and whichever the case may be she's playing games.

Mentally and emotionally knock her down a few pegs into "f_ck toy" status. That's all she seems to be worth.

Stephan, this drama and the reaction she's getting out of you is totally the point, she's getting off on it and the attention.

You don't just have to stop participating in this BS, you need to stop being the guy that this BS happens to.

This is really all you need to say. I mean forget that she may or may not have cancelled. The fact that she even entertains this kind of notion (or even worse, contrives it to F with your head) is way beyond what is acceptable for a GF. She was gonna leave you for this guy and now she's inviting him over at midnight? She's playing you. Hopefully you see that now and can cut her loose. Again, GL.

Exactly. How she feels about you and whether or not she's actually banging other guys (as if OOT has any doubt) isn't what's really important. The important thing is to learn from this and the next time you meet a girl, you let her know at the first sign of this nonsense that you're not one to put up with it.

Unfortunately, I think we can all agree that this is probably just in your nature to allow girls to F with you and you won't change. It's definitely possible, and up to you...just saying, most people don't have it in em.

ugh, your continued updates in this thread are ****ing tilting the hell out of me.....its ****ing obvious you arent going to dump her, shes going to cheat on you (if she already hasnt), your going to find out (cuz shell do everything in her power to make sure you figure out what shes done), youll flip your ****, cry like a baby and ask her how she could do this to you, I thought you loved me?! You'll break up, but shell come crawling back with some excuse about how she really does love you and she made a huge mistake and please can she have a second chance....and guess what youll do? Yup, youll get back together cuz you are a ****ing pussy.

At no point is your relationship ever going to be enjoyable or fun, or have even the remotest hint of trust in it....YOU DONT HAVE TO TOUCH THE STOVE TO FIND OUT ITS HOT, FOR ****S SAKE DUMP THIS GOD DAMN SLUT AND GO GET SOME ****ING SELF ESTEEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Wow, that was awesome.

...and right on the money IMO.

o1l

KKF?

Please dump her on her birthday and smash a cake in her face in front of everyone. Then kick Bob in the nuts. And take pics for OOT.

Grunch- Seriously dude, if you have to ask, she's probably a piece of **** not worth your effort. Drop her and move on.

been there.
she is cheating on u..
everyone can see it but u..
just listen to everyone

first post summed it up.
it will be hard to leave her but give it 6 months
and ulll be 10X happier
then send her pics ftw

Nice way of putting it.
No reason to kick him while he's down. He probably already feels like ****.
Most of us have been there, just let it go...her intentions aren't good.

Damnit!

Haha, I love you Alobar!

There should be an 'Ask Alobar what i should do with my life' thread. Where if you ask you have to follow the advice and then post trip reports.

I have been this guy very recently (like 3 weeks ago). Dude just break it up. Its f-ing painful.

edit. It still is, but atleast it will pass.

this is your cue that things are over.

...but its good you ended it on your terms...lawl


OP, you got ****ed over, but I don't think you played it too bad. if you ever find yourself in a spot with a girl where you are unhappy with the way she makes you feel...then you need to cut it clean very soon after that realization. there are too many girls for you to settle for the first one that shows interest in you. /plenty-fishes-speech


LOL at ppl saying you shouldn't let her hang out with these guys. The real solution is to find a girl that doesn't want to hang out with other guys.

Alobar has nailed it perfectly

Dump her now and don't let her crawl back

this

oh and also

make pics of sexytime before u break up

than post..
we'll all have fun..

stephan,

You must dump her.

Not only do you get your dignity back, you become her ex, which apparently means you still get to **** this girl.

The interesting thing about this topic is that it is the first one I have read where 100% of the individuals who have posted have all agreed. There is zero dissent and yet my money is on OP ignoring it all.

1) Gizz on her eye will she's sleeping
2) Then go take a giant dump on her bathroom floor.
3) Write "It's Over" on her bathroom mirror in her lipstick
4) For kicks, steal the six pack of soda she has in the fridge on your way out the door.

lol...internet destiny