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Originally Posted by Evoken
BTM and Fredd,
Are you only on tinder or using other websites as well? Can you give a comparison? How many tinder dates have you actually pulled off now? Is POF any good or is it kinda the prole website?
I'm doing abysmally on okc and don't have a device that can use tinder. I've sent out ~50+ real messages now, not counting the one liners/half trolling ones. So far 2 chicks are interested in meeting me in person, one of whom I told I was only interested in platonically. She's an MDUSA lifter, shouldn't be hard to figure out who I'm talking about if you watch the videos. I might give her a chance though. People can be hotter in person than pictures.
I'm on okc as well. I had a big lull on tinder so I got on okc and had a lot of instant success there, but now I've had a few new tinder bishes that I've met up with, have numbers or are planning to meet up with. lotta feels out there. I've never used POF but I hear from people that use many of the sites that okc is the best by far in terms of actually meeting up for dates that may lead to potential relationships.
okc is a rough game though bc it takes a lot of time and effort to do the initial research to find chicks you're interested in and then to message them. I probably spend 1-2 hours a day now on okc and right now my best prospects are both from tinder. That can all change instantly tho. Ugh, and then the worst feeling is when you send them a message, you see them look at your profile and then never respond. I hear that the average guy gets like 20% or less response rate back from girls so don't sweat it. Although it's hard not to. Also, I hear that girls are getting 15-20 messages a day (depending on your area and their hotness obv) so I can't even imagine what it must be like to be a girl on one of these sites. Seriously. If a girl is responding regularly to you then it means she either has ZERO life or is very interested in you since she is singling you out.
also, I think my profile is pretty great, but my initial messages to these girls are just terrible. It's so hard to have an interesting, original 4-sentence message to captivate a girl, show your interest and make them interested in you. Any longer than a paragraph is bad I think.