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Originally Posted by nation
lol brandi seriously just ****ing get a job as as stripper/hooker full time already you're not good enough for poker or anything that you have to apply yourself at, you're hot, use your talents. seriously, being a hooker is more honorable than ripping off people to make money, AT LEAST YOU'RE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE DOING.
Brandi kinda reminds me of my friend Tanya. Tanya's mother was a whore and a heroin dealer. Her sisters were whores, her brothers were bank robbers. When she reached an age when she had to make a living for herself, well, you can guess what industry Tanya was going to go into.
Except she hated it. She hated the customers. Couldn't bear the idea that they thought that their money gave them the right to paw her with their fat, middle aged fingers. A beautiful Nubian queen like Tanya. She might have nothing, but she still had her pride.
So she went into the industry, and now and again, she'd actually turn a trick. If she couldn't see any other way of getting that money. But that wasn't what she was known for. If you asked Tanya what she did for a living, she'd tell you -- she was a clipper. She'd lure customers to a quiet spot, and then she'd beat them and rob them of their money.
Of course, deep down Tanya didn't much like earning a living this way either. So she had to use ever-increasing amounts of heroin and crack cocaine to be able live with herself. And she became famous for it. Whenever the occasional customer went to the cops and reported having been beaten and robbed by a six foot black hooker (she'd have had Sklansky's dough in a flash, obviously), they immediately knew where to go looking.
And so large portions of her adult life were spent in prison. And while there, eventually, she came to a kind of acceptance. She realized she'd lost everything as a consequence of the life that she'd led, including several children, who had been taken into the care of the state. She grieved their loss dreadfully.
After her last prison stint (in which she did four years of an eight year sentence), Tanya went to a specialist 12 step rehab for black women. She'd done rehab before, but it hadn't actually had any impact. This time though, she met women that she could identify with, who had life experiences that she could relate to.
Tanya has been in recovery for nearly ten years now. She works at the BBC, and has been the lead actress in a short series after being discovered by a producer while she was working in the canteen. She's happily married, and has a three year old daughter who lives with her and her new husband.
Most of the professionals who worked with Tanya said that she'd never, ever change, and they all wrote her off, but one woman in particular never gave up on her, and kept on making opportunities for her to have another shot at rehab. Eventually, she just reached a point where her old set of coping strategies had stopped working completely, and she needed to find a new set that really did work for her.
I don't know how hard Brandi's upbringing was, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't as hard as Tanya's.