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Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun
any thoughts that im getting this reaction because she does not want to fall into friend zone and maybe SHE (wish i knew how to bold) is scared of falling into friend zone when its usually the guy. the reason i say this is because when im not interested in persuing the girl, im usually pretty good at being friends/friendly with them. its kinda weird that im not really getting that same thing from her. so perhaps she is playing games and sh-t to try to see how i react, etc etc etc.
just a thought, not really sure if it holds any ground.
certainly possible, but i still would just cool it for a few days to see how things unfold.
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Originally Posted by nbaaddict
there's a shy girl in my dorm who i see a lot cause we live near each other. she has a massive crush on me. she's pretty smart, she never parties and she's really quiet too. she's not particularly hot.
we don't share similar interests or personalities. all the things she likes (art and church) i don't like. we've interacted before, but all our social interactions have been awkward, cause i know she has a huge crush on me, and i had trouble relating to her cause we're not very similar people. on a recent day she was sandwiched between me and someone else on the school bus, and talked almost exclusively to the other person cause he had much better chemistry with her.
despite all this, i'd like to become her fucc buddy just cause i wanna fucc. i know she's not the hottest and we don't have the best chemistry, but i'd like to take advantage of her crush on me to start banging her.
i don't want to be her bf. i am willing to go on dates though and drop some game in order to be fucc buddies. if need be, i guess i'd be willing to be her bf in exchange for sex. i dunno how likely it is, but its possible that cause of her religious beliefs that she doesn't believe in premarital intercourse. also, i think i could develop better chemistry with her once i actually tried. i'd like to become regular fucc buddies, but am still up for a 1 night stand instead. advice on how to accomplish this? should i ask her out on a date? should i ask her to a party and then dance with her? any other options?
btw, to all those people who might say find someone else, my options are very very limited, and i'd like a fucc partner.
religious chicks are either 1. awesome 2. horrible. i have a personal rule to not date/bang religious chicks. however, she obviously likes you. being her bf just to bang her i wouldnt advice because youre gonna end up hating it and really hurting her (i cant believe i said that). i would just try to get her to a party and make a move on her, if she is resisting bc she wants to date you then pound the brakes and back away. if she is DTF then go for it. dont go on dates with her though if you just want a **** buddy.