loco,
I really appreciate your feedback. In my view, you are still confused about a number of things regarding addiction, impulse control disorder, and general mental illness.
You can tell someone has an addiction or impulse control disorder when their compulsion interferes with other important aspects of their life and--this is the most important part--they find themselves powerless to stop.
I am in the gym an excessive amount of time that detracts from my time and ability to explore other aspects of my life. And it is proving to be very, very hard for me to alter this. I think I've got it, but then it's suddenly worse than ever. Alcoholics will understand exactly what I mean. But it sounds like you would simply say whatever, just don't drink so much anymore.
Do you ever drink to a certain point and go ugh, I need to stop? And then you do? Or drink yourself silly, then look back on that night and go LOL I went way too hard, and then you DON'T do the exact same thing the next day? An alcoholic is going to keep doing the same thing over and over, regardless of the impact to their health, their relationships, their employment.
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Eventually take some hours away from lifting and add some more hiking, running, biking etc.
I need you to understand that a person addicted to running would struggle not to just keep running at the expense of everything else.
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I probably watch too much porn
I need you to understand that a person addicted to porn would be late to his own wedding to wank off to one more video. I apologize in advance if you actually do have a porn addiction.
It sounds like you are conflating impulse control disorder with someone who simply indulges too much here and there.
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I know you bike so hopefully I am wrong and you biking 300 miles a week in secret and that's what you referring too.
I haven't been on a bike since I wrecked. I'm scared