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Originally Posted by Henry17
Well no. I'm not desperate enough to put up with something that I am offended by to get laid. Because Raëlism has tentacles into strip clubs I actually ran into that occasionally. That is a different situation though. I wasn't talking are you willing to do something distasteful to get laid. Most people would say no to that but rather just something effortless.
1) For get Playboy then -- most major cities have onsite clubs where people go to have sex. Getting allowed into these requires some qualification but nothing that would be consider effort -- acceptable or unacceptable in your book?
2) Spontaneous proposition -- girl you know or don't know but not a girl you were working on or even considering that way just spontaneously propositions you-- I guess you could argue that being in a position where this happens to you did take effort but I can think of a few examples where it didn't-- acceptable or unacceptable?
This is hard to imagine because these situations of no effort are so rare and we've been conditioned to think that when there is a no effort situation the girl is going to be some fat wildebeest but I can't see any value in turning down no/low effort situations.
1) acceptable, but that's due to pre-screening done by a third party that adds prestige to it. Also, I imagine it's not a lock to get laid there?
If that club has low standards then it's unacceptable.
2) acceptable, but those situations are extremely rare and I would be suspicious anyways.
Maybe I am weird, but if something requires no effort to accomplish, how can it be worth something?
Just fwiw, Tinder does require effort. I was having the app Grinder in my mind (which is mostly used by homosexuals), where you basically see who is online, where they live and you meet up.