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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
This is a bad mindset. You shouldn't settle for less desirable girls because you think hotter girls are out of your league. What you should do is try to figure out how to get the top quality girls you want and slowly work your way there.
I am talking about Mets btw.
I said nothing about the attractiveness of a girl. If a girl is openly displaying that she isn't interested in you then it is a massive waste of time trying to convince her otherwise.
Especially if you aren't getting success with other women. I would try to change some girls mind if I was already killing it with other women but if you are struggling with all women, you are just setting yourself up for failure by trying to get with a girl that doesn't like you.
It's a self fulfilling prophecy where at the end of it all (when you get rejected) you can just say, 'Ah well I expected that', and come away with no hard feelings which is a terrible defeatist attitude. It is also totally different to 'not caring' because you have set yourself up in this position by choice.