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Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun
i also dont believe in ditching out on my friends for a girl i dont know.
im not really sure what to do, because none of the options are really that good.
id prefer to go with my friends to the show friday night and then hang out with her at my apartment or do something with her on saturday night, but i said friday and i dont want to flake.
I'm sure your friends won't mind.
I think it may also be ok to reschedule with her to Saturday. Forgive me for not knowing the history, but did you make any firm plans with her yet or just a general Friday offer?
That said, I don't like bringing an underage girl to a bar, especially if she has never been. She will be too amazed and awe-struck at the bar scene to pay any attention to you. I would take her somewhere where she will be less distracted and will be more likely to pay attention to you.
No I don't have any ideas. Go bowling. hahaha.
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Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun
i dont want our first hangout to be drunk at a bar. but i kinda invited her to the bar. should i just call her and see where the convo goes?
I would stay away from the bar for the aforementioned reasons. Try to come up with a valid substitute to offer before you call. Like, "Oh my gsoh I saw x concert on Y night... we should do that." and come up wit hsome sort of excuse why Friday night bar is a bad idea or don't even make ane xcuse. Just say Saturday will work better. I dunno, but I think the bar is a bad idea given the context here.
I'm writing this really quick and have to run, but I'll check in a bit later.