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Originally Posted by Asterix811
Ok, I'll concede that
My point is, though, why would you tip one waiter four times of your hard earned cash than you'd tip the other one for doing the exact same job? Because that's what everyone does. You tip that much because that's what's expected of you. Most people wouldn't even consider leaving only a $5 tip for the second waiter.
Just playing Devil's advocate here. Just trying to get people talking. Not advocating anything.
In nearly 6k posts, this has been discussed ad nauseum.
I'll say this, I went to a nice restaurant with tons of wines to choose from recently. We had a party of eight. The server asked if we were ready and we said we were.
He had nothing in his hands and went in order at the the table. The first order was an order with some substitutes and sides, and someone asked if he needed to write it down. He said he'd remember.
He took all 8 of us and wrote nothing down, 3 had substitutes and side requests and a few others had doneness for steaks. All meals come with salad or soups in which some wanted a different dressing than the house and some wanted it on the side.
He took all of that without writing anything down, and of course there were a few people with a bunch of questions and deciding between a couple of plates. Then when he was on his way back to the kitchen, a table stopped him and took 30 seconds of his time inquiring about something.
When he brought the food out, he handed everyone their plate and confirmed what the food was and any special requests as he placed it in front of each person. He didn't miss anything. He nailed everything 100%, and then helped us pick some wines, which he seemed pretty knowledgeable about.
Not saying every fine restaurant has servers like that, but damn, this guy got the best tip I've ever given, and it wasn't solely on his savant like abilities, but he knew when and how to check in on a table. Most of the time when a server tries a circus act they're doing it to impress you and they **** at least one thing up badly, and that's with only two people.
I don't know what this guy's breaking point is, but it's nothing close to eight people, as he was unphased.