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07-16-2013 , 09:17 PM
Confirmed hot girls on Tinder
07-16-2013 , 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
That is much better than I expected. I'm going to suggest Tinder to my friend who is doing PoF and see what results are like here.
Its not even close to a comparison, the problem with tinder for some guys is that it is vain. I mean if you are not attractive or have some attractive features you wont get many matches.

The best strat would be to just like every girl and screen once you get matched. This takes the minimal amount of work in getting matches and allows you to just focus on the communication.

Some more pcis from same guy that is trolling:



07-16-2013 , 09:20 PM
If peeps have a lot of free time of their hands and want to actually see convos/how easy ti can be, as well as how forward some girls are here is the bb thread(its pretty long but you can just skim to the actual pics)

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...3315441&page=1

07-16-2013 , 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
The main difference between tinder and other sites is that there really isnt a stigma to tinder
+1. I haven't personally used Tinder but my friends have shown it to me and I was shocked at how many hot girls were on it. I've literally had friends make fun of online dating while bragging about girls on Tinder--for some reason there is just no social stigma attached to it. Probably get around to trying it one of these days.
07-16-2013 , 09:55 PM
Entertaining BB thread, but why does every BBer talk like a brain dead 15 year old? Think I go on life tilt every time I'm on there.
07-16-2013 , 10:18 PM
BB dude is legit hilarious

gonna steal some of his lines
07-16-2013 , 10:26 PM
Henry- I think its a combination of the two. I don't have a lot of single options at the moment yet ive met at least 5-6 married/ other new girls who are taken I certainly have no desire to break up their relationship.

For me its your number 2, and because the chick seems like my sort of chick and is a high quality girl. In my opinion she has done more then just being nice as there are a lot of subtle differences in behaviour between her and the lawyer chick I met a couple of weekends back who was clearly just being nice.
07-16-2013 , 11:42 PM
haha i love that thread. I need to get ripped asap.
07-17-2013 , 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted by DoubleD
Tinder is just like any dating site except it only uses looks as a characteristic for partner selection, instead of a personality profile etc. Spurious you are way off here.
Yeah, I was off. In my head, it was something like Grinder.

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Originally Posted by Henry17
Why would that be a bad thing?

In real world scenarios it is because the only girls who would use such a service are going to be unattractive but for the sake of argument lets assume we are talking about a method to meet hot girls who are DTF -- why wouldn't that be a huge positive?

There was a Canadian dating site that was market leader for a while and they broke the site down into Casual Dating / Serious Relationship / Intimate Encounters. My understanding is that PoF is basically just Intimate Encounters. If not for the quality issue I don't see why anyone would see this as a negative.
You cant take social stigma away from it (in my head, I made the assumption that Tinder was an app for desperate people). Of course, if it was socially accepted and only attractive people would use it, then it would be different, but that's not the case.

Someone extensively using it (even Tinder or PoF) reeks of desperation.
07-17-2013 , 04:24 AM
You obviously have no clue about the subject you are talking about, but still speak with conviction. Impressive.

In american universities, I would assume 80%+ of all iPhone user actively use tinder. Probably higher but I am just playing it safe. It also definitely does not have an upper bound in terms of attractiveness.

The actual tinder takes very little time if you dont care at all, you can literally swipe right(to like someone) and go through hundreds of profiles in minutes(once you either swipe right/left a new one pops up within your filter criteria(age/miles)). Then you just wait to see what girls liked you, and chat the ones you feel are attractive(it also lists mutual friends as well as shared interests from facebook). The girls are basically the ones screening, although if you cared enough you can screen as a male.

It is nowhere even close to PoF, I wouldn't even call it a dating app.

Last edited by CCuster_911; 07-17-2013 at 04:30 AM.
07-17-2013 , 05:45 AM
Is tinder also available outside the US (Europe for instance).
Seems weird that girls do the screening as in real life its usually (mostly at least) the opposite
07-17-2013 , 09:41 AM
met this chick at a bar thursday. texted a little that night, told her id hit her up this week.

texted her yesterday using her "nickname" ((play on her first name) asking how her weekend went with an inside joke. she snapped responded with my own "nickname" then went dark. lol me or lol women?

5:59PM
Me: "What's up [nickname]!? How'd your weekend end up, get any exciting instagram photos?"


6:03PM
Her: [nickname]! Noo, I'm boring and opened [at work] all weekend. I don't often get to have fun these days haha. How was yours?


6:07PM
Me: Too bad, are you experiencing hashtag or filter withdrawals? I didn't do anything either, worked Saturday night and early Sunday. Tends to happen after a [place we met] Thursday haha



then nothing. wat
07-17-2013 , 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
You cant take social stigma away from it (in my head, I made the assumption that Tinder was an app for desperate people). Of course, if it was socially accepted and only attractive people would use it, then it would be different, but that's not the case.

Someone extensively using it (even Tinder or PoF) reeks of desperation.
I'm not sold on Tinder -- we have some evidence for attractive girls but not enough to be confident and I see at least two additional issues -- what percentage of hot girls actually want to meet vs what percentage want to have their ego inflated and just chat to fill their boring time. I also think that it will have issues because the type of guys who will be successful on Tinder are also the type of guys that already have no issues picking up constantly in person. I don't know if the average looking guy is going to really get any hot girls from this. I'd expect guys will generally be going at their own level or under because you have no way of really promoting any of your other qualities except looks.

That being said I get the impression from you post that you feel there has to be a certain amount of effort involved but maybe I'm reading it wrong.

I tend to think that low effort ways to have sex with hot girls are very rare but they do exist. I see those as good things. I don't know if Tinder falls into the category but I'm positive on the category.
07-17-2013 , 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
That being said I get the impression from you post that you feel there has to be a certain amount of effort involved but maybe I'm reading it wrong.
I thought about it some more this morning and read the thread in the BB forum and to be honest, I think the above is the case (pretty good read).

If you dont have to put in any effort, what's the point really?
07-17-2013 , 10:00 AM
Spurious think of it like this:

option 1: go to bar, cold approach women (well with whatever indicators you are given, eye contact etc)

option 2: get mutual like on tinder. say hey im going to this bar tonight, wanna go? if she goes you already know she is attracted physically. then proceed as above except her odds of being dtf are probably increased bc she is on tinder. if not who cares go to bar as normal.


obviously you shouldnt rely on tinder solely, but its just another way to pick someone up. you arent gonna harm your rep or anything by inviting someone out who thinks youre good looking, and you arent gonna harm your rep by spam liking every hot chick because you only know if someone likes you if you like them back.
07-17-2013 , 10:02 AM
I have to say that I had the wrong impression of Tinder when I posted last night, I thought it was something different.

If you use it as a means to meet people, it can probably be useful (just like online dating), but from the (obviously selected) examples in the BB thread, some women throw themselves at you.

Having said all of that, I would probably try it. But given that probably nobody in Europe outside of London uses it, I can't.
07-17-2013 , 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
I thought about it some more this morning and read the thread in the BB forum and to be honest, I think the above is the case (pretty good read).

If you dont have to put in any effort, what's the point really?
Having sex is an end in itself. I don't know when I was single if I was getting invitations to the Playboy Mansion parties I wouldn't turn them down.

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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
Spurious think of it like this:

option 1: go to bar, cold approach women (well with whatever indicators you are given, eye contact etc)

option 2: get mutual like on tinder. say hey im going to this bar tonight, wanna go? if she goes you already know she is attracted physically. then proceed as above except her odds of being dtf are probably increased bc she is on tinder. if not who cares go to bar as normal.


obviously you shouldnt rely on tinder solely, but its just another way to pick someone up. you arent gonna harm your rep or anything by inviting someone out who thinks youre good looking, and you arent gonna harm your rep by spam liking every hot chick because you only know if someone likes you if you like them back.
Yes except obviously the less attractive are going to match. I'm still not clear on exactly how it works but basically I assume there are two lists of pictures -- male and female. Everyone gets the complete list and you go threw and select people you think are attractive. When two people select each other it sets off an alert and you each get told about the match.

I suspect that what you'll have is an inverse correlation between how attractive a girl is and how many guys she selects as possible matches.


It is funny because getting a job in law in Ontario was based on the same match system and I can't believe it never occurred to me that this would work for dating. No one has mentioned how they make money from this -- I assume ads of some kind or maybe they are just building it up to monetize later.
07-17-2013 , 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
Having sex is an end in itself. I don't know when I was single if I was getting invitations to the Playboy Mansion parties I wouldn't turn them down.
So replace the Playboy Mansion with the Christian Society of Homophobes, Bigotes and what not.
Would you still go?

The invitation to the Playboy Mansion is the achievement, not getting laid there.
07-17-2013 , 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
So replace the Playboy Mansion with the Christian Society of Homophobes, Bigotes and what not.
Would you still go?

The invitation to the Playboy Mansion is the achievement, not getting laid there.
Well no. I'm not desperate enough to put up with something that I am offended by to get laid. Because Raëlism has tentacles into strip clubs I actually ran into that occasionally. That is a different situation though. I wasn't talking are you willing to do something distasteful to get laid. Most people would say no to that but rather just something effortless.

1) For get Playboy then -- most major cities have onsite clubs where people go to have sex. Getting allowed into these requires some qualification but nothing that would be consider effort -- acceptable or unacceptable in your book?

2) Spontaneous proposition -- girl you know or don't know but not a girl you were working on or even considering that way just spontaneously propositions you-- I guess you could argue that being in a position where this happens to you did take effort but I can think of a few examples where it didn't-- acceptable or unacceptable?

This is hard to imagine because these situations of no effort are so rare and we've been conditioned to think that when there is a no effort situation the girl is going to be some fat wildebeest but I can't see any value in turning down no/low effort situations.
07-17-2013 , 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by GusJohnsonGOAT
Tinder is finally available for Android. Might try it out. Got 3 girls on my radar atm, though. Might wait it out a little to start. Supposed to bang one tomorrow and one Thursday.
awesome. just signed in. it's pretty funny when you see girls you know on there, or just random hot girls but they are mutually friends with like 20 of your friends.
07-17-2013 , 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
Well no. I'm not desperate enough to put up with something that I am offended by to get laid. Because Raëlism has tentacles into strip clubs I actually ran into that occasionally. That is a different situation though. I wasn't talking are you willing to do something distasteful to get laid. Most people would say no to that but rather just something effortless.

1) For get Playboy then -- most major cities have onsite clubs where people go to have sex. Getting allowed into these requires some qualification but nothing that would be consider effort -- acceptable or unacceptable in your book?

2) Spontaneous proposition -- girl you know or don't know but not a girl you were working on or even considering that way just spontaneously propositions you-- I guess you could argue that being in a position where this happens to you did take effort but I can think of a few examples where it didn't-- acceptable or unacceptable?

This is hard to imagine because these situations of no effort are so rare and we've been conditioned to think that when there is a no effort situation the girl is going to be some fat wildebeest but I can't see any value in turning down no/low effort situations.
1) acceptable, but that's due to pre-screening done by a third party that adds prestige to it. Also, I imagine it's not a lock to get laid there?
If that club has low standards then it's unacceptable.

2) acceptable, but those situations are extremely rare and I would be suspicious anyways.


Maybe I am weird, but if something requires no effort to accomplish, how can it be worth something?

Just fwiw, Tinder does require effort. I was having the app Grinder in my mind (which is mostly used by homosexuals), where you basically see who is online, where they live and you meet up.
07-17-2013 , 10:55 AM
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Maybe I am weird, but if something requires no effort to accomplish, how can it be worth something?
Because sex is an enjoyable act Spurious. That's why
07-17-2013 , 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by The-fryke
Because sex is an enjoyable act Spurious. That's why
Hence my comparison to prostitution, which seems like the easier choice.
07-17-2013 , 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
I'm not sold on Tinder -- we have some evidence for attractive girls but not enough to be confident and I see at least two additional issues -- what percentage of hot girls actually want to meet vs what percentage want to have their ego inflated and just chat to fill their boring time. I also think that it will have issues because the type of guys who will be successful on Tinder are also the type of guys that already have no issues picking up constantly in person. I don't know if the average looking guy is going to really get any hot girls from this. I'd expect guys will generally be going at their own level or under because you have no way of really promoting any of your other qualities except looks.

That being said I get the impression from you post that you feel there has to be a certain amount of effort involved but maybe I'm reading it wrong.

I tend to think that low effort ways to have sex with hot girls are very rare but they do exist. I see those as good things. I don't know if Tinder falls into the category but I'm positive on the category.
It definitely falls in that category. I'm sure there are hot chicks on there, but from what my friend has pulled, i haven't seen evidence yet.

There are hot horny girls out there, but the problem is it seems like they'd rarely resort to an app like this to get laid. I used to think the same thing about OKcupid, but there are plenty of hot girls on there, so I was wrong about that.

If I was single I'd definitely be using Tinder

Spurious, you're an idiot.
07-17-2013 , 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Spurious
Hence my comparison to prostitution, which seems like the easier choice.
Yes, paying $500 for a middle tier prostitute who may or not be a cop ready to send you to prison is the same banging a SEC sorority who you liked you on tinder (not to mention you can, you know, keep banging her)

      
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