Communication is the key.

No, LIE LIE LIE, lying is the key to a successful relationship. (and remembering the lies)

everyone has skeletons, and it is impossible to predict another persons reaction to a given situation...

it'd be really stupid to tell your gf that you ran a stop sign and killed a dog by accident and have her flip thinking you're some sort of Michael Vick guy. especially when it comes from a joke you told/laughed at or something harmless and innocent but you decided to get too truthful... there is always an opportunity for disaster when the complete truth is involved.

my response to flirty girls is being a flirty guy... but then again I'm not out looking to get with some girl with any sort of need/desire to fit in and I'm not that flirty guy... I can't stand putting on a facade (imo flirting is acting)

but if she's that fly then just suck it up and deal with it or flirt with all her friends... without being homosexual about it

The longer you leave it, the worse it will get for you, the more you will notice it and the more surprised she will be when you mention it. Bring it up now, because it will need to be done at some point. Better now to see how she reacts about it. If it makes you uncomfortable then it's something that needs dealing with in some shape or form.

You are ******ed. I can't think of someone who would potentially want independence more than someone who just had a 4 year relationship.

You are similarly completely ******ed.

Don't date girls that are this ****ing stupid.

Yeah, that's the way to be passive-aggressive buddy. Nice work.

lol

LOL it was early on in our relationship dude...I went from a gf of 3 yrs who never flirted with dudes and was just like totally into me....this one flirted, but just joked around and people would know we were together....and that independence thing is stupid because she's done it 3 times now over 3 yrs where we have broken up, then she comes back like 2 months later...and I'm 23...so obviously you are working towards getting married, not regressing.

I haven't read anything in this thread except for the title. It sounds like you are ugly/fat/poor or something similar and you should drop her before the inevitable happens and she bangs someone else on your watch.

I'm the smartest piece of work to ever grace this planet.

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Bring it up to her. If you aren't happy, break it off.

Pretty simple solution. There are plenty of girls out there for you.

rich man doesnt have to tell hes rich

+1. Take Bob's advice and don't listen to anyone else who tells you otherwise.

she's a slut

this is exactly why i don't do relationships.

Coming from a female perspective here, I had a similar issue in my last relationship...we were both poker players so that certainly added another element to everything but he had serious jealousy issues everywhere we went.

If I started any table talk with guys while playing he would pretty much stop talking to me the rest of the day. I'm not one of those flirty types but I'm really friendly/outgoing...anyhow we couldn't resolve our differences, he never got over his insecurities and it didn't work out.

try hitting her?

Have you tried being flirty in front of her? What's her reaction?

watch porn together. it will help your relationship

did you dump her yet?

Dump her [/thread]

The real question: What would Howard Zinn do?

still need pics of gf to make an informed response

I had this same problem with a girl, I mentioned it to her and it turned out to be not a huge deal. Just don't say nothing if it really bothers you.

my mom's flirty like this, and even though i'd probably really jealous, my dad seems to get along just fine.

i imagine it's something that just comes with maturity. i really liked the post above, but alternatively i'd suggest just recognizing that it's a problem with you and not her.

this obv

i have not read anything besides the title of this post, but break up with her.