Alright so here is my problem,

Going to back around february: This girl, lets call her Lucy (beautiful, smart, funny) and I had started to get closer. By about april we were practically dating and everything was going great. This continued all though the rest of our high school senior year as well as the summer. Things were great we were always together and having a lot of fun. The thing we were faced with was leaving, we were both going to different college, me west coast and her midwest ish. I knew this was going to happen and had accepted the fact that I wold need to move on. The thing is I just can't shake her off my mind. Every girl I meet or think about I'm constantly comparing them to Lucy. I wish things didn't have to be the way they were (different colleges) and stuff. Is this normal or what do I do. Keep in mind that while we were ''together'' we were talking 24/7 and always with each other. I just cannot get her off my mind now and I have no idea what to do.

Thanks for the advice

P.S. - we still text every so often with the rare phone call but that stuff just makes it worse.

[x] op made an account just to ask girl help
[ ] op's situation will end well

It's probably normal to think about her, but it fades away over time. Just stop trying to compare to Lucy, and instead be focused on meeting new people, living with new friends...etc. You guys don't correspond with each other as much as some other couples I know, so you're on your way. Just hang in there!

this is right... cosign

You'll get over her eventually. Use her banging new guys at school as justification for banging new girls.

when you were "together," did you ever close with her or do anything besides talk and hang out? if not, then you guys can only be considered really good friends and you have no shot with her anyway. go nail some college sluts yo.

Get some new ass. You got girl one-i-tis, she's nothing special and she's probably being railed by 9 new guys now. Get off your ass and get some new chicks!

yes, that is very important question. have u and said girl bumped uglies and if yes, did it happen more than once?

otherwise you need to change your focus - which you should do regardless, but if oyu never humped this girl then you DEFINITELY are wasting your valuable university thoughts/time

yeah, she is probably getting train run on her by the football team as I type.



She is probably the cream in an oreo dp if you know what i mean

aha lol

Asking a bunch of e-dweebs in a poker forum is probably not your best bet for girl advice.

While these types certainly exist around here, there are plenty of guys that aren't social ******s.