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How old are you?
I said I was 21 in the post. I've been living on my own for >4 years though.
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stop giving her money.
Obviously giving people money sucks and I 100% understand why and expected this response and I haven't in a while, just felt like including it. Poker put me in a fortunate position though and also desensitized me completely to money so its really hard for me to be tight with money/not help people I care about in ****ty situations when the money is less than a simple buyin to a tourney or a 4bet gone wrong.
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Originally Posted by guids
stop hanging around with this guy "you invited her to the concert so she should only be hooking up with you." He is a douche bag, and stop hanging around the guy who was hitting on her, if he knew that you liked her.
Why is he a douchebag? He didn't say that until way after the fact or whatever. I don't really see/hang out with the other guy except when I'm at my friend's place at his school.
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How in love with her are you (it is very obvious that you are); and be honest this is an internet forum, no one gives a **** and if they do berate you, who gives a ****, but it will help me w/ the advicce.
lol? Why is it very obvious? I don't think i'm that in love with her in that I'm some helpless sucker like a lot of losers I see get obsessed with girls, but I guess I care more about her than I could ever picture myself caring about anyone else. I'm kind of a loner though so idk, 7/10? Its really a weird spot due to the distance/boyfriend, and I've tried to convince her to move back here or somewhere before but I'm wayyyy over that. I basically wrote her off as long as she is living 5hrs away but obviously don't have it in me to screen her/ignore her when she contacts me. I never contact her. I remember reading Henry write something about long-distance relationships constantly remaining in the honeymoon phase so when you see them its short/dramatic/more meaningful and gives you false sense of something being there that really isn't, and if you get closer to them it falls apart. I can rationalize that is the case possibly and sleep fine at night! haha. Berate at will.