Originally Posted by twelve yr old
Ok so here's the basic laydown with me.
I already wrote about this one before on here but anyway, a month into school I was approached by my RA who I thought was pretty chill at the time, she says to me
"hey sam, I hear you have a fake id. Do you mind showing it to me, I promise not to get you in trouble, I'm just curious as to what it looks like."
I am trying to build a trustful relationship with her, so I show it to her. She looks at it gives it back to me, and I think thats the end of it. Week later, she tells me some ******** story how she told a friend that one of her residents had a fake id. That friend told the head RA person, and now she has to report me under orders from her boss. A fake id is 5 points at my school (10=kicked out). I wind up getting 5 points for this fake id. This just pretty much proved to me that my RA is just a horrible person, and never to trust her again. Before I met with the dean about the fake id, she also wrote up me and 3 friends for drinking while watching monday night football in my room, which resulted in me getting another 2 points. (now at 7, yippee!)
Fast forward to last Sunday, Superbowl ****ing Sunday. Me and a friend come back to my dorm pretty wasted at 11:20 (hour after game ended). He knocks on her door and says in a loud voice, "What up K-Dog." I haven't done **** at this point btw. She comes up and says shes writing us up, he says **** you to her and we keep walking. She sends in report, we had to meet with the dean today. I still haven't done **** btw. Dean is a complete ****ing *******, really just scum of the earth kind of guy, and somehow manages to say that I am guilty by association, even though I didn't do jack ****. He says that I'm lucky he hasn't sent me home, and that next time he sees me, i'm packing my **** up and leaving. (Still don't know what my punishment will be for this stint- it doesn't fall under the points system).
So to sum up, I had a fake id, was caught drinking beer in my room while watching mnf, and was with a loud drunk friend after quiet hours. This somehow culminates in me having 7 points and being 1 strike away from getting kicked out. My RA is ****, she goes around looking for kids to bust, whereas other RA's don't go looking for trouble, and their halls are points free.
So, wtf do I do? The dean is making up his own rules pretty much (couldn't find guilty by association anywhere in the student handbook), and my RA is powertripping hardcore, but she did **** up when she told me she drank 2/3 of a fifth of rum in her room last saturday. I wrote a letter to the dean handling RAs, and she said she'll look into it, but won't be able to tell me what happens because of privacy laws. I'm putting a copy of the letter I sent in below.
Dear Housing Department,
I am a resident on the 3rd floor of Harris Hall. My resident assistant is XXXX. XXXX and I have had our differences, which have involved her sending in three reports about me. I understand these circumstances involved her fulfilling her duties as a resident assistant. However, I do not believe that she should be allowed to continue being a resident assistant. Last Saturday, February 5th, Katie approached me in the hall and told me that on the previous night she had drank 2/3 of a fifth of alcohol all by herself in her room (she told many other residents the same story). Now I believe this is a serious problem. Legally, she is not 21 years of age, and morally, she should not be the one sending in reports of residents for drinking when she herself consumes alcohol on the hall. I hope to receive word back from you on how this issue will be resolved.
Sincerely,
