Yeah, I was going to ask if all men were truly so animalistic, or if it was just this one?
Also, saying "I'd hit it" is a bit different than actually doing it as well.

Make no mistake - if you are a very good looking man, the amount of sex thrown at you by women can be obscenely high. You just have to be above average in terms of looks. I think some men who have ridiculous amounts of sex just don't talk about it that much because it's almost like people get jealous. I've known guys who even deny it because they don't want other guys hating on them all the time, and they don't want girls getting whiff of it because they all think you are a scumbag. Yes, it actually CAN work against you.

You can be an average or even below average looks as a woman and get plenty.

I would say in general, it's easier for women to get sex, but the reason for that is because men are willing to have sex with almost any woman.

Let me say that again. Men will have sex with almost all women. I'm not talking about 0s, crackheads, girls missing teeth, physical disabilities, those are all obviously out of bounds. Everything else is in play. Know that 1-10 scale? 1s can be considered under the right circumstances. Women may fantasize about men who are somewhat decent men, so I think their range is somewhere between 3s and 4s and above. Men's lower range is almost everything.

I can't tell you how many times I've talked to guys and they say "I would never go out in public with her" and you ask "would you hit it if no one knew?" and they would almost always say yes.

Why is having sex with a fat girl and riding a moped similiar? They are both fun as hell until your friends see you doing it.

Ask a woman what the worst sex she ever had was, and you'll get a long story. Ask a man, and you'll hear "it was great".

Some truth to it.

Most men that I know would probably fit in this category, based on what they say at least.

Of course, just because someone says, "I'd still hit it" doesn't mean they'd actually hit it. Sometimes that's just something people say for various reasons.

It could also mean, "I'd hit it.....under optimum conditions in certain circumstances."

I'm the same way as daveT. To me a woman's personal charm and presence are a strong part of her beauty, and if you take that out, you lose the beauty too. So they can even turn quite unattractive.

A woman would have to be flawlessly beautiful to be beautiful enough to overcome an ugly character IMO. Even just long enough for a screw. It's hard to be hot for someone who repulses you IMO. Even when I can objectively admire an unpleasant woman's looks, the yuck factor is too visceral for me to push aside. I'd rather we just not be in the same room together.

Disclaimer : I only hear about these things, I don't know about them firsthand, all things I've observed through friends.

Ok, back to our regularly scheduled program.

Dang, I wanted a TR ...

Damn, this is a good post.

Just one more reason I hate that I'm old enough to be your father.

Ashley Cole for example. Sometimes you get sick of having steak every night and desire a Big Mac every now and then.

Some men feel bad about cheating and stay faithful. Others don't.

This never stopped you before

I was in my 30s before I figured out that most guys didn't get hit on all the time.
Of course, I found out by putting on a lot of weight, having my hair start to go gray, and generally not being young and pretty any more.


That sucked.

Wil,

you do not have to be a "very good looking man" to have lots of sex thrown at you. It's all about confidence and actually being able to throw out the feeling that you actually like women, and are comfortable in their presence, no matter how good looking they happen to be.

Getting laid by a beautiful woman is not difficult. Getting her to stick around for longer than a dalliance is the hard part.

lol....yeah, but I feel like I know Snoopy and she's part of our little group. It'd be somehow...gauche...to make the attempt.

she's too old for you, isn't she.

lol...hey, I'm dating someone who is 36. Young enough to look great, old enough to know what to do with it.

True, but I've had friends who were pretty high on the looks scale and confided in me how much was thrown at them. I was pretty shocked, I mean, thats when I realized I wasn't getting nearly as much.

Phone numbers slipped to them at weddings while their husband was at the table. Moms. Sisters. Neighbors. The girl who works at the counter. Librarians. Tarot readers. Naked picture texts. Straight up "Do you want to have sex with me tonight" questions. BJ on his birthday in the bathroom by a girl he MET ON THE WAY TO THE BATHROOM.

I've had offers and all, but some stuff was just depressing. On the way to the bathroom? Christ.

Plus I'm in complete and total love with somebody already. He's ruined other men for me.

Yes, and lord knows that men never lie.

I told you, I'm married already.

Quite being such a stud of a man, then.

That reminds me of something.

Something....

Im generally too honest too early in a relationship

I hate games, but what i hate most if a girl bitching about something months after the fact when its been there all along. I speak my mind from the beginning and would like women to do the same

okay it's a deal.

ok katy, when you and I start dating I'm keeping you to it

When we start dating we're going to be really blunt with each other. No sugar-coating anything. Just complete brutal honesty. We'll see who cries first.

I will cry first.

DUCY?

If they were smart they would be wearing support hose. I've never been to a hooters, but if they're weird and brown, I bet that's what they are.