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Originally Posted by Gold and Blue
Here are the thoughts running through my head:
1. Why are you calling and texting me? Go ahead and talk to that "other guy" you're seeing. I'm kinda starting to doubt he exists.
2. Don't you feel just a little weird around me or talking to me after what happened? Don't you think that you'd want me to know that there is nothing there but friendship (if thats really all you want)? I expected her to act differently.
3. Is it ever not creepy/desperate/obsessive to ask her about that "other guy"?
4. Honestly, I'd rather you leave me alone. I would rather not keep up this "i'm cool being in the friend zone" facade.
1,2,3,4 - WRONG. Please abandon all these thought. They're all so sarcastic in a way of their own. It's lame. Understandable for what you're going through, been there done that, felt like idiot too. But I can tell now it's lame.
Anyway, cut to the chase, I can't stress this enough. Cut to the chase with her. If you wanna know where you stand, where the other guy stands, how she feels about you.
Next time you're w/ her, just be honest w/ her.
Tell her it's nice and **** being/talking/msgin' with her, but you ain't in mood to play games. (Don't ask what her previous actions are supposed to mean tho'). And you got a date arranged on *whatever day* and to do *whatever activity* and you just wanna know if she's coming too, cuz going on date alone doesn't cut it. (if she's a bit smart, I assume she is, she'll figure out you're actually asking her out lol)
You're in a pot w/ her now, so instead of murky betting action which will only get you confused. When she bets, you push all in. Force her to call or fold.
Showdown she's serious w/ you or muck her hand 'cuz she ain't.
You see, girls' mind is a different world. They do things which confuse guys a lot. Keep it simple and straightforward. Saves a lot of heartache later, should you fall any deeper into this.