Final Four Trip to Houston
Sunday, March 27
I stand with my hands raised over my head, as much in shock as in triumphant celebration. My beloved Orange are headed to the Final Four in Houston, and I’ve been proclaiming that I’m going if they make it for months. Now, I have to book my flight.
Saturday, April 2
I land in Houston after a rough trip. I got no sleep due to the incongruence of my broadcasting and travel schedules. I got on the plane, and discovered a service dog in the row behind me (I have allergies), a woman with a toddler in my row, and a woman with a baby two rows back. There was a pretty girl on my right, but she immediately wrapped her entire head in a blanket to try to sleep. Beat. The captain comes over the speakers and announces that we’ll have heavy turbulence.
Yeah, that kind of trip.
My best friend from college picks me up when I finally get to Houston and takes me to an outdoor café, where I avoid coffee due to my upcoming brief nap, and enjoy some orange juice with my omelette in fajitas. At least I think that’s what I ate, I was pretty tired.
I nap for an hour, which is all the time I have, and we head over to the Final Four.
I’m suddenly pretty energized. We meet a friend outside, and head in. I can barely focus on the first game due to excitement… Then the time arrives.
I’ve been asked a lot about what it’s like to go to the Final Four and have your team lose the first game. This was the least devastating post-season loss I’ve had with Syracuse in the NCAAs, maybe ever (I got there in ’04), with the possible exception of '09. First round upsets as a favorite are worse, and getting knocked out as a high seed that's had title hopes is worse. It was weird as a powerhouse program being a 10-seed, though, and really appreciating the run. After the game I went down to the tunnel to applaud the team’s efforts making it that far.
The Final Four is a spectacle, and if you ever have the chance to go – even as a casual fan, I highly recommend it. We paid a decent amount for 100-level seats, but the upper levels are very cheap (bring binoculars, though).
Now, we’re disappointed, but I’m with two of my best friends from college and we rarely get to hang out, so of course, it’s off to the bars… That’s when things really get interesting.
Your Teams is Full of Thugs
So I’m heading up to the bar to buy a round, and a guy at the bar wants trouble. I can tell immediately. This dude had nothing better to do than go out to the bar and heckle people. I order, and he’s sitting there and tells me congratulations. I sigh and say thanks.
A-hole: “But your team is full of thugs, though,”
Me: “OK, buddy.”
A-hole: “Well, maybe half full. You have a couple who aren’t thugs.” (There were two prominent white guys on ‘Cuse this year.)
Me: “Yeah, ok.”
Normally, I’d love to tell this guy off for his racism, but I’m here to have a good time with my friends I never get to see.
A-hole: “Now, you know what I mean when I say thugs, right?”
Me: “Yeah, I get it.”
A-hole: “Cause we’re in Texas. Are you from Texas? No? Then do you know what I mean when I say thugs?”
I bite my tongue and say, “Yes. I know what you mean.” I don’t know if I’m being the bigger man for avoiding the fight or the littler man for not calling him on his racism.
A-hole: “At least you guys won, though.”
Me: “We lost.”
A-hole: “No, you stomped Carolina.”
Me: “Nope, other way around.”
Now, mind you, I’m decked out in Orange.
A-hole: “Don’t tell me who won. I’ve been at the bar all day, I watched the whole game.”
Me: “Yeah? Well I was there. Maybe you should’ve drank a little less.”
Oh, but the night was only beginning…
Hurricane [Redacted]
So we’re back to just having a good time when things get… weird. There’s a guy who’s a few years younger than us from Syracuse who has networked with me in the past. He’s part of the family in terms of the radio station he worked at, and he’s in Houston with nothing to do, so I invite him over… But he knows he’s meeting up with three old friends who are catching up. We’d eventually start calling him Hurricane Last Name, but I’ve gotta redact his last name for privacy on here… Still, [Redacted] seems to fit him better than anything else I’d make up. We’d love to just redact his portion of the night.
So [Redacted] comes in FIRING. He immediately interrupts the conversation to start talking about HOWEXCITEDHEISTOFINALLYGETTOMEETUSOHMYGOD.
Breathe, dude.
This continues, and pretty soon he’s commandeered me and my good friends are having their own conversation. I’m annoyed, but we really do treat people from our radio station like family, so I’ll tolerate it for now.
So he walks away for a bit and I suggest to my friends that we take turns buying him drinks. He’s a couple years out of school, struggling in the broadcasting industry, and when we were in that spot, alums bought us drinks/meals when we were out with them. I suggest we pay it forward and they agree.
So we go to buy this guy a drink, and ask what he wants. Now, there are a couple of acceptable responses here when someone offers to buy you a drink. This, in our book, was not one of them:
[Redacted]: “Whatever the best craft beer is.”
We literally all look at each other, like did this mfer really just say that?
Acceptable responses: any domestic beer (ie relatively cheap cause you’re getting all your drinks bought, that’s what I usually did), whatever you’re having, or name something by name if you’re getting something expensive. Don’t just blatantly be like, “Yeah, I’m going to try something more expensive while you guys are buying for me.”
Now, it’s like a few bucks, so the money isn’t the big deal here, it’s the etiquette. Hurricane [Redacted] is now strengthening, though, and he’s just getting going. He’s at about a Category 3 level now. He’s going up to random groups of people talking trash even though we lost. When they tell him that, he just yells, “CUUUUUUUUUUSE!” at the top of his lungs.
He’s now at Category 4 level when fate smiles upon the group a bit. I’m talking to my friend, when a girl walks up and proudly announces, “I’m Kazakh! And Syracuse should totally still be in the Big East, the ESPN 30 for 30 on that was amazing!”
Now, this may be the greatest opener of all time. The first part is just, well, it’s unique. The second part is a secret way into the heart of any Syracuse alum, or any other school that misses the old Big East, I’d imagine.
This opener was particularly perfect because I happened to be telling the story to a friend of mine about a part Kazakh, part Vietnamese, part Portuguese girl I dated for awhile. I swear, there’s no way this girl heard.
I size her up, and we approve. She’s not a 10, but she’s in probably 6 range in Houston which is like 8 range anywhere else. I’m from anywhere else, so I’m a fan.
So I tell her what a coincidence and explain that I dated a girl who was part Kazakh, and we start talking. She invites us all back to her group of friends. I glance at my buddies and say, “It’s up to you guys, we were catching up, and I don’t live here, but if you guys want to make moves, I'm in…”
They’re in, so we head over. We’re talking in that group for a few minutes, and I head to the bathroom.
I come back, and my friends look disappointed and [Redacted] is nowhere to be seen.
“[Redacted] blew it!” I’m told.
“HOWWWW?” I drunkenly bellow in reply.
Apparently he came on really strong to the Kazakh girl, and she told him she had a boyfriend and the following ensued:
Girl: “He’s from Louisiana.”
[Redacted]: “Louisiana (now at the top of his lungs) SUUUUUUUCKKKKKKS! HE SUUUUUUCKS!”
She, apparently stunned at this completely ridiculous attempt to continue picking her up, flips him off. He returns the favor, and we’re out.
Hurricane [Redacted], category five, just slamming into Houston with merciless fury.
Still loyal to a fault, I buy the last round and include him. I simply bought us all the same thing. He refuses it, and storms off to try to steal someone else’s Uber… My buddy is like, “Dude, he needs to be careful. This is Texas.”
We shrug. We discuss how there's no way that girl has a boyfriend...
So with him gone, I make my way back over to the Kazakh girl. By not being around when [Redacted] melted down, I’m not entirely tainted. I explain that he's more of an acquaintance and get my friends back in, and one of them ends up getting the number. He says he may not call, and I insist he does on the basis that all I can get out of this is an assist, and after what [Redacted] did, I’m going for wingman of the year here.
From there, we have a 3AM debacle at Whataburger, possibly ride with a drunk Uber driver, and eventually get to bed around 5AM. I’ve gotta leave those stories out to keep this novel of a post from being waaay too long.
Sunday, April 3
We were planning on going to the Shell Houston Open, but overslept it. Technically, I guess we could have made it for the last hole, but it didn’t seem worthwhile. Yeah, we overslept a golf tournament. That’s
strong.
Instead we got breakfast at a restaurant with outdoor seating (which seems to be almost every place in Houston, which is awesome), did some day drinking, then split eight pounds of crawfish four ways with a couple of friends of friends. I did suck the head out of a few crawfish, and it's not as disgusting as it sounds by any stretch. I'm an adventurous eater, though.
At this point I’m considering not going to the championship game since ‘Cuse isn’t in it, but my friend talks me into it. I owe him one.
Monday, April 4
We head over to the title game… We only paid about $60 for 300 level seats due to some expert secondary market shopping.
Not a bad view… We also had some friendly neighbors next to us, a married couple, and I think my buddy who lives in Houston got the digits of a friend of the woman, cause apparently that’s just how we roll.
So it’s a close game obviously, and with under a minute left in the National Championship Game, there’s a 30-second time out and a woman a few seats down gets up to go to the bathroom. Seriously? THERE ARE NO BATHROOM BREAKS WITH 30 SECONDS LEFT IN THE TITLE GAME!!!
She missed a possession, but not THE possession. I can’t figure out how to embed Instagram video, so here’s the link:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BD0AXKuL...n-by=ryanpoker
I framed it up before the play started, then watched with my own eyes above the phone. The seats weren't as bad as the video makes it look, since you can actually see the ball and the net and all of that. But you get the idea of the atmosphere and the moment from the video...
And a picture of the celebration…
We head out, and run into Phil Martelli (head coach at St. Joe’s) in the taxi line for a quick chat. I have a mutual friend, which I mentioned to start the conversation, and then we asked him about the game and the last play. After that, we hopped in a cab and you really can’t make this up…
Next, it was a couple of drinks at the bar, and off to sleep. I grabbed lunch with my friend on the way out of town, and it was time to return home.
Quite the trip, and it wouldn’t have been possible without poker. I always try to appreciate the opportunities and experiences I’ve been able to enjoy that I never would have had without poker, and this certainly qualifies.