Beyond my posting suggestion, this for sure.

UCD,

make sure she is on the pill and even if she says she is start pulling out

well I will be perfectly honest this female was about everything I've ever wanted. the only thing she was missing pretty much was boobs, but even after awhile I didn't care because of how much I loved her + how much other stuff she has going on about her

for 3 years our relationship was awesome.

about a year and some months ago, her mother passed away and her dad remarried almost immediately. she is also recently college graduated and consistently freaks out about whether or not she'll make it to med school.

I understood this and did what I could to help her through everything. She is constantly mean and badgering and always says mean things now. Some gems include:

1. Im going to add Guy X on FB to flirt with him to make you jealous
2. Get me bigger engagement ring
3. Why do you think other girls are pretty? Don't think that.

the truth is, I have I think fallen out of love with her in the last 12 months. Everything was awesome before and now its not..

Finally, when I told her I just didn't want to be with her, she told me I HAD to break up with her in person because otherwise thats disrespectful...this pretty much was the nail in the coffin. still trying to control me when I break away is a big no no

Yeah just end it doesn't seem worth it at all.

After four years that she wants some assurances that it is at least on a marriage track doesn't seem all the strange. It isn't like you are a year into this. I realize you are still young but this is why you don't date the same girl for all of university. Do you live together?

The context of the other statements is important to their meaning.

lol, as soon as my gf says 1 to me thats a dealbreaker

if UCDLaCrosse posts anything about his relationship on fb in the next 24hrs i'm going to troll the **** out of it

fixed for ya

I wanna troll the **** out of Mullen when he gives advice relating to gfs, but I'm too nice.

some of my friends say this is typical of chicks to be kind of nuts (asian ones in particular) but tbh I didn't think my gf was like this before **** went bad for her. guess its just time to move on?

Do as I say, not as I do...ldo

move on is an understatement

you should run away really fast while also leaving behind flares to throw her off your scent when she tries to chase you and/or kill you

I'm a little shocked people think this girl is that bad. The situation is horrible but she is behaving the way you'd expect a girl who has been with the same guy since she was 17/18 is supposed to behave. If you don't want that then don't date your high school girlfriend through all of university. If you turn the burner on and wait till it gets nice and hot then press your hand into it you don't blame the oven for burning you.

It is also an interesting situation of can someone who had a GF though all of university function well after breaking up with her. I think he'd be way behind on his dating skills because he missed out on university.

I'm not necessarily surprised by her behavior but yes it's bad and she sounds pretty crazy. Now that he mentioned she's Asian all I can think of is that scene in the Social Network where Andrew Garfield's gf tries to light his room on fire.

While he did miss out on dating experiences with new girls some of what he did should still transfer over. It's important to stay social/keep in shape/not get complacent while you're in relationships in case stuff like this happens. You should at the very least have a few girls in your extended social circle as short-term options to get you back in the game.

/musicgeekout

http://www.youtube.com/user/sakura4250

/endmusicgeekout

he hit single status on fb today. i would have told him to wait it out a few days and see how he feels. also, that way it's not as a dramatic change to his life when it happens. but i'm sure he'll be fine. glglgl

link her to this thread imo

we need some crazy up in here

I'm surprised. I didn't expect him to do it.

lol def. not going to link her here...she's pretty torn up as it is.

lol wtf who are you

There are 3 three really nerdy kids in my physics class that stand up and salute our physics prof when he walks in at the beginning of each class, and will stand there until he says "at ease." To be fair, our physics professor is a boss and has a great sense of humor. Today he comes in with 3 scrolls wrapped with ribbons and says they're for the "atom smashers brigade" and hands them out to them one by one - "here you are lieutenant", "sergeant", "admiral." They open them and they are letters of honorable discharge. And our prof says "And now you can stop doing that every lecture." Such a boss.

like a boss as far as I know.

This is random but i was recently called out for being "rude" when i said watch out (instead of excuse me) when i was trying to get by some people. I say it in a non threatening way and it was the first time i had a problem with it. Anyone else say watch out instead of excuse me ?

next time say "hot stuff comin thru" with a really gay accent

"move bitch! get out the way! get out the way bitch! get out the way!