disco had no idea you lived in/around the D. I went to school and grad school there so I lived in Durham for 5 years. I actually really like it despite it's bad rep. Obviously Chapel Hill and Raleigh are better places to live if you're young and single, but the D has some great spots too.

wonder if you hit up any of the bars I used to frequent.

invite a group and no flowers obv

i dont ever pay but thats because i dont want to fvck a hooker just like i dont go on blind dates or take piano lessons. if i wanted to fvck a chick with a price tag on her i would. not fvcking a hooker is fine but if the reason is to feed your ego then its ridiculous

nobody gets to bang hot chix whenever they want for free. doesnt happen. if youre horny you fvck, beat off, or take a cold shower and call your grandma. i have friends with hot girlfriends (way out of their league looks wise) who go to the rub n tug once or twice a month. they love their gf but they also enjoy a massage and slamming a 90lb chick who speaks broken english. they dont compare the ho (masseuse) to their gf and they dont care that she charges for something they could get from a hot chick for free. thats just ego bs

fake

too good to be true

Jah's right, Disco, your self confidence (or lack thereof) means its game over before you even start.

Make a habit out of just hitting on everything that walks and eventually you'll get used to the rejection. That's half the battle right there.

Its funny for me to think about now because it seems like such a long time ago but during high school and shortly after I had a good friend who got more poz than anybody I've ever met to this day. He was very short (like 5' 3") and we used to call him Mr. Potato head because he had a very awkward body shade. Never the less he was always banging sloots. His method you might ask? Well he basically had zero quit in em. If he was turned down by the first 15 girls he approached he didn't care. Just kept on plugging away and sure enough he would find one sloot drunk enough or desperate enough to get down. At that point it's just batting average thing homie.

Now some of the girls were rather nasty because the man had absolutely no standards but a good majority of them were very bangable chicks so the theory is valid imo. Just adjust for your standards and ez game.

as hard as it is to believe, its 100% true.

pride/ego are definitely part of it (though I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing when it comes to sex), but I also don't think I could enjoy it knowing I am paying and it's the last thing she wants to be doing -- knowing any enjoyment she shows is completely fake would be a huge turnoff

sex with a condom is not sex.
and if you're banging a hooker without a condom you're doing it very very wrong

this too for sure

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i went to ncsu, so prob not. i would hit the spots like east village, sammys, places on glenwood south.

durham just has a bad rep cuz more blacks live there, and in general a lot of areas are rundown looking and really old.

This. Plus the risk of disease just plain isn't even close to worth it for me.

I love to bang chicks who are into me... and its a huge turn on for me. I've never been a huge strip club guy either, just due to the fact that I don't really get that turned on from "how hot the girl rubbing against me is" (obviously its a part). I got my turn on from "hot girls rubbing against me who actually appreciate and love me".

I'd rather have a meh girl who loves me rub against me than the hottest hooker on the planet.

hahaha damn! shape, I meant awkward body shape!

this x 1 gazillion!

we're talking about banging hookers and propositioning hot chicks and this guys talking about how to pick up a fat skank

give a man a fish...

i've never banged a chick who was into me before so i can't really make any comparison, but it def does suck when ur pluggin away and the chick is obviously just like looking at her watch and yawning. in my sample of prob like 100 hooker bangings, i'd say my cum rate is only like 40-50%. At first it was because I had this awkward feeling of actually letting myself free with a chick. Then once I got over that, it was because of chicks that were totally not into it at all. It's pretty tough to jizz when the girl looks like she'd rather be anywhere else. The other reason is after I've banged a chick twice (sometimes once) I can't cum anymore with her. It's weird. Even emma mae. I've seen her 4 times. The first time I came in about 2 mins. The 2nd and 3rd time I plowed away for half an hour and couldn't go. The 4th time was about a year later, so it was kinda new again and I busted. But, I mean that's the main issue with me having a girlfriend is I'm pretty sure after the 2nd time we had sex I wouldn't be able to cum anymore which would pretty much put a snap end to any relationship.

ok if you have a good personality/huge douche/or very good looking, you can effortlessly pick up hot skanks after bad nights to get cheered up. it's not like you can't do both.

disco, i've heard good things about jdate.com , not trolling.

i dont go to strip clubs to satisfy anything besides a quiet night out with the boys. i guess there's probably many more hole in the wall stripclubs here given everyone's broke and depressed. i've been to the strip club probably 7-10 times since turning 18 and 0 times in the past 2 years.

+1 to going to sc to get off is depressing

ive been meaning to make a jdate account for a while

girls on there are incredibly horny for other jews and are filled with awkward/dorky girls who fit this bill making them all accessible. my friend's brother has been sexting with a girl from tennessee for a while...not really my thing, and lolsamplesize, but im sure people are aggressively seeking companions esp with the monthly fee.

pro tip - jewish girls crazy horny

I'm not saying strip clubs aren't fun. Cause they are a blast with the guys to go and just use fake names and come up with crazy backstories... and stripperbomb your friends. That being said, I've never gotten an ounce of sexual pleasure from a strip club. no h0m0?

don't jewish girls all have massive bushes tho?

sigh. false because a girlfriend isn't a hooker.

we need to make a dedicated thread for giving disco life/bitch advice

i've never been to one and doubt I will.

official 2012 disco life advice thread

no. the problem for disco is that he's accustommed himself to paying for sex, and thus has no work ethic to (a) stay in shape and (b) plug away, and prob lacks (c) mechanism for coping with failure .

way less frustrating than the UCD advice brigade.

well malice does have a point tho. a lot of my friends think girls that are maybe a 6 tops on my scale are 10s. they see a chick that i wouldn't even really give a 2nd look and are like damnnn dood shes HOT!

yeah but would you try any less hard to win their love?