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Originally Posted by Info Shove
I spend $600/month, put little effort and focus on LTRs over hookups. I don't get vag tossed at me but 90% of Filipinas do prefer white guys.
Do SEA women crave random dudes that can't speak their language, don't know the social norms, whose job prospects are limited to English teacher, who even can't stay in the country without flipping visas, or live like a normal member of society (get a house, car, etc)?
Well, some do... And at least in Ph you eliminate most of the language barrier. But most women are very aware of who they can get and who is out of reach and white guy who often can't even tell a 30 year old from a 20 year old - not to even mention any standards of beauty -can be a good catch for that girl. She is batting way above the local guy she could get otherwise. I am not the only one who has seen normal looking white guys with dredges of local society. Ask some local guys what they think about the women foreign guys are dating. It seems like for a good number of western guys the only standard seems to be "skinny" and not much else...
This would all be moot if you were just looking for sex. Quantity is easy and this is the selling point of SEA. Quality is harder. Out of all the 2+2 guys who spent many years in SEA, how many found a great LTR? There are some, but much fewer than I would expect. And you say you are looking for LTR. Which i also don't understand: you are young, you don't have your **** together, it is strange that your focus in life seems to be searching for LTR right now.