yeah good advice so far. just invite her to the gym and get rid of the junk food in the house. Dont want her to become a fat

This is pretty brutal. At least word it better.

Yeah, don't word like it an aspie would.

next time you're eating out order her a salad while you eat a delicious steak in front of her. that'll teach the bitch.

rofl, this is harsh but its the right way to go about it imo. i would probably say the same thing but word it differently.

Get a new girlfriend. Even if you can temporarily fix this with your inviting her to the gym tricks, it's only going to get worse and worse in the future so end it before it's too late.

Toph - we don't really cook together a lot. I eat like a total of 10 different things when I am at home which personally I don't mind at all because I find it the easiest way to keep my diet in check, but she thinks everything I eat is bland as fk, (and it probably is) so it usually ends up being just make whatever we want at the same time and eat together, but rarely the same thing.

Mullen - yeah we live together, but groceries and stuff is kind of touch-and-go. Like if we need something, one of us will get it; there isn't a weekly shopping trip or something where we make a list and pick stuff up together. I actually NEVER buy junk food at the grocery store because I actually have terrible self-control, and hate the fact that she does buy it/has it in the apt.

Disko - not sure that is as discrete as I would like! FWIW if she were to hit 130 I would 50% actually say this and 50% break up.

Uses - Welcome to the thread! I don't think that historically this has been a symptom of girls getting "comfortable" in their relationships with me, but rather my lifestyle adversely affects them more than is easily handled. This happens literally to EVERY girl that I have been involved with for longer than a couple of months.

I mean this is comical that I posted about it when I did. I went to taco bell after soccer and ate it in the car so that she wouldn't be like "why didn't you get me anything?" then hopped in the shower after posting that, while she went to go pick something up from the bookstore. I get out of the shower and she got taco bell on her way home; also asked if I go to the store later to get blacknMilds can I pick up a bag of chocolate. Like, WHAT???

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1. set up a nice date
2. buy her a dress in a size that used to be her size
3. tell her to wear said dress out
4. let her own shame of not fitting in dress pan out
5. ask, "why arent you wearing the dress" "ive gained weight" "i didnt notice, im sure you can drop it quickly"
6. ?????????
7. Profit

Wow I like that one.

im lucky that i was able to transfer to a T14. if my grades hadn't killed it 1L year i dunno what i would have done.

On second thought, please do this. I'd love to see a TR.

zz,

lol @ her getting Taco Bell. She probably thinks she's too busy to stay in shape now. You're in real trouble since she's justifying being fat in her mind now.

You're in big trouble. People generally lose weight because they want to - not because someone else wants them to, even if that person is their significant other. Yeota's idea has merit but she might eat healthy for a couple days then be tired and hungry and be like "cheat day with Taco Bell" and fall off the wagon.

If your GF really had a 10 body she's definitely noticed the weight she's gained, and the fact that she continues to eat terribly shows she doesn't really care.

Yeah she actually commented on it like two days ago. At which point roommate number 2 (who is like ~200) was like "do you wanna join a gym with me?" but the chances of that becoming a regular thing are basically nil. IDK. Maybe start watching The Biggest Loser together or something? Try to get her to do the triathlon with me next year? Right now I think I will go with yeota's though.

I mean the gym would help a little bit but the main reason she put on weight is probably getting lazy with her diet. I mean lets face it ****ty food is delicious and once you start eating lots of it again it's hard to stop (coming from a former fat person here).

yeah, best thing about my suggestion is that she doesn't follow though and start losing you can play the "why havent you worn that dress i got you" card

Yeota,

assuming his girlfriend isn't ******ed she's going to see right through his little charade. Whether or not she takes the hint is her prerogative. And if she doesn't follow through after the initial "shame" needling isn't really going to help the cause.

well consider shes a girl she probably wont understand and well be more self loathing than mad at him


like he cant just randomly buy it, he needs to set it up like its a big deal kinda nice date night thing and surprise her

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxBsXzvENpo

My point is girls notice already when they gain weight, especially girls with a 10 body. If her clothes don't fit anymore she will notice. My GF had this favorite pair of jean shorts that she cut herself from size 0 capri jeans. She must have gained a couple pounds over the winter because she mentioned to me that she could barely fit in them anymore and wanted to diet/gym and asked that we start eating healthier when we went out/cooked. She lost the weight because she wanted to, which is what people need to do when they lose weight. IIRC you're a former fatty so you know what I'm getting at.

If she doesn't understand then she's just stupid. Plus she still might be able to barely squeeze into the dress or something then the whole plan backfires. Basically the fact that she's put on 10 pounds, has mentioned she's noticed, and still picks up taco bell and asks for bags of chocolate bodes terribly because it shows she doesn't care or has no motivation to try.

good post

i just cant think of any other strategy


its possible she doesnt think ZZ notices. perhaps she is already in the mode of "**** it, ive gained weight, so whats 1 more taco bell" which is obv a slippery slope.

IRL friend suggested I just gain a little bit of weight and THEN go with the "lets get healthy together" route.

get a wii

I would have, but we put the video game debate to rest a while ago!