"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 2065

Kaziko id ask her to do something before studying in 3 weeks. If you don't she will likely think that was your only intent.

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10-19-2013 , 02:47 PM

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Love Sosa

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Originally Posted by TCDynasty

Amazinmets73,
Are you fifteen years old?

You like a girl, so talk to her and ask her out. You can do this. Let's go amazinmets!!! GET A HAND IN!

LET'S GO HELMET'S NOT A CHAIR

10-19-2013 , 03:13 PM

#51604

TCDynasty

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Love Sosa

LET'S GO HELMET'S NOT A CHAIR

10-19-2013 , 04:09 PM

#51605

amazinmets73

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Might ask her out tonight. Roommate thinks I did more harm than good last night

10-19-2013 , 09:08 PM

#51606

isteal

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Originally Posted by Henry17

Could be a lot more. Depends if this is a ****ty native casino or a nice casino. Typically expensive drinks are $200+

I don't understand the order two drinks and let her pick things. Maybe I'm picturing it wrong but that sounds really stupid.

Picking up waitresses is not hard. It is especially easy in poker rooms which in my experience are typically full of losers so just being normal makes you standout.

GusJohnsonGOAT is somewhat right but instead of the most expensive you should be ordering something that is distinctive, top-shelf, and fits your personality. If you can't afford that you drink beer. No mixed drinks.

Tip well but not so much that you look pathetic. The goal is to show you appreciate how difficult it is to put up with the slobbering idiots she has to serve but not so much that it looks like you're pathetically trying to get her attention by tipping. You tip everyone else the same because they will talk and if you tip someone more than someone else they will know and you'll look like bad.

Drink a lot but don't get to the point where you ever make an ass of yourself because you've drunk too much.

Talk to her like a normal person. Show a little interest but don't hit on her. If she is even slightly attractive every idiot in the room is hitting on her. You don't want to be in the class. Take an interest. You should be doing this with the other staff as well.

Once you have rapport if she's interested she'll set the ball for you to spike. If she doesn't create an opening where she is basically telling you to ask her out then she isn't interested.

This guy is spot on. I did exactly this in my poker room with an attractive massage girl. I am by no means higher than a 6 or 7. I did all of the above and last night she set the ball for me to spike. Problem is...I have a gf. Now to figure out how to spin this into a 3way somehow.

10-20-2013 , 01:02 AM

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Aces Suited

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Henry, by no mixed drinks do you mean no cocktails as well? I feel like picking a non-feminine drink with something like bourbon in it is also a good play for conversation....

10-20-2013 , 01:12 AM

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LazyTops5

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Jim beam and monster ftw

Obv drunk

10-20-2013 , 01:51 AM

#51609

CCuster_911

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I assume he will say on the rocks is the key if you want liquor. Whether it be cheap or expensive.

Not to mention the variance in mixed drinks is absurd.

10-20-2013 , 04:53 AM

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Kaziko1

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Originally Posted by Christophersen

Kaziko id ask her to do something before studying in 3 weeks. If you don't she will likely think that was your only intent.

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I could ask her to join me for lunch one day before then but I think it would be weird if it's just out of the blue. I think I need to have a bit of a text conversation with her before hand.

I'm looking for advice on what I should text her about in the mean time. It seems so weird to just bring up something random that I might text to someone I see every day.

10-20-2013 , 09:12 AM

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MrGrumpy

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It's not out of the blue? You bumped into her, chatted and exchanged numbers the other day. Before you were 'very confident' about asking her out but you didn't have her number. Now you have her number, so ask her out. If you think it'll be weird to text and then potentially see her around class before you have plans just bring it up when you next bump into her.

Seems to me that maybe studying for your exam together in 3 weeks is irrelevant. She expressed an interest in spending time with you so go for it.

10-20-2013 , 09:14 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Aces Suited

Henry, by no mixed drinks do you mean no cocktails as well? I feel like picking a non-feminine drink with something like bourbon in it is also a good play for conversation....

I believe guys should drink straight alcohol without any mix. I drink cognac. I have friends that drink scotch. I have a few friends that drink vodka. A few grappa drinkers. All straight. The vodka drinkers sometimes with a little water.

I'm not a fan of the anise-flavored drinks but I've known guys that drank them. It seems like every nationality has their own anise drink and if your really associate with your nationality then it is fine as a way to signal that. If you're Greek then drinking ouzo is ok. If you're a mangiacake less so.

What you pick is a matter of what suits you. You experiment and eventually you land on something. It should obviously be something you actually enjoy drinking first and considerations and about image second.

If you have to have mix then water, tonic, or coke.

Guys should never drink anything with milk or juice. If you're on vacation in the Caribbean and drinking outside the juice rule can be relaxed a little. Mile never.

Beer is neutral. It gives you no advantage but also no loss.

10-20-2013 , 10:25 AM

#51613

LazyTops5

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Thankfully it didn't hurt me but damn I should not text people aka girls when I'm drunk

10-20-2013 , 10:48 AM

#51614

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I life without margaritas is a life I don't want to live.

10-20-2013 , 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by LazyTops5

Thankfully it didn't hurt me but damn I should not text people aka girls when I'm drunk

More info I feel entertainment value

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10-20-2013 , 01:54 PM

#51616

LazyTops5

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Originally Posted by Christophersen

More info I feel entertainment value

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Actually not that bad now that I think about it, sent the girl Im talking to a pic of cardboard cut outs of Deion Sanders and The Most Interesting Man in the world at my brothers house that I had told her about previously.

She said it was awesome and wanted one

everythingwentbetterthanexpected.jpg

10-20-2013 , 03:00 PM

#51617

Colin_Piddle

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I drink a lot of wine, does this get the seal of approval?

10-20-2013 , 03:05 PM

#51618

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Originally Posted by Henry17

I have a few friends that drink vodka.

I think the notion of sipping vodka a bit weird and I think have never seen anyone do it. Vodka is meant to be drunken in shots.
I have quite a few Russian-born friends and one of them especially used to invite us to his house to drink vodka.
He would serve all kinds of Russian food and we drank shots of vodka, immediately followed by eating a pickle (it completely neutralizes the taste of the vodka and you dont have the disgusting taste in your throat afterwards).

Never see anyone drink it like whiskey.

10-20-2013 , 03:16 PM

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Christophersen

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Tony D why you dont live up to expectations?

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10-20-2013 , 03:23 PM

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I am a double whiskey/scotch on the rocks person. If I'm at a place where that costs $15+ or a team party where everyone's drinking cheap beer I go beer.

What shots do you all order for a mixed group when hooking people up?

10-20-2013 , 03:24 PM

#51621

LazyTops5

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Christophersen

Tony D why you dont live up to expectations?

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Underachiever is my middle name brah

10-20-2013 , 05:23 PM

#51622

amazinmets73

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She hasn't been here last 2 days. Oh well.

10-20-2013 , 07:27 PM

#51623

Otty_Botty

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I drink 100 percent for taste when I go out. I give zero ****s about what people think of what I'm drinking. That's just me though.

10-20-2013 , 09:11 PM

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Henry17

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Going between sports bars today in under 5 minutes walking I got asked for money at least six times, got asked for smokes twice, someone was picking up butts from the ground, someone asked me to help them get a cab, and someone asked me if I wanted to buy some green contacts.

I've always argued that living in the downtown core was essential for picking up but if this is what downtowns are turning into I'll have to reconsider that.