lol

Yeah, this is true. My fear of 2+2 finding out is definitely affecting my decision to not pursue that girl. I honestly look over my shoulder for yeotajmu and a tablet PC tuned to Student Life every time I IM her. The fact of the matter is I a) know a lot more about the vintage wife situation than he's posted on SL and b) learned from my mistakes and see Vintage making many of the same ones. Ever since I've moved out of the post-1-year-era of my last break up, I've pretty much regained my senses and can't imagine dating anyone below age 21 for really any reason. It's also highly inconvenient. That's not to say I won't hook up (jersey shore definition) with them though, as I did BG like a month ago (did you miss that?).

It's been a while since you've trolled me CCuster, and my other biggest troll (from another forum) actually started liking me, so I'm glad you are back :-P. I feel like if my stable of dedicated followers/secretly obsessed fanboys dips below ~5, I've probably become complacent in my posting. I still wish you were better at it, though.

also anyone letting "2+2 finding out" affect their IRL decisions (on matters such as this) would a fairly pathetic person! CCuster, you know how amazing and high quality I am! (That's why you follow all my posts so closely!)

100% agree. I was going to post that, but I didn't want to be that guy who just dips into another mod's forum to ruthlessly troll him over insignificant things! I know Yeti would never do something like that to me!

haha im in such a good mood today im ending everything with !!!s! somewhere, LKJ is seething!

yeah i think so

word. my only concern with the gibson is apparently each reserved table is limited to 2 hours? i guess ill just do that and then leave the after open ended. ive got a pretty good knowledge of bars in the area, so we can just drift to one of those.

i havent posted much about girl situations in a while (on purpose!), but this one seems promising. ive started dating and talking to a bunch of "higher quality" women my age (read: 22-28 - im 25) around DC and see how silly it was to get tied up in all that dramatic bull**** from before. as i alluded to above, i think a lot of it had to do with moving on from my last relationship too and finally putting that past me has opened my eyes up quite a bit as well. things are going well in this area of my life!

anyone else who finds themselves in a cycle of dramatic **** needs to take a step back and look at their table (girl) selection. it can seem so obvious at times, but it's so hard to have a rational grip on the situation once you get (emotionally?) involved. the best decision is to stay away from it in the first place. the drama can be fun when you are younger, but as im getting older and more serious about my life and where im going, ive grown tired of it extremely quick. ive seen some good, rational friends of mine get into truly destructive situations with a girl because they ignored the early warning signs. it can happen to anyone unless you have henry-esque emotional control (and i warrant it could and has happened to him too as he has shared).

running around with teenagers/low-hanging fruit because it's easy and doesnt require as much effort isn't the way to spend your "prime" dating years in which you (or at least i want to) to seek out a long-term life mate. im certainly in no rush to do so, but now is a good time to at least start taking a glance around. im going to be getting really busy with career stuff too, so it's important i take advantage of these opportunities. summer in DC is also an amazing time to meet really cool girls who are working as interns at Congress, staffers, paralegals, lawyers, etc. I can tell you guys after spending a day on the hill last week that that place was packed with some of the hottest, intelligent 25ish-yo girls I've ever seen. It was truly staggering.

No, Yes.

To be fair, the night started with drinking. Just beers, just enough to get buzzed. My roommate and I smoked a joint after gf went to bed. I realize at first that it makes it look like we were blazed out of our heads. Nah, but we were a little buzzed from both, so a combo.

Now you get what I've been saying about DC dating!

Fyi I've never been asked to leave a table at the Gibson after two hours, but I'm usually in DC around the holidays so I imagine things are quieter everywhere.

Also:

Vintage, if that's really what she's mad about (or anything close to that) then it's not a case of lol women. There are a lot of available girls who would never do anything like that.

She just came over and talked. The talk took <5mins. She was upset about that but she admitted she was just being over-jealous and that it was unnecessary.

yep. tbh i always believed you. i just was lazy and using excuses to not go do anything. now that school is out, i have no more excuses and have been a lot more active (getting a good night's sleep every night has certainly helped). altho school isnt really an excuse, it is pretty tiring... but i coulda made time.

also ill ask them when i call to make the reservation. eating out/snobby drink season is in full swing right now and everywhere upscale is packed fri/sat.

A simple rule is that if you tell a troll they're not very good, they're probly pretty good. Sometimes CCuster's barbs are so penetrating I almost wince for you behind the keyboard. He is good. Give him that.

Karak, how do you resolve your new dating style with the fact that 18-22 year old girls are the hottest? I used to think I had an older woman fetish myself until FG came along. Comparing her to my previous 19 yo gf, I found her to be something like a Buick Century compared to a Lotus Elise. Maybe more dependable, knows what it wants, built to last, but the Lotus is lighter faster and holds my attention for longer, even if it is more dangerous.

Old but attractive girls are so exceedingly rare, and the few ones that do exist are almost always either milfs or desperate to get married to the richest bastard that will **** out a kid with her. I could be 6'5" and built like a brick ****house and they would still choose thremp if he had Mittens' $.

lol women.

Vintage,

It's not such a big deal that CRC was upset by smthg stupid, and especially not a big deal because you were able to resolve it in 5 mins. But wtf is with her saying "Don't talk to me all day unless I talk to to you?" That's kind of red flaggy - like it is really strange to get so upset as to say something so dramatic, only to then get over it.

She ragging?

Question for you guys:
About 1.5 years ago a girl who was previously together with a good friend of mine gave lots of hints that she would be interested in a relationship with me but I sort of ignored them as my friend wasn't over her yet.

Now they are friends again, she broke up with her previous boyfriend 3 months ago and I met her today, asking her about the time back then and her feelings. She denied she ever wanted anything from me and told me I'm not her type. I still find her attractive and find it very unlikely that she never had feelings for me. Any good advice what to do?

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Forget about her

If I had $50k to spend on a car, I'd get an Elise/Exige. The Elise also has a Toyota engine in it, so is pretty reliable itself.

I prob would've gone with an Accord in the analogy, but after research, I'm surprised to see that Buicks are pretty reliable cars.

haven't watched porn in over a month now i just realized. i don't really miss it ever, though i do find my behavior slightly changing. like today i watched this stupid ass interview with the girl from the spice girls cause she had nice cleavage and it was impossible to change the channel. back in my days of porn watching i'd be so desensitized to that sort of thing.

thata boy. porn ftl. think i've watched it like under 5 times the past 9~ months(since getting new laptop)

also, CC, skype group? im not around a ton anymore so that'd be nice to talk to people when they are online.

hell, I'll organize it if wanted, just pm me your skype names.

Ok, now one thing: Step back from the situation and ask yourself, why exactly her and why now?

Then report back

Im CCuster_911 on skype(iirc), wont be on skype until at least after the third. I have wsopmichael on my skype and every 5 days he sents me a message: hud. Its like clockwork.

haha awesome. added

It's obvious when someone gets under your skin as yeti clearly has, fake good mood regardless.

(But I realize that you're not too affected by CC's jabs most of the time and that counter-opinions that say otherwise are wrong.)

wp

Also I am not going to say that I believe my trolling effects karak, but it takes a weird kind of "unaffected" to, on numerous times, multiparagraph responses(which i really dont read, just skim). And then claims to do it to get me enraged "again", where it has never happened once. But meh, tone is hard to pick up through the written language in such short posts I make, especially cause I dont try.

The funny part is i assumed this all happened when I called him ****ty at HU, or delusional, whichever way you would like to read(i believe both).

But then again we are referring to the same person, who iirc, "got back" together(in a light sense seeing as I dont think they were ever really dating), with a girl even after she through up major signals that its prob not worth the time and shes a complete mess, but than, less than a year later(my timeline might be slightly off), has enough wisdom to go around telling a man who has just been cheated on by his wife stuff like this:

"Also, am I the only one who thinks whether or not she had sex with the guy (though she likely did) is completely irrelevant? The "emotional cheating" alone is enough, much less the basic physicality she admitted to. All of that is absolutely marriage ending and I don't see how anyone could argue otherwise. Can you imagine the structure of a marriage after this event?

His wife was sending sexually charged texts to another man, including referencing leaving their SOs, was fantasizing about him and (after repeatedly lying about it) admitted to kissing him, an act which is highly physical and emotional. Is them actually having sex really necessary for OP to realize their marriage is dead and he can't trust her? No way."

I dont know what type of people on 2p2 are qualified to give mbp advice, but i doubt someone who has acted very similar(practically taking a person back after major things happened, and eveyone says he shouldnt) is someone that can fit that description.

But then again this whole post is me raging cause Karak's getting under my skin...damn let it happen again

yeota and i read this post together, and after we finished he asked "does that tilt you?"
"which part?"
*pointing* "effects instead of affects"

then we guffawed

he didnt really read it closely tho

i havent the slightest clue what this is about. is it referring to me? you and GCG really must have me mixed up with someone else. when my ex and i broke up it was super donezo and getting back together wasn't even remotely an option. she also wasnt a complete mess. im really confused sorry?

it must have made you real mad that everyone thought my advice was really good, because it was basic common sense for anyone who has history in relationships. you only know me through the BG saga which was just something that happened in the aftermath of a relationship that was at the doorstep of marriage and threw me into a pretty huge loop after it ended. like i said in my posts above, though, i learned from my mistake and have my head back on my shoulders.

you're a lot younger than us and don't have the serious LTR experience (or any at all?) so i think you probably have a different (and likely more innocently naive) perspective on this than someone in his mid-late 20s would.

i didnt get to where i am in life right now being unhinged and irrational, bro, lol. we all just have our moments and you also are really, really terrible at detecting when im leveling, so you take a lot of things at face value. it's too bad because a lot of your posts are funny, but your hate at me is i think just out of a lack of understanding. i went through this EXACT same sequence with a poster who is like your IDENTICAL twin on the SC2 forum, but he came to the realization of what my personality really is like from reading the mbp thread and he and i are now good chums as a result! im glad i still have you though <3.

when i read vintage's post i thought it was forsure going to be something he said in his sleep that she was mad about. i wouldn't sweat it. when girls are looking for an out sometimes they do things to sabotage the relationship but this doesn't look like it.

but i bet if this was the first month of the relationship she wouldn't leave without you knowing and send that text lol. something to just be aware of.

Your advice was advice that had be stated like 50+ times before you from 50+ different posters...thats like me saying:

"Speak quietly and carry a large rod" and saying I am really good at making meaningful quotes

And I was referring to BG, when you were really into her, than she ****ed a creeper dude or whatever at a party after texting you about how creepy he was, than told you in terms of getting raped, or some absurd girl gonna girl drama. Everyone told you to stay clear the girl is not going to work out well with you(what everyone is telling mbp now), but you insisted on getting even closer to her after a small break(iirc), again what mbp is about to be doing now, and then guess what the **** happen. You got "lets just be friends" bombed dropped on you and were devastated. Now you seem to be an expert on "cutting off" ties to a person that has thrown up a lot of signals that doing so is best, when everyone around you told you what you "should" do.

But maybe I got the whole Bg drama wrong I am just doing it off memory, and I didnt really study that ****, probably read a good percentage of the posts and skimmed/skipped the rest.

Also your last post is baffling as I have zero clue what you are referring to. I have never spoken my opinions on the whole mbp stuff.