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Originally Posted by Karak
You have very clearly been burned by women way too many times in your life. You need to step back and reevaluate your own experiences and feelings before trying to advise other people.
The bitterness of your last paragraph makes it clear this has probably happened to you. However, that does not mean it will happen to everyone. You are basically advocating never taking a chance with a girl if there's a chance down the line that he gets hurt. That's sad.
If the specter of your girlfriend potentially flirting with someone else while you are in a relationship bothers you, you are in for a huge shock when you get into a serious relationship. All women flirt and will continue to relationship or not. The same goes for men. It's a natural part of human interaction. Learn to deal with it or you are going to have serious jealousy issues for a long time.
Alright, alright you caught me.
I'm at the tail end of this relationship with a sociopath(pretty positive about this one). At the beginning of the relationship with her(the first time) I was all about the challenge. I feel in love with this psychopath at first sight(greatest tits Ive ever seen, 18, platinum, size 0, did a bunch of drugs, what I thought was my dream girl basically). She had a bf at the time and I won her from him.
She made me think I was super cool at first and gave me all the confidence in the world. She was down for whatever I wanted and was just the perfect girl. Everything I wanted.
Then we were together. She ****ing turned into this totally different person immediately. But since I was already in love with her I was able to put up with all her control and jealousy and manipulation and using and purposefully trying to hurt me more than anyone ever could.
Once I finally got away I thought i was free. Nope. I ****ed up my next relationship with the girl I actually wanted and was really in love with(she loved me back, didnt just stockholm syndrome/sociopathically turn me into her slave) and was in love with me because she has changed me so much i actually went back to her.
I just want everyone to be cautious of who they start to fall for because if once you are theirs they totally change and you dont feel like you can do anything right and never please them. Get the **** out.
Youll never make them happy and therefore you will never be happy.
Thats why I suggest getting the girls to want you so that you know they do, also they like the challenge sometimes as well(if they aren't a sociopath) and honestly...dont you want to **** as many girls as you can before you actually settle dow?
Last edited by Source158; 03-04-2010 at 12:59 PM.
Reason: i dont want any pity or sympathy I just want everyone to learn from my mistakes and watch out for sociopaths.